1'm 16, he's 20, met online, should i meet him in person? |
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 Apr 3 2004, 12:12 AM
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 doot doot doot  Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954  |
becareful wen u meet him!
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Apr 3 2004, 09:44 AM
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QUOTE(Dr_Robotio @ Apr 1 2004, 9:29 PM) If he says he's 40, he's 12. OMG! How did you know? Hehe... Just kidding...Bring the biggest guy you know to go with you and pretend he's your brother... If the guy seems good, tell him the truth... But don't go anywhere without your "brother".. |
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| *instantmusic* |
Apr 19 2004, 08:03 PM
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bring your best friend, and a trustworthy "big" [MALE] friend. you'll need a pair of trusty nunchucks, good sneakers (incase you need to run). wear something that cannot easily be taken off (dont wear sweats). Oh I have this down to the very last detail, but thats all you really need. have your best friend have a can of mace on her. your big male friend should wear something that makes him feel comfortable incase he needs to rumble.
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Apr 19 2004, 08:21 PM
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 Mz Nina Nikole Group: Member Posts: 1,343 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,273 |
yes bring a close friend if anything. but pleaseeee becareful!
have u known this guy for awhile now? just please b careful! i kno this one girl who met a guy online. that guy is one of my friends, they talk 3 weeks online, and he bought a plan ticket for her to come to NEw york...they f**ked..and she got pregnant the next month..now they have a baby...!! weird right? |
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Apr 19 2004, 08:33 PM
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QUOTE(mznina @ Apr 19 2004, 6:21 PM) yes bring a close friend if anything. but pleaseeee becareful! have u known this guy for awhile now? just please b careful! i kno this one girl who met a guy online. that guy is one of my friends, they talk 3 weeks online, and he bought a plan ticket for her to come to NEw york...they f**ked..and she got pregnant the next month..now they have a baby...!! weird right? omg, she had a baby??  Wow... ooh, no, I'm not gonna do that  Well, I'm not gonna do anything like that. I still haven't met him or anything, but we might meet up this weekend. I've been talking to him like a lot the past couple of weeks, so I'm getting to know him a lot better... he's reallyy innocent  so I don't think I have to be too worried about... stuff
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Apr 19 2004, 08:51 PM
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 baby, be good to me Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,358 |
gosh i can just see this instance in a pbS commerical...whatever you do don't meet him alone you never know what can possible happen, my friend met someone online and i don't trust it at all. i think you should meet him maybe but definately with a few friends!
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Apr 19 2004, 09:56 PM
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QUOTE bring your best friend, and a trustworthy "big" [MALE] friend. you'll need a pair of trusty nunchucks, good sneakers (incase you need to run). wear something that cannot easily be taken off (dont wear sweats). Oh I have this down to the very last detail, but thats all you really need. have your best friend have a can of mace on her. your big male friend should wear something that makes him feel comfortable incase he needs to rumble. Very true. For all you know, he could be a 68 year old raper. Bring FRIENDS...Big GUY friends... friends and a cell phones. I might sound like I'm joking, but you should buy pepper spray, just incase, and be sure your wearing sneakers. BRING BIG GUY FRIENDS! |
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Apr 19 2004, 10:05 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 228 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,737 |
i've heard so many bad things happen to people who went to meet people online, but i guess if you feel that you need to meet him, then take precautions. one of my friends met this guy she met online in the middle of the night. i would say she's crazy, but she did bring her dog and a big knife =x.. and she's pretty big and diesel. but turns out the two of them clicked and i think she's still going out with him. but then again, the other side is all the rapes, kidnappings etc.. so just be careful.
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Apr 20 2004, 01:08 PM
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 fragile Group: Member Posts: 1,044 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,807 |
okay to me...meeting people online and then meeting them in person is super dangerous since a couple of people i know went to jail for it....but if you talk to him longer then a year then i think it is cool....but other than that you really don't know what he is like in person or even how he really looks....but to you the choice is yours....its just that i don't want to see someone getting raped or anything because of meeting someone off the internet
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Apr 20 2004, 02:52 PM
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Bring a gun.
or your dog |
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Apr 20 2004, 03:35 PM
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Go with like two other friends, and have your cellphone and pepper spray with you. And...do you really trust this guy? Seems so shady to me...
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Apr 20 2004, 03:49 PM
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 lil azn supermodel... =] Group: Member Posts: 461 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,841 |
ehh ive met plenty of ppl i met online, none of them have harmed me, i met a 21 yr old once, but that doesnt mean im for this, dont give him accurate details bout wat ur gona wear or how ur gona do ur hair, cuz then he can easily pick u out, if he asks, tell him u change ur mind a lot n that ur undecisive bout ur clothes [thas wat i always sed]
QUOTE(waccoon @ Apr 2 2004, 12:31 AM) dont make it clear that you're waiting for him. just walk around the block, if you dont see him, walk around again. if hes not there in 20 minutes, leave. ^^ exactly n make sure ta check him out first, ta make sure hes by himself n that he wasnt lyin bout age, u sed that he was innocent or sumthin ta that degree, keep in mind that ppl arent always wat they seemone thing that bothers me is that hes willin ta drive 2hrs jus ta c u....ta me that means he wants sumthin....most likely sex bring friends n jus b really careful 
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Apr 20 2004, 05:49 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
don't go by yourself .. be very very careful .. you never know .. when you meet people on line they may be something completely different from what they make themselves appear to be .. play it smart and take precautions ..
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Apr 20 2004, 06:59 PM
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 s a r a h r o s e <3 Group: Member Posts: 575 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,944 |
itd be kinda scary going alone, n for all you kno he might be an old gray haired weirdo! come with a friend just in case, if you REALLY want to see for yourself.
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Apr 21 2004, 04:52 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
i would definately not suggest meeting sumone u met on the internet....... dangerous stuff, like i mean even if he turns out perfectly normal, better safe den sorry rite?
if u do insist on meeting him, then meet sumwhere public, and bring a friend or 2, and a celly if u can |
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Apr 22 2004, 06:00 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
erm... how long have u known him since? thats scary...if u knew him only 1 week-_-;;...or 1 month-_-;; not enuf~~ u hab to get to kno him more...cus thats wat i did~~ lols hahaha.. me and justin^^;; we met online the very first time~~ haha... lalala
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Apr 22 2004, 03:40 PM
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<--asdoua hfkawhekf Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,373 |
bring a friend or a knife! but seriously. u shouldnt go alone if uve never met him!
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Apr 23 2004, 02:53 AM
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 carmi Group: Member Posts: 106 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,020 |
i went with my best friend wen she met this guy she didnt kno and it wuz all fine even tho i wuz a litle scared my self b4 i met him hehe but im sure it ll b ok if ur with sum 1 hu can punch as well as me
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Apr 23 2004, 11:53 AM
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yeah bring a friend. you can never be too sure :)
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Apr 23 2004, 09:28 PM
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hmm... i'd meet him if i really wanted to... just bring more than 2 friends with you,... just in case. and you should check him out before to see if he's good-looking... if he's not, ditch him and say sorry about it afterwards.
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Apr 23 2004, 09:35 PM
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 PHIL ˝ Group: Member Posts: 2,663 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,982 |
THATS MY DREAM!!! To be way older than my girlfriend. kinda illegal but i like my girls young. i can get one my age right now but not my style. im kinda wierd like that. not fair mexicans can do it.
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Apr 23 2004, 10:19 PM
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QUOTE(F_L_I_P @ Apr 23 2004, 7:35 PM) THATS MY DREAM!!! To be way older than my girlfriend. kinda illegal but i like my girls young. i can get one my age right now but not my style. im kinda wierd like that. not fair mexicans can do it. lol, what's that supposed to mean?? lol, well yeah, I'm weird like that too. I prefer older guys, just cuz they're more mature, and smarter(most of the time) |
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Apr 24 2004, 06:15 PM
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 Mileage Runner Group: Member Posts: 1,316 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,458 |
Indeed do not go at this alone, be careful, stay somewhat alert (not a whole lot or else you might not enjoy your get-together) and if you suspect something, consult your friends.
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Apr 24 2004, 10:06 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 364 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,316 |
haha this sounds like stories my mom would tell me to make me stop using AIM...
if you really want to meet him that bad, then go in a group! and bring pepperspray... |
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Apr 24 2004, 10:16 PM
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 angel~^^* Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,302 |
i recently had a similar situation as yours......
but i strongly and personally dont recommend you two meeting together. That person may even be 40, or even a gurl, based upon what is happening these days... 
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