1'm 16, he's 20, met online, should i meet him in person? |
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
 Apr 1 2004, 04:29 PM
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Hey! Ok, well, here's the situation. I met this guy online a while back...like a year ago when I still lived up in a lil city called Rialto
 I talked to him online a few times, he seems really cool, he's sweet and all that. Well, like 11 months ago, I moved to San Diego (2 hrs away) and I was talking to him the other night online and he asked if we could hang out one of these day, so I was like "Alright, that'll be cool". I gave him my number, and he called me yesterday. He's supposed to call me today and see if we're gonna meet up one of these days. BTW, I'm 16, and he's 20. He's gonna drive 2 hours to get here, and yeah. I've NEVER met a guy in person that I've first met online (outside of school) so yeah. I dunno if I should go through with it. I've talked to a couple of people, they just said not to be alone when I meet him... if I meet him. i dunno, what do you think? 
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Apr 1 2004, 04:38 PM
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 Doh!  Group: Member Posts: 393 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,507 |
I would definitely say to not meet him alone!!!
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| *jooleeah* |
Apr 1 2004, 04:40 PM
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DO NOT MEET HIM ALONE.
don't ya think it's kinda scary? might be some kinda...weirdo messed up guy. take a guy that's big and buff so nothing bad may happen  or just bring a couple a friends? iunno.
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Apr 1 2004, 05:12 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
ur frenz r rite. its ok to meet hym jus make sure that ur not alone cuz u neva noe.
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Apr 1 2004, 06:12 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
its ok to meet him but bring someone with you, u never know what he'll do and wait till he gains ur trust
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Apr 1 2004, 06:13 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,008 |
what if the guy is not wut expect to see
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| *Podomaht* |
Apr 1 2004, 06:21 PM
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no offense, what if hes 40 year old rapist. please, be carefull, bring some friends along.
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Apr 1 2004, 06:26 PM
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hmm. you can go meet him if you really want to :D but like how every here said.. DON'T YOU DARE GO ALONE!! that last i'd want to see on tv is something about a sixteen year old getting raped by someone she meant on the internet =p i'd be like, SAY IT AIIN'TT SOOOOO!!
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Apr 1 2004, 06:28 PM
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 barbies token black friend Group: Member Posts: 496 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,165 |
if you really want to meet this person dont do it alone anything can happen im not going to lecture you because you 16 not 5 your old enough to make you own decisions and your not foreveranoutkast because id lecture her until her ears burned. anyway i dont like the idea of meeting people online unless i realllly know them for over a year. but even then its dangerous because hey u could get hurt
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Apr 1 2004, 06:30 PM
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 kill is love... Group: Member Posts: 395 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 84 |
girl! i know u r smart enough to not meet him alone, but i think u should get a picture or somethin' before u meet him, this might sound shallow but wha if he's ugly??? or worse...wha if he's a 20 yr old that lives with his parents, watches porn all day and fantasize bout 16 yr old girls?!?!?!!? jsut be careful...
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| *lookitskim* |
Apr 1 2004, 06:33 PM
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Seriously, Do NOT go alone. Always go with a friend and tell him to go with a friend. U never know what he's capable of doin. If u do go alone with him... meet him up at a public place like the mall. Do not go in the car with him. Cause he can just take u somewhere... oh let's say the MOUNTAIN. Well, anyways... what ever u decide always bring some kind of pepper spray with u
 or a gun. which ever works for u.. Oh yea... haha i met my bf from online too... and we been together for 3 yrs. But i did not get in the car with him... i just met him up at star bucks.. hehehe I brought my pepper spray.. |
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| *islandgirl4eva* |
Apr 1 2004, 06:39 PM
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I don't think you should go meet him. If he's someone you can't talk to your parents about, odds are the situation will not go well. Please, whatever you do, think first and be safe.
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Apr 1 2004, 07:03 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
Meeting a guy you met online is something I'd never do ... I'd advise you to bring at least 20 friends with you
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Apr 1 2004, 08:51 PM
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 mizgeralyn ;D Group: Member Posts: 361 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,888 |
flatout NO! atleast..... i wouldnt..! it could be a 70 year old.. WOMAN for all you know??!
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Apr 1 2004, 09:29 PM
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If he says he's 20, he's 40
If he says he's 40, he's 12. Sorry baby...find another man |
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Apr 1 2004, 10:11 PM
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 Squirrelly Member Group: Member Posts: 385 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,267 |
Wear a disguise, and go with your friends to said location, if you see a 20-year old (riiight...) then scope him out for a few minute and then leave! Never meet him!!! EVER!!!! EVEEER!!!
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Apr 1 2004, 10:39 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
If you truly trust him, then you can go through with it, but bring like a at least 1 girl and 2 guys with you. I mean, not EVERYONE is bad online, but you have to be sure he is the real thing. There are ALOT OF FAKERS online, as you can tell. I am one of them.
 jk lolBut anyhow, just know what you're getting into. And make sure you're with him when there is daylight in a public place. Everyone's saying to be careful and probably not meet him, but there's a really slim chance he could be a true person. You have hm.. I'd say a 25% chance. I say this because there STILL is a high number of people who are kind and are true about themselves online, but there is STILL alot of FAKERS out there  I live in San Diego too ^_^ WOW, 2 hours to meet you? O_o" wow lol my bf probably won't even do that for me ahhas. Well okay, he probably would.... SOMETIMES lol |
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Apr 1 2004, 10:49 PM
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 i am a smoe Group: Member Posts: 119 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,009 |
ahahah there is a chance he actually is 20
i've met people online that i turned out to know in real life, 1 of them went to my school, another goes to my school, and another was friends with my cousin  ahahahaha like everyone else said though, be sure that you take a few friends |
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Apr 1 2004, 11:08 PM
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Doh! Group: Member Posts: 393 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,507 |
QUOTE(Dr_Robotio @ Apr 1 2004, 9:29 PM) If he says he's 20, he's 40 If he says he's 40, he's 12. Sorry baby...find another man Lmao!! That is sooo true
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Apr 1 2004, 11:30 PM
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 muted imperfections <3 Group: Official Member Posts: 3,295 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,260 |
hmm...20 yrs. old with a 16 yr old?? i dont think its a good idea to meet him. i mean how well do u know this guy u know?
 jackie
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Apr 1 2004, 11:31 PM
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 We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
paranoid people, i swear. she's know this person since before she moved. if you want to meet him - go for it. but dont make it clear that you're waiting for him. just walk around the block, if you dont see him, walk around again. if hes not there in 20 minutes, leave.
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Apr 1 2004, 11:52 PM
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 703 Represent! Group: Member Posts: 816 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,032 |
Can you say statutory? But seriously, be careful. Don't go alone.
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Apr 2 2004, 12:24 AM
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LOL... some of you guys are hilarious with the whole "he says he's 20, but is really 40" thing
You guys are cool. Well yeah, I'm pretty sure he is 20, and he's not a fake. I talked to him again today (he actually called). And yeah. I'm pretty sure i still wanna meet him, but of course I will not be alone. And don't worry, I can take care of myself  ...ooh, but then again he is a boxer lol... well yeah. I'm still getting to know him in the phone conversations, and he seems pretty genuine.  Thanks for the advice... keep it comming I'm still not 100% sure if I'm going through with it
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Apr 2 2004, 05:45 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
Yep don't be alone with him. Meet at an open place like Starbucks. Bring your friends along. Then sit at a table with the guy and make sure that your friends are sitting at the tables near you. Just make sure the guy doesn't find out. :D
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Apr 2 2004, 09:47 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
just bring your closest friend with you or something...
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