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 Apr 24 2005, 06:50 PM
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 Want fries with that?  Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652  |
This one guy and I are fighting, my friend is stressing over it because she wants us to be friends. He wants me to "change my personality" and I refused. He complains to her, stressing her out even more. I NEVER complained to her, I didn't want to stress her out...and he just keeps going even after we told him. Yes...I know...he's a biznatch.
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Apr 24 2005, 06:53 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
Tell her not to worry bout it. Its between u and the guy. And besides, u dont have to change ur personality to make someone happy. If he was a true friend, he wouldnt care bout ur personality, he SHOULD be friends with u for ur personality and wouldnt care for u to change it
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Apr 24 2005, 07:23 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
You don't have to change for anyone....Tell her not to worry so much because she can't help what's happening and it's not her fault that you and that guy aren't friends...
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Apr 24 2005, 08:01 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
if i were u, i would tell the guy to not tell ur friend..and dont change ur self unless u want to...
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Apr 24 2005, 09:47 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
tell your friend that she shouldnt stress herself out for other people's problems that arent hers. and DONT change your personality for this person.
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Apr 24 2005, 11:34 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
she shouldn't be trying to help you guys that much.. it's between you and the guy.
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Apr 24 2005, 11:40 PM
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You should never change for ANYONE! You are your own person and thats what people love about you, man screw that guys he sounds like an @$$h*** and really doesn't seem worth the effort to become friends with seeing as he's making no effort whatsoever, your friend is just going to have to understand that you can't be friends with everybody...
She shouldn't be stressing so bad about this anyways... |
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Apr 25 2005, 05:24 PM
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Want fries with that? Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 |
Believe me, he is. He stalks me to cuss me out. -_- And I won't change for anyone. Thanks all!
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Apr 25 2005, 05:29 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,591 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,305 |
Tell the guy to deal with it. You don't have to change anything, if you aren't comfortable with the new you then don't change at all.
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Apr 25 2005, 06:11 PM
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 atleast pretend to care? Group: Member Posts: 262 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,176 |
Try to keep your friend outta it cuz this is between you & that guy. Maybe you and that guy can come to a peaceful solution to keep that friend of yours happy..
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Apr 25 2005, 06:14 PM
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 un cool. Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,269 |
tell her not to worry about it. but if you three were close friends to begin with, then i can see why she's a little concerned. but, maybe you can your friend (the one your fighting with) shoud try to pach things up. i mean, try to solve the problem so you all can me happy.
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Apr 28 2005, 10:05 PM
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tell her to just stay out of it. she shouldn`t be in between the situation of you and this guy. don`t let the tension build up more, either don`t talk to him or compromise.
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Apr 28 2005, 10:08 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
tell him to stop complaining. and that you're not going to change for someone like him
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Apr 28 2005, 10:20 PM
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 Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
...first off you DONT change for anyone. You are yourself and only YOU can dictate those changes.
Secondly...this is a personal matter between two people... ...having him bring a third person to take his emotional stress out on shows he's a coward and a person who doesn't have very high self esteem. Yes he isn't too bright when it comes to trivial issues or life matters at that if he needs to hide behind someone else. Don't worry...everything will be ok. You need to take charge. -Kevyn |
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