Sexuality Confusion., Needs some opinions. Options

[Haruka]

I know you got alot of answers, but my cousin gave me the best advice and with best wishes for you, i pass it along:

You are young. Experimenting is the ONLY way you will ever find your answer, but in the end you may not even have an acuall definite answer, but you will eventually know what you want. You cannot expect to make a decision this early on, because you have yet to live out your life.

I will add a little more:

I have gone throught the same thing, and i'm in that situation where i'm asking myself who i am and what i want. Do i want kids? Am I really a lesbian? I won't know for a W H I L E, but in the meantime, i'm enjoying life and experimenting with whatever come my way (doesn't mean drugs though hahahha, that's no good for ne one) o and i'm only 17, so yea, if i don't have the answer yet, don't expect to anytime soon

Enjoy life! don't stress too much about something that you can't control unless you've tried it all. Just try it all and see what you want =] good luck!

[xXYouMeBedNowXx]

Well very simply this is what happened.

I won't say who it is, cause she is here on cB.

Apparantly, she read the topic. I made it while we weren't so sure about what we felt about each other, and coincidentally, she happened to bump into this. She had feelings for me, not knowing what I looked like, or imperfections that I was subject to, only the things that I have told her and what she has read. So apparantly, we talked about it. How sexuality is an interesting factor. Before I met her, I was pretty locked on Homosexuality. The possibility of me being with a woman, and the fact that I could enjoy life as a normal person, didn't come up until then. But when certain feelings come into place, when certain things came up and molded a bond without the connection of factor, it stands out.

Apparantly, after she read, she had no new opinions about me. We both agreed that a relationship can truly be based off something emotional, that sexuality is just another factor that can be overidden by the feelings for one another.

Small things shouldn't hold something big like love back. Even if sometimes those small things may seem impossible to go around.

[angelrevelation]

i think it depends what sort of relationships you have with females. if it's just friendship wise, then yes i do think you're gay. but if you dont like guys emotionally, then... i dunno

[han1017]

if you find guys more sexualy attractive then i would say...you're gay.

[blondisnirvana]

You shouldn't rush to define your sexuality. It took me two years to actually realise that I'm gay. Take some time to think

[xXYouMeBedNowXx]

I believed Four years of wondering would come up with some answer by now, but I guess not.