asking a girl to hang out, ....i feel bad |
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 Apr 23 2005, 12:27 AM
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i asked this girl to go to malls with me, just hanging out as friends. she said she'll reply me later, and then she asked "do u usually ask girls to go to malls with u?" i think she's implying that there's something wrong with me asking a girl to go to malls. i frankly told her, it would be just frends hanging out together.
truth is, i like her, but still i intended to ask it as a friendly activity. now i think i am giving this girl a hard time, and i am thinking about telling her never mind about this mall business. can someone suggest what i should do? |
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Apr 23 2005, 01:07 AM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
were you friends with her in the first place? by her reaction, she seems suprised that you asked her to hang out with you.
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Apr 23 2005, 01:23 AM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
Probably because she never went to the mall with a guy friend before.
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Apr 23 2005, 02:19 AM
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QUOTE(im_s0_sp0ngey @ Apr 22 2005, 11:23 PM) Probably because she never went to the mall with a guy friend before.  yep, that's what she told me |
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Apr 23 2005, 07:04 AM
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QUOTE(im_s0_sp0ngey @ Apr 23 2005, 2:23 AM) Probably because she never went to the mall with a guy friend before. Yes, I think that may be it too, but I dont think you should call it off. I think going to the mall for you guys to hang out and get to know each other better is a good idea |
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Apr 23 2005, 07:36 AM
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Maybe you should invite more people to go with you guys.
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Apr 23 2005, 07:53 AM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
just go to the mall with her.
it's not a big deal... |
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Apr 23 2005, 09:01 AM
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She might think you want to go shopping with her rather than hanging out at the mall...
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Apr 23 2005, 09:46 AM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
QUOTE(bill7531 @ Apr 23 2005, 1:27 AM) i asked this girl to go to malls with me, just hanging out as friends. she said she'll reply me later, and then she asked "do u usually ask girls to go to malls with u?" i think she's implying that there's something wrong with me asking a girl to go to malls. i frankly told her, it would be just frends hanging out together. truth is, i like her, but still i intended to ask it as a friendly activity. now i think i am giving this girl a hard time, and i am thinking about telling her never mind about this mall business. can someone suggest what i should do? She probaly asked you that because shes trying to see if she was the only one you invited to the mall. |
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Apr 23 2005, 09:53 AM
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 E=Fb Musicians Theory of Relativity Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,045 |
She's never ever hung out at the mall with a guy friend before? How old is she? I've hung out at the mall with so many guys (as friends), that it doesn't seem like a big deal.
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Apr 23 2005, 10:06 AM
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she prolly doesn't think theres anything wrong with going to the mall with you, but shes worried tha your playing her and doesn't know what your after.
 i know these things, darling.
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Apr 23 2005, 10:58 AM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
she wants to see if u like her. if u never invite a girl to go to the mall bfore then it might mean something if u invited her. dont call it off. just go n see wat happens.
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Apr 23 2005, 11:59 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
I think you should get to know her better....for you to ask her to hang out with you....or just ask more people to come so it'll be less awkward.
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Apr 23 2005, 01:13 PM
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 tie my shoe Group: Member Posts: 140 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,194 |
QUOTE Probably because she never went to the mall with a guy friend before. [FONT=Impact][SIZE=1][COLOR=blue]yup that's prolly it. but don't call it off. she prolly just nervous.[FONT=Impact][SIZE=1][COLOR=blue] |
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Apr 23 2005, 01:15 PM
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 Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
I'd just get other friends to come along and tell her that there'd be other people there, too.
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Apr 23 2005, 01:51 PM
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thanks for ur inputs guys, i think i would invite other frends, too
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Apr 23 2005, 02:05 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
she might have asked cause she's interested to see if you like her or just wanna hang out with her.
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Apr 23 2005, 09:14 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
she might think that you like her (which you do lol) and might be a little hesitant because you might ask her out or w.e., and isn't sure what to say yet? just ask more friends to come, and it'll be more comfortable for her
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