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 Apr 22 2005, 08:19 PM
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 Wow, i dont know whats going on...  Group: Member Posts: 1,439 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,977  |
I asked a girl out, and she said i'll have to think about it. And she didn't come back to me on it. I kinda feel like a rejection. But "Technically" It's not, right?
Ok but what does that mean? And i need some advice, cause i really want to go out with this girl. I dont know what to do. |
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Apr 22 2005, 08:23 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
uhmm.. how long has it been since you asked?
... i think it mightve been a rejection >< you could try asking around [her friends & stuff] to ask if she likes you =P good luck 
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Apr 22 2005, 08:24 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
Technically she hasn't rejected you yet, but depending on how long it's been, I could give you better advice.
If it's been a while, then she's probably not really interested or trying to let you down easily. If she were really interested, she would've given you quicker feedback. |
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Apr 22 2005, 08:26 PM
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To be honest with you when I tell a guy that I will "think about it" it usually is an easy way of letting him down..But hey thats just me. Maybe she really does like you and needs time to think
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Apr 22 2005, 08:28 PM
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 Holla if ya hate me Group: Member Posts: 2,386 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,819 |
Doug... admit that you got rejected.
Stage 1-Denial Bad stage.... im just kidding man, she prolly was embarrassed and was like "OMG he actually asked me out!" just give it time man. |
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Apr 22 2005, 08:40 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Well, yeah, give it time- it depends on how long ago it was. When my boyfriend first asked me out, I told him I'd think about it. It meant that I wasn't really sure, but I was a bit interested. We got to know each other better, and later, I did accept. So maybe she's interested, but shocked that you asked her and needs to think about it... Or maybe she did reject you. Give it some time.
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Apr 22 2005, 08:40 PM
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Wow, i dont know whats going on... Group: Member Posts: 1,439 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,977 |
Dayum, you guys respond quick!!
Anyway, it's not like it was a week thing, i asked her out so long ago its not even funny. |
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Apr 22 2005, 08:41 PM
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Holla if ya hate me Group: Member Posts: 2,386 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,819 |
QUOTE(uLoVeMikeRoch @ Apr 22 2005, 8:40 PM) Dayum, you guys respond quick!! Anyway, it's not like it was a week thing, i asked her out so long ago its not even funny.  Then uhhh.... just accept that you've been rejected? |
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Apr 22 2005, 08:42 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
If she waited longer than expected....then she's just not interested but trying to let you down easy. Or...she could just be shy and umm nervous and it'll take longer than expected to answer your question.....or she might just be looking around for other options...It could be anything. Why don't you go up to her and ask her again if she has decided yet? It might speed up the process a whole lot quicker.
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Apr 22 2005, 08:44 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
QUOTE(uLoVeMikeRoch @ Apr 22 2005, 9:40 PM) Dayum, you guys respond quick!! Anyway, it's not like it was a week thing, i asked her out so long ago its not even funny. Sorry to say, but I'm most certain that you've been rejected  How long would you say? like a month or something?? |
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Apr 22 2005, 08:59 PM
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 tie my shoe Group: Member Posts: 140 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,194 |
sorry dude if the girl hasn't given you an answer then that would mean you've been rejected easily. don't feel bad tho cuz at least she didn't say it straight up.
maybe you should be the one to say something. give her a call and be like "hey look i know you said you'll think about it but i been patiently waiting and i'm starting to think that the answer is no, if so just tell me straight up in an honest way so we won't hurt our friendship in any way" |
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Apr 23 2005, 05:34 PM
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Wow, i dont know whats going on... Group: Member Posts: 1,439 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,977 |
Oh crap, thats awesome. I'm gonna do that.
Yeah, but this girl is special. She's not your ordinary girl and i really wanna go out with her. And even if I did, technically it isnt. Cause she never said anything. |
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Apr 23 2005, 05:47 PM
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 Yea Yea. Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 |
i guess you were rejected if it's been a long time and have to face it
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Apr 23 2005, 06:26 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
i kinda think.. it means she's not gonna say yes and is afraid to reject you.. or is still thinking about it.
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Apr 23 2005, 08:33 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
I think u were rejected..
The only way to make sure is ask her.. |
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Apr 23 2005, 08:41 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
if she's gonna tell u that she's gonna think about it, and leave u hanging like that, it's not worth it.
find someone else. there's always a someone else. |
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Apr 23 2005, 09:20 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
hmm well a guy friend sort of (indirectly) asked me out... because his friend asked what i would say if he asked me.
 and i said i'd think about it. but i thought about it, and didn't want to. i havent had time to tell him though. but who knows what she's thinking. just bring the subject up with her again, see how it goes. good luck
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