He walks home with this other girl after class, But they used to have crushes, but now f |
 Apr 20 2005, 02:11 PM
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If only...  Group: Member Posts: 409 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,037  |
Here's my situation
My B/F goes to these meetings here at school. After the meetings, he walks home with this girl (which he had a crush on back in freshman year) I know they only friends right now, but they are REALLY REALLY close with each other. More than me and him right now... I know my man isn't that type to do something like that with that other girl,,, but it FEELS DEAD WRONG that ANOTHER GIRL IS WALKING MY MAN home to his door after those meetings... I just don't like that. How should I act upon this situation? |
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Apr 20 2005, 02:16 PM
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as long as they are just walking home you shouldnt have to worry. its normal to feel jealous, i feel jealous when my girlfriend goes over to her ex's house. but as long as you trust them you shouldnt worry about it.
if you really do keep having these feelings though you should talk to him about it. it does no good to try to hide these feelings because all it will do is build up inside of you and create different feelings and ideas. |
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| *mzkandi* |
Apr 20 2005, 03:05 PM
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QUOTE(rememberme @ Apr 20 2005, 3:11 PM) I know my man isn't that type to do something like that with that other girl,,,  You answered your own question right there. If you REALLY trust him then you wont worry that he is walking with another girl after a meeting. They are just walking, there are worser things he could be doing, ya know. Lighten up is what I say. |
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Apr 20 2005, 03:09 PM
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 "(A.k.a. H.K.T.)" Group: Member Posts: 202 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,787 |
im not good wit relationship,but y dont u ask,y he walk her........
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Apr 20 2005, 03:12 PM
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they are probably like best friends or she is flirting withing him and asking him to walk her home and she just can't say no or they are doing a school project..
you can walk with them.. |
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Apr 20 2005, 03:45 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 57 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,407 |
it's alright to feel jealousy, but as long as you trust him, there's nothing to worry about
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Apr 20 2005, 03:52 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
^ like what everyone said, as long as you trust him there's shouldn't be anything to be worried about. it's alright to feel jealousy, tell your bf how you feel about them walking home together. my bf does that too sometimes after he has afterschool sports. but i usually stay and watch him, or wait for him.
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Apr 20 2005, 04:01 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
It's ok to be jealous. My ex was like that too. I just kept on trusting him. I found out there was nothing going on between them.
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Apr 20 2005, 04:47 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
you never know, he may cheat on you, people change... people are never what you expect them to be, sometimes they are evil!!!... boys!!! geesh and they are selfish, i suggest you tell him about them being so close or even say you don't wnat him walking home with her anymore
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Apr 20 2005, 08:15 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
If you trust him at all...then you wouldn't worry so much. But if you're uncomfortable with it....talk to him...confront him about it..
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Apr 20 2005, 08:20 PM
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Well, you trust him, right? Don't worry about it. If he was truly a good boyfriend, then he shouldn't be doing anything with that girl. If you feel really uncomfortable about it, then just confront him about it. He should understand.
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Apr 20 2005, 10:10 PM
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well if you're really so worried, walk with him, and do all those girlfriend-ly duties that we all see on tv minus the screaming and stealing! you know what i mean, don't you?
oh, and don't nag. |
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Apr 20 2005, 11:13 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
confront your bf that it's bothering you...
that the whole situation is making you feel uncomfortable. or maybe you can talk to her about it... girl to girl, you know? you shouldn't have to hold it inside forever. good luck. 
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Apr 20 2005, 11:15 PM
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Tell your boyfriend that you're uncomfortable about it, but don't exactly like say "I don't want you walking home with her!" Too controlling.
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Apr 20 2005, 11:20 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
to have a relationshiop, you definately need to learn to trust each other.
apparently, this isnt shown in yours. learn how to trust him, and everything will get better. unless he really is "cheating" on you, but then again, you said "your man" isnt the type to do that. |
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Apr 21 2005, 01:54 PM
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If only... Group: Member Posts: 409 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,037 |
Well, like I said in my original post, I DO TRUST>
But it feels wierd that he's being walked home by another person. Kinda get where I'm comming from...??? |
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Apr 21 2005, 02:54 PM
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 The windmills of your mind .. Group: Member Posts: 1,317 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,699 |
Its fine to be jealous, i used to be too cause this girl used to follow my boyfriend around in uni and he told me about it lol, anyways as long as you trust him, there shouldnt be any problem. If he loves you then he could never cheat on you or anything, its probably that girl have some kinda obsession, jk jk lol
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Apr 21 2005, 05:39 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
QUOTE(SpedMonkee @ Apr 20 2005, 2:16 PM) as long as they are just walking home you shouldnt have to worry. its normal to feel jealous, i feel jealous when my girlfriend goes over to her ex's house. but as long as you trust them you shouldnt worry about it. if you really do keep having these feelings though you should talk to him about it. it does no good to try to hide these feelings because all it will do is build up inside of you and create different feelings and ideas. i totally agree. if u really dont like them walking home together n i mean REALLY dont like it then just wait till he's done with this "meeting" everyday n walk with them. |
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Apr 21 2005, 05:57 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,221 |
i would wait until the meeting's over too and if he seems awkward when he sees yu or like "what are yu doing here" i would get mad and thats definite player. but dont be too jealous..trust yur bf
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Apr 23 2005, 04:31 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
tell him how you feel. or you could pick him up from the meetings
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