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 Apr 21 2005, 12:25 AM
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at my school, there are two girls that i've known ever since kindergarten. i asked one of them out, and she said yes. a few days later, we break up, but i'm cool with it, even though i still like her. she flirts with this guy in my class that i really don't like. and the second girl, who i like more than the one i asked out, has her eye on one of my close friends. now i have a weird feeling inside me as if everyone was rejecting me, and i'm afraid of being lonely.
i know it might be confusing thanks |
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Apr 21 2005, 01:37 AM
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if you want to know what to do, better open your mouth to the one you like before she's taken.
if you want to know what to do with that being-rejected feeling. you'll get over it once you meet someone else. It's just like when you have plenty of friends around, you'll eventually distance the ones far away, because they're hard to get to, and you have other friends. But when these friends around you are gone, you're probably gonna want to be best friends with the ones far away, until you make new friends around you again. *REPEAT* Just a stability thing I guess. |
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Apr 21 2005, 02:04 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
i agree with ^^
you are probably feeling rejected because you broke up with someone.. and u should ask the girl u like before its to late...good luck! |
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Apr 21 2005, 02:22 AM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
Yeah, you definetely need to fess up to the second girl that you like more. Tell her that you like her and do it soon. The longer you wait, the greater the chance is that she will pursue something with your friend. And how old are you? I mean, if you're asking this type of question you seem kind of young to me and if you are, then you have no reason to be worrying about being lonely and such. And don't worry about rejection either. I don't mean this in a mean way but you're going to get rejected so many times in your life that it'd be best to get used to it now.
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Apr 21 2005, 03:55 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
You better say something before it's too late. It might work out...and she will say "yes"....or if not...then there's always another day.
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Apr 21 2005, 04:56 PM
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i'll tell her that i like her, and let the girl i broke up with out of my mind.
thanks |
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Apr 21 2005, 05:35 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
i know wat u mean. but u can always say something about it? or u can just forget about them n get another girl. it doesnt HAVE to be one of them. dont be afraid of being alone. it can be a lot more fun wen ur by yourself. ur not tied down as much.
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Apr 21 2005, 05:37 PM
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Chrissy is right. But to add to her point, you have to keep things in perspective. They are only two girls. I'm pretty sure there are more girls in the world. You'll get over them either way, so don't bother being afraid of lonliness. You'll find other people.
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Apr 21 2005, 08:39 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
you shouldn't expect to be dating and to be "pimping" at the age of 13 my dear...i don't mean to burst your bubble but this is how life goes...
but if you must have a girlfriend then talk to your friend, lightly hint of he likes her, if he doesn't then tell her how you feel. |
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Apr 22 2005, 12:32 AM
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 Call me Julie Group: Member Posts: 183 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,042 |
OH GOSH..DON'T WORRY THAT YOU'LL BE LONELY...THERE ARE A LOT OF GIRLS IN THIS WORLD TOO! AND PROBABLY THOSE TWO GIRLS WEREN'T INTERESTED INTO YOU "YET"..
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Apr 22 2005, 09:06 PM
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 tie my shoe Group: Member Posts: 140 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,194 |
awww poor you. it's ok good things come to people that wait.
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Apr 22 2005, 09:41 PM
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 +Princess+ Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,131 |
dont worrie thats how i felt after getting rejected by two guys in a roll... =/... it doesnt mean that your just getting rejected but cus they arent meant foo you.. so dont worrie.. one day that speical girl would come and all the pain and suffering you went through would all bee worth it =)
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Apr 22 2005, 09:46 PM
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QUOTE(daonlylonely1 @ Apr 21 2005, 10:32 PM) OH GOSH..DON'T WORRY THAT YOU'LL BE LONELY...THERE ARE A LOT OF GIRLS IN THIS WORLD TOO! AND PROBABLY THOSE TWO GIRLS WEREN'T INTERESTED INTO YOU "YET"..  WHY DO YOU HAVE IT IN CAPS?! ITS SOO ANNOYING! It seems like getting into relationships at the age of thirteen is young. I mean, you are already afraid of being lonely and being rejected. Don't worry about it. As they say, "There are more fish in the sea." |
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Apr 22 2005, 09:47 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,611 |
you can tell girl 2 what youre feeling, but if she already has feelings for someone else, dont expect her to drop them on the spot. i say, just move on. forget both girls because, as you explained it, they dont want anything with you. you'll find someone else along the way.
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Apr 28 2005, 01:01 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,296 |
i asked the girl i personally liked out, and she said yes. i've totally forgotten about the one i accidently asked out...and everything is working out great.
thanks daonlylonely1, how come you're telling me to not worry about being lonely when your username has the word lonely in it? 
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Apr 28 2005, 01:03 AM
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 Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
EDIT:
Hey Rafi..I was in the middle of replying to this post but... I'll reply to this later...I need to get going ^_^ it's 11:00 and I need to go study...but I'll edit this with an actual post later...keep your eyes peeled. I have lots to say about this subject. -Kevyn ************ QUOTE("") it's ok good things come to people that wait. In short that's a great deal of the words that were going to come out of my mouth...people are always constantly being afraid of lonliness. Unless you were born a loner (like me), then being lonely can be a very traumatizing experience. To make this short... ..it's nice to have a girlfriend there with you to help you get through your troubles...but being alone can be equally as beautiful. Why? No one to bother you, no one to burden you with their problems..in time you'll snag a good catch ^_^ Girls are a wonderful addition to this Earth you'll see that soon...but for now...have fun with your friends. Go out and have a good time.. Like someone mentioned.....Good things do come to those who wait...right now it's just not your time... -Kevyn |
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Apr 28 2005, 08:47 PM
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you better tell the second girl that you like her before its too late, i mean she could be taken before you know it!
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