I need some advice...., boy problem? Hm.. |
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 Apr 20 2005, 07:07 PM
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 Captain Screw Up... aka, Mwah!  Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,850  |
Okay.. Well, I posted the other day saying how I didn't know what to do because my friend and I like the same person.. And he actually liked me so she's super pissed about it. --I gave him a note today, after school. The note said I liked him and everything.. When I gave it to him, I told him I was embarassed. He was super sweet about it. He was like, "Well, I try not to make things embarassing." And "You shouldn't be embarassed".. Soo, yeah. I feel kinda bad cause I told my friend I wrote him the note. She was all mad, of course. I mean.. I really wanna be happy with him, cause we fit so great together, but.. I dunno. This is why I'm coming here! I have no one else to confide in! Help moi! Por favor..
~Annd, I'm prolly gonna feel awkward tomorrow cause I have him in two out of five classes, so.. Ah! What should I do!? Smile and nod? Eh? X-Lacey-X |
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Apr 20 2005, 07:10 PM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
smile would be nice.
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Apr 20 2005, 07:10 PM
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well i think ur friend there shouldnt get mad at u juts cuz the guy both of u like preffers to be with u
 , i mean if shes really ur friend i think she should be happy for u guys 
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Apr 20 2005, 07:14 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
Your friend needs to grow up. She should be happy for you both, but instead, she's acting like a lil' brat since she didn't get what she wants. She needs to stop being bitter. Otherwise, she's not a good friend to keep around.
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Apr 20 2005, 09:32 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Smile, act natural, and just....be yourself.
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Apr 20 2005, 11:26 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
well, i dont really see anything to be embarresed about
 cause you like him, he likes you, happy ending right? cause your friend being mad at you jst shows you that she wasnt a great friend to begin with. so its kinda good that you guys arent friends anymore (: does that make sense? o_o |
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Apr 20 2005, 11:27 PM
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ur friend should be happy for you! I mean you would be happy for her if she was in your place right? You just need to put yourself if her place and then talk to her about it. Besides if your really friends, she wouldnt let a boy come between your friendship.
As for the note thing about feeling awkward, act natural, talk to him as normal. Dont talk bout the note unless he brings it up. |
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Apr 21 2005, 04:32 AM
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 weird Sarah. yes,me... Group: Member Posts: 714 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,023 |
just be yourself. your fd may sad of this. but after that, she will happy that u find your love. she will be happy for u, and should be.
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Apr 21 2005, 07:38 AM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
your friend is just envious of you.
he should like whoever he wants to like, and you have the same right. you guys like each other, and if she was your true friend, she would be happy for you guys.. instead of being a total bitch about it. confront your friend about it... that you like him, and he likes you... i hope she understands.
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Apr 21 2005, 05:46 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
QUOTE(triggerX @ Apr 20 2005, 7:10 PM) well i think ur friend there shouldnt get mad at u juts cuz the guy both of u like preffers to be with u , i mean if shes really ur friend i think she should be happy for u guys  yea...cuz even if u were jealous wouldnt u be happy for her if he wanted to be with her? |
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Apr 21 2005, 05:52 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,221 |
smile.
and that friend shouldnt be considered one. a true friend would be happy for yu :] |
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