my relationship....random |
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 Apr 19 2005, 02:55 PM
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 tie my shoe  Group: Member Posts: 140 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,194  |
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Apr 19 2005, 03:03 PM
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Some relationship drift apart sometimes...it happens. It sounds like she is wanting a little space. You should give it to her if she continues to act uninterested in the relationship, maybe with time her feelings will change
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Apr 19 2005, 03:04 PM
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tie my shoe Group: Member Posts: 140 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,194 |
thanks i sure do hope it will change. we planned a lot for our anniversary this year.
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Apr 19 2005, 03:11 PM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
QUOTE right now i'm in a long-distance relationship for almost 6 years now. she lives in boston and i live in connecticut. not that bad i guess only 2 hrs apart. but lately things aren't going too well. she seems to not listen to what i gotta say anymore. altho she says she still loves me. but she said that she doesn't see me in her future anymore. i'm here trying to fix it and patch things up a lil. we argue A LOT. feels as tho lately i been doing everything for her. she been sick lately so i asked her to go on vacation w/me but she won't. any advice guys? im sorry, its just to hard right now i'm in a long-distance relationship, and have been for almost 6 years now. she lives in boston and i live in connecticut. it is not that bad i guess, we are only 2 hrs apart. but lately things haven't been going too well. she seems not to listen to what i have to say anymore, altho she says she still loves me. but she said that she doesn't see me in her future anymore. i'm here trying to fix it and patch things up a little bit. we argue A LOT. it feels as tho lately i have been doing everything for her. she has been sick lately so i asked her to go on vacation w/me but she won't. any advice guys? advice: firstly, pluperfect/perfect tenses secondly, i think the relationship has reached its natural end. however, you certainly know where you are better then i do, so i would say talk to her, but dont be afraid to cut your loses if need be |
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Apr 19 2005, 03:15 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
talking is so underrated. tell her how you feel about this.
wow 6 years of long-distance. amazing O_o |
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Apr 19 2005, 03:19 PM
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tie my shoe Group: Member Posts: 140 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,194 |
thanks guys. i did two days ago lay my cards out. i told her what i want and that i been unhappy lately. so right now i just keep in mind that she doesnt' see me in her future so i need not to talk about that. but we are slowly working things out.
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Apr 19 2005, 03:51 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
well, seems you have it all figured out.
best of luck to you... 
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Apr 19 2005, 04:01 PM
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QUOTE(mzkandi @ Apr 19 2005, 12:03 PM) Some relationship drift apart sometimes...it happens. It sounds like she is wanting a little space. You should give it to her if she continues to act uninterested in the relationship, maybe with time her feelings will change  you took the words out of my mouth. and it sounds like you are working things out pretty well, good job 
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Apr 19 2005, 04:04 PM
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tie my shoe Group: Member Posts: 140 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,194 |
thanks everyone who has been giving me advice. i just thought i'd get this out. something that you can't talk to ur loved one about.
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Apr 19 2005, 04:13 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i'm in a long distance relationship too and i'm afriad that that is going to happen.
well just talk to her, you can tell her what you told us, she'll understand if she loves you |
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Apr 19 2005, 05:32 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
easy. if she says that she can't see you in her future anymore, than break it off. what is the use in staying with someone if you KNOW that nothing is going to happen in the long run? and you say that y'all argue alot so is the arguing time more or less than the non-arguing time? if it is more, than that is not good. from the sounds of it, just break up. i have never thought that long distance relationships work out. =/
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Apr 19 2005, 05:32 PM
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This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
easy. if she says that she can't see you in her future anymore, than break it off. what is the use in staying with someone if you KNOW that nothing is going to happen in the long run? and you say that y'all argue alot so is the arguing time more or less than the non-arguing time? if it is more, than that is not good. from the sounds of it, just break up. i have never thought that long distance relationships work out. =/
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Apr 19 2005, 06:29 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,896 |
maybe you should like send her a e-card....show her how much you love her still....maybe that will help our relation ship
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Apr 19 2005, 07:51 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Feelings change with time...it's easily understood. Talk to her about this to get an idea of where it's all going...
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Apr 19 2005, 10:36 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
yo...i argue a lot with my boyfriend. things went bad n we stopped listening to each other but if u wanna try to fix your relationship it has to be on BOTH sides. not just you. me n my boyfriend are starting to be better with each other n treat each other better n actually listen but that's only cuz both of us are listening n talking at the same time. she has to listen to wat u have to say. if that isnt there...then there's nothing that u can do to make it better.
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Apr 19 2005, 10:41 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,456 |
maybe shes hinting a breakup? i duno. good luck though.
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Apr 20 2005, 05:14 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
if some guys argues with me A LOT and we're in a long D relationship, i'd be long gone with some other guy LOL...
maybe she's already with someone else tahst whyyour argueing... wait why ARE you argueing anyways? ai ya its a long D anyways.. go drive up there wherever she is and suprise her... you know girls need their boy to BE THERE for them sometimes... who are they gonna hold hands with when they walk who are they gonna see on the weekends who are they gonna watch thier fav movies with? so on... anyways your sig... is that a girl or a boy!? :O |
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