Pleeeeaaaasssseee HELP ME!!, This is a guy problem. I need help! Options

[captain_screw_up]

I'm having a serious problem. Okay, maybe not 'serious', but I'm a teenager.. What do you expect? Well.. On with the story here:

Okay, there's this guy in my fourth hour who just moved here a month or so ago. I've found out recently that he likes me (approximately one week ago). And it's strange cause I like him too. The first day I saw him (I have him in two out of five of my classes by the way..) I was like.. "Dang. You are friggin hot." But, anyways. Yeah. I've basically liked him since then. What a coincidence? Well.. Ther story shifts. When my best friend Ashley saw him (I told her about him and his ultra-hottness) she went under. She was like.. In love with him. (?) So, I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!! He's gonna find out soon I like him.. But Ashley likes him and is all guilt-tripping me and everything. I really want to be happy with him for now. I never take risks and I want to this time! I want to be able to live on the edge at LEAST once in my life! I just need a little advice. {By the way, I don't like him just for his hottness, though it's a plus.. Lol. I've talked ot him quite a bit in second hour and he has a really good personality. He's funny, and super smart. And has really pretty green eyes.. )

What should I do? Everyones set on and convinced he's gonna ask me to be his girfriend. Should I or should I not? I wanna care about my friends, but if she's a true friend, she'll be happy for me, right? HEEELLLLPP!

Thanks caboodles,
Love,
Lacey

[FoOd]

Hmmm, I think its time to talk to your friend about this. Just explain the situation to her. If you don't tell her about this, it will feel like you backstabbed her and you will have a horrible friendship afterwards.

Just talk to your friend about it.

[icy_angelx]

Ya if she is a true friend then yea she should understand like one hundred percent!!!!

[agirlnamed_aly]

Go for it. Screw your friend, she's not worth if she's going to give you a guilt trip. Unless she's doing it unintentionally, then maybe you should talk to her about it.

I've been in your position before, and it's not worth it waiting around and never going for what you want. Besides, he's going to ask YOU out, and not your friend so take the chance while you have it.

Mucho love,

Alyson

P.S. You saw him first! Duh.

[captain_screw_up]

Oh, she knows about it. That's part of the problem. She knows and is using it against me cause she knows I have a big conscience and will totally feel abd and not do it. That's what I mean. She has no conscience, and if she does it's super tiny. I <3 her and all, but she's so difficult sometimes.

[FoOd]

Then just go for the kill. If she is making you feel guilty intentionally so that SHE would have the guy, I think its time to have new friends.

[rockbass60]

does your friend even know him? or just thinks hes hot? cuz if she doesnt know him then you go for it, who cares about her

[yeseulx3]

go for it.
your friend will get him if you don't.
it seems he likes you as much as you like him so...
the best of luck to you guys.

[captain_screw_up]

So totally true. I mean, she's a good friend and all when it comes to.. Friends. But, when it comes to guys she's the main competition. She mainly makes us feel bad (us meaning me, and my other to girl friends kaitlyn and ashley j.) because she never has a boyfriend. I just broke up with my other boyfriend a few weeks ago cause he was rude. She all "well, you haven't gotten over him yet. I never get the boys I want". cause it just happened to her a month or so ago with this other dude named travis, kaitlyn went out with him when ashley supposedly liked him.. Sooo confusing.

[FoOd]

Your friend is just jealous that she never got a guy. It really seems that your friend is immature. Its like she is copying your friend and you. Its kinda creepy.
But it all comes down to one question:
Who would you rather see in the guy's arm? You or your friend Ashley?

[captain_screw_up]

Well... Ya know... It'd be nice if it was me!!! Lol. And he's a super romantic, so that's awesome. I just don't want to hurt her feelings. I wonder if half the time it's not even her fault she guilt trips us. I mean... I dunno. She always likes the same person as someone else, which yeah, is creepy! But.. I dunno!

[*mzkandi*]

I say go for it. Only because when me and my friends liked the same guy there was a little competition but it was like whoever wins him over first is the one that deserves to have him, but that was just us. I'm sure you dont want to ruin your relationship with your friend but at the same time you should be allowed to be happy and go with whoever you like

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

she'll be happy for u if she's a true friend. i say go for it~!

[aera]

talk to your friend and explain whats going on. and then go out with the guy.

[happyheartz]

Ya if she is a true friend then yea she should understand like one hundred percent!!!!

^true

[freeflow]

Ya if she is a true friend then yea she should understand like one hundred percent!!!!

ya thats soo true .. and i would say go for it .

[blah122986]

yes u should go for it...if she is a true friend then she will understand..she may be mad for u for a lil while..but soon..she'll come to see that u guyz were better for each other...

[Shattered_Hope]

Well....you did like him first...and what kind of friend is she...after knowing you like him yet still trying to give you a guilt trip? Go for it. You only live once....take chances...there's always another day.