girls: should we keep our options open?, it's not cheating, is it? |
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 Apr 17 2005, 08:59 AM
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okay so ive gone out with my bf for like 3 weeks now but i feel like our chemistry is dying..
 like honestly. yesterday i went out with my best frd for a movie and then we stopped for coffee. theres this really hot guy working there so my frd was like yea u should give him ur #. she dared me to do it so i did just for fun. i wasn't expecting him to call because i was being kinda bitchy to his manager since they forgot to make our coffee and we had to wait a long time for our coffee. anyhow the thing is that he called and im like wow. so now im like confused. if i ever go out with him or whatever, does that count as cheating? well i do wanna keep my options open!!
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Apr 17 2005, 09:06 AM
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If you decide to date this new guy while you are still dating your current boyfriend, then yes, it is considered cheating. But if you like this new guy better than the current guy your going with then I say go for it but you will have to let your current boyfriend know that you like someone else, thus possible ending the relationship.
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Apr 17 2005, 09:10 AM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
if you go out on a date with him while you are still going out with your current boyfriend, i would consider that cheating. and i would consider keeping your options open more of taking a break from your current boyfriend and testing the waters.
 if you don't really want to be with your current boyfriend, than you should break up.  and about your attached file, put it in your sig to help save space. 
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Apr 17 2005, 10:27 AM
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QUOTE(mzkandi @ Apr 17 2005, 8:06 AM) If you decide to date this new guy while you are still dating your current boyfriend, then yes, it is considered cheating. But if you like this new guy better than the current guy your going with then I say go for it but you will have to let your current boyfriend know that you like someone else, thus possible ending the relationship.  i agree because you are now dating two people at once. if you like the new one i guess dump the old one and go out with a new one |
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Apr 17 2005, 11:33 AM
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as long as your JUST FRIENDS and nothing HAPPENS *wink wink* then no, your good lol
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Apr 17 2005, 03:42 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
liek what others said, if you date those two at the same time yes, that is cheating. if you don't feel any chemistry between you and your current bf and you have no feelings for him then just break up with him. but before jumping to that hot guy, make sure you get to know him a little better. not everything seems to be what they appear to be
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Apr 17 2005, 04:43 PM
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Well I think that u should go for it....but yea it is a lil cheating but u make a good point when you say like you gotta keep your options open....Wat if your relationship with your bf is dying then wat ya gonna do....you should go for it that's the point of this mssg
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Apr 18 2005, 03:37 PM
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Well....if you decide you like this guy more than your b/f...then just...break it off with your b/f before you date him...cause then it will be considered cheating...I don't know..if you don't like the guy break it off with him.....don't just keep your options open or whatever...it's not fair for the guy..
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Apr 18 2005, 04:42 PM
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dont forget to smiLe today Group: Member Posts: 336 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,095 |
i say go for it but i hope the other guy isnt too crushed
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Apr 18 2005, 04:57 PM
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well, first you said that you and your boyfriend don't have anymore chemistry. if you don't think he'll be hurt then dump him. if you don't like him anymore, dump him. tell the other guy you just want to be friends... until you dump your current boyfriend... if you do.
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Apr 18 2005, 05:56 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
seeeeee now that's what i hate.
 you should not even be considering doing anything with anyone else while dating someone. that's a no-no.
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Apr 18 2005, 06:00 PM
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Cheating = Very Bad.
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Apr 18 2005, 06:10 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
yea its cheating. n it seems like ur not the committed type so n e guy who expects that from u, dont go out with them even if u like them cuz ur probly gonna feel "the chemistry dying" after a few weeks. seriously, having a boyfriend isnt about the "chemistry" the chemistry between me n my boyfriend died a long time ago but i still love him. chemistry n love are not the same thing.
n yes that is definitely considered cheating...n u shouldnt even b thinking about it. if things go bad then sure, get to know other guy n break it off with ur bf. but dont date another guy while ur going out with someone cuz that is cheating. i would be so f**kin pissed if my bf did taht to me. |
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Apr 19 2005, 08:36 AM
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 *~*Yo IcY FrEsH AzN!!*~* Group: Member Posts: 167 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,747 |
u guys could go out as FRIENDS...just make it obvious that ur taken...as in tell him.....cuz if u make it sound like ur a very trusting and faithful gf..then he'll respect u more and when dat sad day comes where u have to break up wit ur bf...he'll be jumpin and screamin at da door waitin for u....but just be friends...until lthen
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