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 Apr 16 2005, 08:28 PM
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 freakieee  Group: Member Posts: 241 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,779  |
i used to have this problem when i was in elementary school and middle school.... it happened cuz da ppl were so childish and immature... i juz ignored them altho i was hurt... as i ignored them, they eventually got bored wiv it
but in high school, this doesnt happen anymore cuz ppl know dat isnt fun |
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Apr 16 2005, 10:39 PM
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 Love_101_213 Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,565 |
''If they had that problem in my school you dont know ''
My school is worse They talk about your family and the things they say to each other you wont believe the only way to over come it is to be the bigger person and do what you know is wright or don’t pay attention to the groop of people even tho it will be hard |
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Apr 16 2005, 10:56 PM
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QUOTE(wincyyellow @ Apr 15 2005, 7:22 AM) hmm...im a fat one too but my classmates are good ones and treat me well... but i heard i other classes there are problems like that(in chinese)... i just cant bear people talking to others in this way,but i wont shout back or anything because those people dont deserve any friendly talks...well...see!one day they have to pay for that!  HEY IM FAT TOO! POWER TO THE CHUBBY PEOPLE! I've never really had a problem with teasing. Everyone is usually really nice. isaywesitonallthemeanskinnypeople |
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Apr 16 2005, 11:15 PM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
Its pretty much the girls problem to deal. getting into other ppl troubles will probably bring u down with her. so just make sure u never do ne thing so harsh.
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Apr 16 2005, 11:41 PM
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 Grrrrrrr Group: Member Posts: 801 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,696 |
it happens in my school alot and i do mean alot. it sucks but some try to stop and do suceed while others are pusheed around
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Apr 16 2005, 11:47 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,221 |
same thoughts. why cant we just all be friends?
but life's life. girls will always be girls. |
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Apr 17 2005, 12:00 AM
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Guys have it a hellava lot easier. They can just duke it out and be done with it. There really isn't that much of that stuff that goes on at my school; at least I'm not on the receiving. Plus, I am pretty happy with myself so I really don't get comments get to me. In my opinion if they're going to say something, think of something clever. Then I may applaud them. But otherwise, whatever. In a couple of years, are any of them going to matter?
I say you try and talk to a counselor or something. There is no use in trying to talk to the girls about it. They'd probably just add you in on their list. Try and talk to the girl they made fun of. Maybe you guys can become friends. I'm not so great with the advice, sorry. |
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Apr 17 2005, 06:49 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
everyone gets to b the victim for at least once.. it'll b over before u kno it. just ignore them, remind urself they're speaking bullshit.
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Apr 17 2005, 11:08 AM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
That happens alot in my school. But not to like. .fat girls. But to asians. Alot of hispanics&blacks at my school (i'm not saying that all of them are bad) they pick on asians in the school. They call them names, do things to them, humiliate them, steal things from them. That's why I hate alot of them at the school.
Just ignore them. Or maybe you could make friends with one of them; that could get the whole group to stop. =\ |
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Apr 17 2005, 01:16 PM
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 SPRITE rocks Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,411 |
QUOTE(ryfitaDF @ Apr 15 2005, 7:47 AM) i usually ignore them. people are only mean when they have problems with themselves. don't let them share their troubles with you. hrmm thats really good advice. the worst people call each other in my grade is slut/whore/ho or fat/fat ass/lard |
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Apr 17 2005, 01:19 PM
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 theres no i in slut...but there is a u Group: Member Posts: 208 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,257 |
ive had that problem but i really didnt let it get to me...there is really nothing you can do to stop them i mean there not doing anything illegal...so sorry but if that didnt help then i prob. cant
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Apr 17 2005, 02:30 PM
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 Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
*sigh* I think that in most schools there are people like that. There are some people like that at my school. I hate it. Some of the even popular girls are actually really nice but others are just.. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr..........
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Apr 28 2005, 09:55 PM
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 reluctantly gazing Group: Member Posts: 472 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,555 |
those girls can't be changed unless they change themselves...dont waste your time getting worked up by what they say. best thing to do, console anyone who they hurt, and ignore anything they say to you.
a few of my friends and i say stuff like that to each other as a joke often, but never seriously. a few of the guys im friends with do that as well, and when that happens, i just get violent at them. thats all. |
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Apr 29 2005, 11:56 AM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
people call other people names because they want to feel important. actually to me, if they call sumone else a slut or a b*tch, they are the slut/b*tch, not the person that they call that.
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Apr 29 2005, 09:10 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,881 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,134 |
thats all over my school
all of the so called "COOL" people pick on asisans and people of other races based on their looks and stuff. its really geting out of hand; someoen should do something; maybe that someone should be you(= |
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