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 Apr 12 2005, 09:14 PM
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 damn u got owned!  Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,850  |
ok well im in a new school and all and not a lot of people know me yet. but there's this girl that i see during lunch. she sits with a whole bunch of girls and all and i sit with all the guys. but that not the point. well i thinks she's kind of hot and all but i have no idea on how to approach her cause at my old high school i was one of the popular kids so every one knew me and every thing. so wat im asking is how should i approach her and like mayb ask her out?
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Apr 12 2005, 09:17 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
wow ur shallow.
no offense, but like, just cause she's hot, ur gonna ask her out? grow a pair of balls, walk over there, and talk. either that, or talk to her at some time other than lunch, when she's not crowded by her cult. something like that. |
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Apr 12 2005, 09:20 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
uhh, i suggest to get to know her first. -___-x
if you jst go up & ask her out, she might thing you`re like a .. pimp or osmething? lols and besides, why`d ask her out if you dont even know her? jst go up & get to know her. know her name at the least. im not sure what to say to her though. o.O goodluck (: |
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Apr 12 2005, 09:33 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
^ I agree. You should get to know her first. Ask your friends if they know her.. and meet her through them? I don't know... :x
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Apr 12 2005, 10:27 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Why don't you just try making friends with her first?
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Apr 12 2005, 11:14 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
QUOTE(dahding @ Apr 12 2005, 9:17 PM) wow ur shallow. no offense, but like, just cause she's hot, ur gonna ask her out? grow a pair of balls, walk over there, and talk. either that, or talk to her at some time other than lunch, when she's not crowded by her cult. something like that.  LMAO  '''WORD!!''' lol
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Apr 13 2005, 02:31 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
sheesh..u go for a girl that looks good..wow thats sad...at least get to know her first...
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Apr 13 2005, 02:39 AM
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 RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
QUOTE(dahding @ Apr 12 2005, 9:17 PM) wow ur shallow. no offense, but like, just cause she's hot, ur gonna ask her out? grow a pair of balls, walk over there, and talk. either that, or talk to her at some time other than lunch, when she's not crowded by her cult. something like that. You should get a cookie for that. Amen to people who tell it like it is. thats all I have to say. |
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Apr 13 2005, 05:35 AM
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 Its hard for me to tell you Group: Member Posts: 734 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,326 |
Guys will go for girls that are just hot sometimes. They're visual characters. Duh
 Majority of them anyway.At least get to know her fast and abit about her and ask her out on a date? So then you can get to know her more with just the two of you there. |
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Apr 13 2005, 06:06 AM
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whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
QUOTE(karamelle @ Apr 13 2005, 2:39 AM) You should get a cookie for that. Amen to people who tell it like it is. thats all I have to say. booyah. i've got a cookie now! ...*munch munch* ..and now i don't. i miss my cookie.. 
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Apr 13 2005, 06:19 AM
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Now why are yall calling him shallow when you guys know you will only go out with people who you are attracted to. so if for someone that is the hottest girl in school then so be it. but since she is so "hot" there is bound to be a bunch of guys wanting to ask her out or maybe she already has a boyfriend. you can try to talk to her and start up small chat but if she rejects you thats exactly what you get for not giving average girls a chance
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Apr 13 2005, 06:24 AM
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whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
QUOTE(mzkandi @ Apr 13 2005, 6:19 AM) Now why are calling him shallow when you guys now you will only go out with people who you are attractive to. so if for someone that is the hottest girl in school then so be it. but since she is so "hot" there is bound to be a bunch of guys wanting to ask her out or maybe she already has a boyfriend. you can try to talk to her and start up small chat but if she rejects you thats exactly what you get for not giving average girls a chance actually no dumbass. not all guys are shallow f***s, for example, me. i think it's so stupid just to like a girl for her looks. what's the point in it? 
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Apr 13 2005, 06:26 AM
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QUOTE(dahding @ Apr 13 2005, 6:24 AM) actually no dumbass. not all guys are shallow f***s, for example, me. i think it's so stupid just to like a girl for her looks. what's the point in it? did u read what i wrote, no where in there did i say guys are shallow |
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Apr 13 2005, 06:27 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(karamelle @ Apr 13 2005, 3:39 PM) You should get a cookie for that. Amen to people who tell it like it is. thats all I have to say. In that case, Amen to that. ^  QUOTE(mzkandi @ Apr 13 2005, 7:19 PM) Now why are calling him shallow when you guys now you will only go out with people who you are attractive to. so if for someone that is the hottest girl in school then so be it. but since she is so "hot" there is bound to be a bunch of guys wanting to ask her out or maybe she already has a boyfriend. you can try to talk to her and start up small chat but if she rejects you thats exactly what you get for not giving average girls a chance ^ Cookie for her.Hold on a minute.. You called yourself "one of the popular kids". Is that a diss to the rest of us? |
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Apr 13 2005, 03:36 PM
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damn u got owned! Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,850 |
^ no i didn't mean it that way. and she's not one of the super hot chicks. i don't really go for that. she's just one of the average girls but i think she looks good. and i really don't think she has a b/f and like one of her friends is on my bus stop and she's nice so since they're friends then they should be a like
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Apr 13 2005, 03:42 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,101 |
just cuz they are friends, doesnt mean they are alike. if u think her friend is nice, why not get to know her, or ask her out?
*throws cookies to all!* |
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Apr 13 2005, 04:24 PM
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damn u got owned! Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,850 |
^ because i know that her friend has a friend so yeah.
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Apr 13 2005, 04:33 PM
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Go up and talk to her.
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Apr 13 2005, 04:42 PM
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 if you feel like dying; you might wanna sing Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,836 |
QUOTE wow ur shallow. no offense, but like, just cause she's hot, ur gonna ask her out? grow a pair of balls, walk over there, and talk. either that, or talk to her at some time other than lunch, when she's not crowded by her cult. something like that. woah, that was harsh. i`d say maybe start a conversation with her, be funny, make her feel comfortable. ask someone for her sn and IM her first if you`re too scared to approach her. |
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Apr 13 2005, 06:09 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,611 |
i'd say in order to have a good relationship, you would have to be physically attracted to the person, if theres not that physical aspect, then its hard to have a nice relationship. this girl might be attractive to him, but not necessairly to all of us....sooo what im saying is this: i wouldnt jump on his back about him being shallow.
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Apr 18 2005, 07:26 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,896 |
you should like say something like this but not at lunch maybe in the hallway..
"Hi I'm new here but I was wondering do ya want to be friends?" And to ask her out after you know her personality"Hi we've been friends for sometime now sooo I was wondering if you would like to go out since now we know each other..." but if you want you can add in "I've been admiring you ever since my eyes caught a glimce of you" will that do???
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Apr 19 2005, 10:14 AM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
well first ask ur friend if they know her n introduce u to her. if ur friends dont know her then just go up to her n say hi n talk to her. get to know her first. dont ask her out cuz...u dun even know the girl. buh yea...see if u can meet her through one of ur friends. that would be best. otherwise man up n go up to her.
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Apr 19 2005, 11:39 AM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
get to know her first; be friends with her.
who knows? she might turn out to be a nice person, or she might turn out to be a bitch. you should really get to know what kind of person she is, before you ask her out randomly. |
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