don't judge me you idiot, you don't even know me!! |
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QUOTE([f]eleeza @ Apr 11 2005, 4:04 PM) Stranger: Aww, what a cute little girl you have! Me: Thanks. Stranger: Is that your sister? Me:No. Stranger: Niece? Me: No. Stranger: Cousin? Me: No. That's my daughter. Stranger: Slut.   People have called me a slut, too. You're not alone.  Don't let that person ruin your life. Be happy with what you have.
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Apr 11 2005, 05:08 PM
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 if you feel like dying; you might wanna sing Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,836 |
i dont judge ppl by their looks but it does give me an impression. i try not to think "oh shes a slut cuz of that short skirt." instead i might think "hm, thats a pretty short skirt, i hope she isn`t a slut; maybe i could be friends with her" or something. i ono.
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Apr 11 2005, 05:16 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
QUOTE(xxcrazyjewxx @ Apr 11 2005, 1:50 PM) You may deny it, but everyone judges. yeah i agree. I'll say if I don't like something, but not someone.. if I don't know them that is |
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Apr 11 2005, 06:52 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
meh..no one has ever called me a slut. but they have called me "depresser..suicidal girl...gothic...stuff liek that, just because i wear alot of black. stupid people..
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Apr 11 2005, 07:20 PM
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GUrl they jus JELOUS.. lol u shouldnt b dat mad at dem cuz like they was jus saying wut they was thinkin u should of been well u look like a hore dat goes out at night and blah blah ...
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Apr 11 2005, 07:24 PM
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mm its totally wrong but people do it anyways.
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Apr 11 2005, 07:26 PM
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people judge. simple as that, i catch myself doing it all the time even though i try my hardest not to.
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Apr 11 2005, 07:26 PM
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i judge people the way karamelle does, sure i have an initial thought but it doesn't stick in my head, i won't be like "eww you freak i don't even want to be near you" i'll just shrug it off because i wouldn't want them to stick to their first impression of me
i rarely wear t-shirts, most of my wardrobe consists of tank tops, halter tops, and other clothing like that, that show a lot of skin. even in the winter but i wear hoodies to keep warm in class. i'm the silent type so it's odd that i would wear these types of clothes but hey, i like it. i can just imagine what people say about me but i don't care, if you're not going to take the time to get to know me then go ahead and believe whatever you want to believe, plain and simple 
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Apr 11 2005, 07:36 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
my friends right now were intimidated by me cos i look "hard" and like i gangbang or something. but then they got to kno me and [we`ve talked about this , me&my frineds] and they said i turned out to be funny spontaneous loud crazy blabla..
but they say i still look tough most of the time. but im usally smiling ALL the time now so, not much no more. |
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Apr 11 2005, 07:53 PM
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looks can be deciving.
 learn to live with the fact many people DO judge others by their looks... |
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Apr 11 2005, 07:58 PM
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^^
i agree, it sucks, but its true. i do at first sometimes, but then i get over it pretty quick. my first impressions do include the physical, but mostly its what i first see out of their personality that sticks in my mind. |
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Apr 11 2005, 08:13 PM
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sometime the way your dress determines who you are...like an identity
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Apr 11 2005, 08:20 PM
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People may claim to not judge others by appearances, but it is not true. It's human to judge. However, I think that many people let the first impression fade away, which is the way it should be.
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Apr 11 2005, 08:58 PM
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We're all human...we all judge someone at one time or another....it depends on the situation and the person that you currently are looking at..
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Apr 11 2005, 09:12 PM
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True; we're all human. It's mean. But we all do it.
I do it.. but I don't tell it to their face. 
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Apr 11 2005, 09:22 PM
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no matter how much ppl deny it, we all judge ppl initially
eh, even my best friends thought i was really stuck up and prissy before they knew me. they said i had a "stuck up aura" about me... 
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Apr 11 2005, 09:27 PM
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 in love. unfortunately Group: Member Posts: 459 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,979 |
I try not to, but I do
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Apr 11 2005, 09:36 PM
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people judge other people. it's been that way since the beginning of time.
 it's so unaviodable.
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Apr 11 2005, 09:38 PM
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Yeah it's human.. But you can sort of.. understand them right? I mean if you DRESS like a skank, then it's.. only obvious for someone to think you as one. Just be happy that now they know you for who you really are.
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Apr 11 2005, 09:40 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
I used to a little bit, but not anymore.
I guess sometimes if someone's wearing a band shirt and I enjoy the band, I'll be more likely to speak with them, but I don't really think that's judging. I hate it when people judge others for what they're wearing though. I get that shit everyday. |
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Apr 11 2005, 09:46 PM
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You mighta seen me in the streets but nigga, you don't know me
When you holla when you speak, remember you don't know me Save all the hatin' and the poppin', nigga you don't know me Quit tellin' niggaz you my partna, nigga you don't know me Don't be a groupie, keep it movin', nigga you don't know me Hey I ain't trippin' pimp, the truth is really, you don't know me Yeah, you know they call me T.I., but you don't know me You be hatin' and I see why, cuz you don't know me !!!!!!! |
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Apr 11 2005, 11:17 PM
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I guess I'll admit that I judge someone by their looks sometimes, but I would feel bad about it at the end when I personally get to know them. :/
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Apr 11 2005, 11:25 PM
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makes me think... prostitutes are people too.. i know youre a nice person...
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Apr 11 2005, 11:36 PM
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i have to watch the one i love, forget shes loves me. Group: Member Posts: 1,128 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 61,209 |
people judge me almost everyday because of the way i look..i suppose u get use to it. sometimes it makes me really sad, but i know it's only because of my enormous glasses.. sometimes i even get mad at myself, but then i;n just like screw it.. wow i hate my glasses (which is only because of stupid cataracts and glaucoma might i add, but eh) lol.. once you get to know me i am actually really funny
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Apr 11 2005, 11:50 PM
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Erm.... I didn't bother to read the posts before, but how did they become your friend if they thought you were a slut?
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