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don't judge me you idiot, you don't even know me!!
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post Apr 11 2005, 01:41 PM
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Today, my friends and i were talking about random things, fun and bla bla. Then she said:

Friend: Sandra, when i first saw you, i thought you were a slut
Me: excuse me?
Friend: you wore this very short skirt and were chewing a gum
Me: so?
Friend: haha u just looked like a slut
Another friend: Lol yeah, i was wrong, you ain't slutty, you dress like a slut, that's all. hahahaha blink.gif
Me: *stands up* f**k you bitches. stubborn.gif

What's up with that?? They didn't know me and they judged me just by my looks blink.gif .

Last year my bestfriend said the same thing.

Sylvie: I swore to myself never to talk to you
Me: lol why
Sylvie: because of the way you dress
Me: erm, how do i dress
Sylvie: lol...TOO girly, but i don't care anymore, you are my bestfriend.

I wasn't really angry about that but i don't get it, maybe its me but how do you judge people by their looks? blink.gif

I never do that, when i see a girl wearing a short skirt, im like "wow, i love that skirt", when i see a gothic girl "cool make up", when i see someone wearing something i don't like i'm like "i don't like the shirt or skirt or blah" but i'm not like "oh my god, she looks like a slut or a bitch or ugly", i don't know but i'm not like that. It hurts when someone tells you that u dress like a slut, and even laughs about it. cry.gif ...

Anyways, do you judge people by their looks? ermm.gif
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 01:46 PM
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post Apr 11 2005, 01:46 PM
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Yeah. My friends say I'm a hooker just because I wore a halter top ONCE to school. Dude, it was freakin' hot that day, you expect me to wear something that I'll sweat in!? Just because they don't have halter tops doesn't mean they can call me a slut.
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 01:50 PM
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i get the odd tsking for wearing ye olde abercrombie, but otherwise no...

i like your tie, sandra
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 01:50 PM
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You may deny it, but everyone judges.
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 01:51 PM
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QUOTE(xxcrazyjewxx @ Apr 11 2005, 7:50 PM)
You may deny it, but everyone judges.
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I know but not when i don't know you, i'm not like that. Everyone judges, its definately human.
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 01:52 PM
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^^

everyone judges, but it may not necessarily be about dress.. some people may judge on gender, or on race, or what not
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 01:54 PM
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^^ exactly but judging just by the looks is terrible, very terrible and wrong. You have absolutely no right to do that.

I have friends that don't dress like i do, or are not in my "league" as many idiots may say. Sometimes ppl ask me "how do you move with her, she dresses like a nerd". I don't care how you dress, as long as i like you that's all that matters. You looks don't matter to me. stubborn.gif
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 01:54 PM
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^Even if you don't want to judge, you sometimes will. Hell, I feel horrible when I say "Wow she looks like a slut" but I am not denying judging people.
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 01:55 PM
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me specifically?

did i do something?

lol i dont think so but i thougt id check

oh. rachel beat me to it. meh
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 01:55 PM
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QUOTE(MarchHare2UrAlice @ Apr 11 2005, 1:52 PM)
^^

everyone judges, but it may not necessarily be about dress.. some people may judge on gender, or on race, or what not
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Yeah, once, I judged someone just because he wore the same clothes everyday, but I found out he was rich. O_o
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 01:56 PM
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QUOTE(xxcrazyjewxx @ Apr 11 2005, 7:54 PM)
^Even if you don't want to judge, you sometimes will. Hell, I feel horrible when I say "Wow she looks like a slut" but I am not denying judging people.
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Yeah but not about your looks or your dressing. Maybe about your attitude but definately not about your physical appearance.
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 02:00 PM
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but if you judge someone on their attitude, that meanss
you've at least made some attempt to get to know them, so its hardly the same
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 02:01 PM
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QUOTE(MarchHare2UrAlice @ Apr 11 2005, 8:00 PM)
but if you judge someone on their attitude, that meanss
you've at least made some attempt to get to know them, so its hardly the same
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That is my point. blink.gif
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 02:08 PM
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I think everyone does it, even if they don't admit to it, like Rachel said.
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 02:20 PM
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post Apr 11 2005, 02:24 PM
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post Apr 11 2005, 03:05 PM
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I judge people by looks the first time I see them but it isn't going to stop me from talking to them.
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 03:30 PM
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I'll admit it. I do judge people by their looks. But then again, it's normal for people to do that.
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 03:36 PM
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umm..okay thats rediculous that they said that to you, and may i make an argument for myself? I judge people, like people watching in the mall for example "wow look at him he looks like the type of person who never leaves his house except to buy more video games" but at the same time, I would never let my judgments go as far as to keep me from speaking to someone. If he walked up and was as suave as ever, I'm not going to say oh you are a geek who plays too many video games bye. I think people who judge like that are awful. Me personally, I love people watching, but I also dont mind being proved wrong either. I don't care what the hell people say about me, as long as when they speak to me, they let my words and actions speak for my personality, not how I walk, who I talk to, or how I dress. My band teacher said I was a horrible person because I changed my hair color all the time. HE told me I didnt know who I wanted to be so I changed my hair color to get attention cuz I was unsure of myself. I was like hey moron, the hair color I usually buy doesnt exist anymore, so I'm trying new things. I get bored and change my hair. You dont know shit about me. So yeah. Judging is stupid. Everyone does it, but dammit, you dont have to let that dictate how you feel about a person.
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 03:40 PM
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Yes, I judge people from their looks, but that doesn't make me hate them. I'll talk to them anyway....and eventually it'll change my perspective of that person.
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 03:55 PM
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Well i do judge people sometimes, when i get to know them better my view of them will change. I only judge people, if what they are doing or wearing is like really like over the top but everyone does it.
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 03:56 PM
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yeah, well, kinda. i will probably base my first impression of how i think the person will act as a person based on how they look. i know that it is not a good thing to do but i won't hold my sterotypes against someone just because of what i how i think they are going to be. i will usually get to know them before i share my opinions. happy.gif
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 04:04 PM
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post Apr 11 2005, 04:15 PM
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EVERYONE judges on looks. you make first impressions of people based on their looks, and you know it. how ever badly you don't want to admit it, EVERYONE does it. then you get to know the people and know the truth. everyone makes judgements, it's how you use them that count.
 

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