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 Apr 7 2005, 10:21 PM
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 I Made Ebonics  Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,430  |
is there a way that i could make my boyfriend happier? like he seems happy and all when i see him like we walk home together after school and he walks me TO school and we hold hands and everything but like sometimes he just seems so depressed does anyone know why maybe cuz like sometimes when hes all sad and then like when i'm with him hes like not sad anymore and then like its really weird.. and sometimes when hes with his friends hes happy and like ok iono wat i jus said but like yeah help !!
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Apr 7 2005, 10:22 PM
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gigi =p Group: Member Posts: 3,679 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,206 |
You're asking US why he's sad? I don't know. You're the girlfriend. At least give us a little bit more information so we could at least ponder the possibilities.
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Apr 7 2005, 10:23 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
maybe he wants to talk to you or take you out somehwere but he doesn't know how to...
or things can be going on at home, you can try to talk to him but if he doesn't want to talk about it then don't pester him into telling you try to tickle him or make funny faces, that's what i do sometimes 
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Apr 7 2005, 10:50 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
ask him what's going on. he's happy when he's around you and his friends maybe cause he doesn't want to show you how sad he really is and doesnt want you to worry
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Apr 7 2005, 11:00 PM
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I Made Ebonics Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,430 |
no like but usually he all sad when hes with his friends and yeah and then like sometimes he just gives me a random hug and i'm like uhh ok so yeah and is everything ok? and hes like its nothing really and i'm like *-*
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Apr 7 2005, 11:00 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
You're the girlfriend so try asking him what's up and make him happy :]
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Apr 8 2005, 12:12 AM
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 theres no i in slut...but there is a u Group: Member Posts: 208 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,257 |
My boifriend is like that...like he has really big anger prob. like its really werid...at school and at random times hes just pissed but when hes around me or talking to me hes so happy and care free...i dont even think he knows what wrong with him...but oh well...
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Apr 8 2005, 12:59 AM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
mm, jst talk to him & ask why he was depressed & stuff.
theres nothing eles to do i guess? if he`s happy around you, then hang out with him more (: |
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Apr 8 2005, 02:02 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
talk to him..it could be anything..friends, family, school work, etc.. ask him and try to find out..
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Apr 8 2005, 10:06 PM
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**I'm O sO fLy** Group: Member Posts: 304 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,281 |
talk to him how in the worl are we supose to know we dunno him? Hey maybe it's puberty LoL
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Apr 10 2005, 12:36 AM
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Talk to him about it. Tell him that he can open up to you and you won't repeat any of it. And make sure you aren't pressuring him to do stuff (when talking) or he might regret talking to you.
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Apr 10 2005, 02:43 AM
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ummm talk to him...my psychic powers are not working tonight
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Apr 10 2005, 02:46 AM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
You need to ask him why he's sad.. you need to talk to him. How can you expect us to know? o-O
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Apr 10 2005, 02:47 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
i agree with them ^ up there. how would we know? but if you really want to know, ask him. maybe he doesn't like his homelife or something. just ask him...not us.
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Apr 10 2005, 04:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
Talk to him. We wouldn't know why he's sad because we don't know him. Comfort him.
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Apr 10 2005, 05:02 PM
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 Dark Saga Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,315 |
haha.. Get him some Jack In The Box in the morning, that always makes me feel better..
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Apr 10 2005, 08:44 PM
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 Grrrrrrr Group: Member Posts: 801 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,696 |
talk to him about it. just be there for him. if he wants some space to think then give it to him. do that. that helps you and him.
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Apr 10 2005, 08:54 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
you can give him space or talk to him or offer sex
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Apr 10 2005, 11:02 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
ask him if he wants to talk about watever is going on. dont push him tho. do things to keep it off his mind n talk to him about stuff that isnt depressing. n yea...a blow job or sex is always an option...depends on who u are. that will definitely help him forget about watever it is he is stressing about. or do something special for him just for the heck of it. or just do watever he asks...like wenever he wants to see u then go see him. make an effort to do wat he asks or if u do know wat he wants to do then just do it without asking. simple things like that even makes a person feel so much better.
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Apr 10 2005, 11:04 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
ask him
be like "hey, well i've noticed that you've been sad sometimes..whats the matter? you can tell me." and stuff like that..we're not phsycic....we dont know |
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Apr 11 2005, 11:47 AM
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 Im as fake as a widow's smile ;) Group: Member Posts: 1,045 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,851 |
QUOTE(nekochan1018 @ Apr 8 2005, 1:02 AM) talk to him..it could be anything..friends, family, school work, etc.. ask him and try to find out..  ^^it`s probly stress or something. |
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Apr 11 2005, 06:22 PM
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 baby, be good to me Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,358 |
Woah weird, my ex boyfriend was just like that. He was only happy when me and him were alone, but in school he seemed very sad and moody. We broke up, so really this story has no point, but if I were to do things differently I would have made him talk to me, I mean if your guy is one of those who is always like "no, no, I'm alright i swear" and you know he is lying then you should try Most of the time they just want to know someone is noticing
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Apr 11 2005, 06:24 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 913 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,212 |
If you noticed something with your boyfriend, just ask him. I mean, if its something something that was bothering him, wouldn't be an instinct as the girlfriend(or someone close to the person) to console him and find out whats wrong?
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Apr 12 2005, 09:25 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Tell him he better be happy or you will dump him!
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Apr 12 2005, 09:38 AM
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 RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
QUOTE(someflipguy @ Apr 12 2005, 9:25 AM) Tell him he better be happy or you will dump him! haha. Thats the right attitude. Make his more depressed than he already is. I think that maybe you should sit down and have a heart to heart. I mean, I don't have any idea how old you are, but I know that I've had guy friends who went thru phases of unhappiness, just because they weren't 100% sure of who they were, where they were going, and who they wanted going there with them. Maybe its just a little uncertainty, or maybe hes having problems at home. Most important thing is, you have to ask questions, and do it in an appropriate environment aka not in the hallway between classes. do it somewhere that he knows he has your undivided attention. Hes more likely to open up that way. No one likes to get cut off by a bell. |
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