Dilemma, I'm stuck in between two guys... Options

[shattered_dream]

[FONT=Courier][SIZE=1][COLOR=blue]I've been with this guy for a week now. he's a really sweet guy and i like him a LOT. but then there's also this other guy that i know before i met my bf. he's a player(or at least he looks like one: he's REALLY popular around girls) and we used to flirt and hang out. then he got a gf, so our hang-out time stopped. today we met again and we talked talked and talked...i mean the thing i dont understand is that why does he always flirt with me? EVEN when we are both taken by someone else? he even does it in front of his gf, and she doesnt seem to care much. im really confused i know if we keep doing this i'd cheat on my bf SOON or later.. but i dont wanna hurt him!:cry: idunno what to do..

[Nicolatofu]

Well, if he's really popular around school, then he probably flirts with a lot of girls. Maybe his girlfriend doesn't really care or notice it much. I'm pretty sure from what you've said that it isn't much to worry about.. Most likely you're not the only girl he flirts with even if he is taken.

[Loserwithstyle]

If you see the guy flirting, then he might be a player. His girlfriend probably doesn't care because she thinks that he likes him enough and it's just playing around. Boys are hard to decode, so you can't tell if they're flirting, being themselves, and all that!

[whomps]

Why cheat on your boyfriend? You seem to think that he's ONLY flirting with you and that you're somewhat "special" in his eyes. Guess what, he's flirting with you like he flirts with all other girls. Stick with your boyfriend now.