nice guys, lose Options

[fameONE]

that experiment is showing that if you act nice and such youre seen as weak by the oppositesex and thus nonappealing as they want someone dominant hence the feedbck when you where acting macho

Yes, but it went well beyond the obvious role of protection and dominance. I really was interested if the girls could deicpher whether or not I was frontin' or being true to myself.

[*mzkandi*]

My question is; do girls like these assholes that degrade them, objectify them and live their lives behind a macho bravado just for their rep? From middle school to college, its been the same thing over and over again and the nice guy, no matter how good looking or ugly, strong or weak, finished last.

Of course girls dont want to be treated like sh*t. thats a rather silly question. i, myself, have never dated a guy (since i've been in college) that has treated me wrong to my knowledge. i have only been in two serious relationships. one ended because he was in the army and i couldnt deal with him being away all the time and the other was because he moved away. i was treated like a queen by both guys and i treat the guys i dated well too. but i see what you are saying about girls dating guys that treat them like crap. all my friends have or still date guys like that. and the thing about it is they know that the guys they are messing with are doing them wrong. sometimes i wonder if they love the drama or maybe its the sex they love too much...or maybe they think someday they will come around..i donno. and did you say cheesecake factory??!!?? I love that place.

p.s: nice guys are great but in real life sometimes they finish last...harsh reality *shrug*

[*ih8coffee*]

WOW!


2 words: thank you Brandon Saunders. The way you put your own thoughts to the challenge in a real life work situation by experimentation was brilliant. Girls will notice that and find that more than just attractive as compared to a loud obnoxious jackass who wins his girls by being the "bad boy".

Though I must add that "bad boys" aren't just all bad. I mean I'm sure they all have this element of charm and suspense that keep the female hooked on to keep them wanting more and more.

I find that the notion of girls towards bad guys is that the type of attention that they supply is intermittent. So the girl never knows when the the "bad boy" will give her the attention she wants. When the attention is given, it's usually short-lived but also "exciting and intense". Flings, 5 minute make out sessions, etc etc.

This is what I've noticed.

[LittleLulu]

i can understand how you feel but...its really not JUST for girls...guys too!

and IF a girl is like that...then she's not a nice girl

there are always the nice girls AND the nice guys...thats y..sluts with arses..n nice girls with nice guys...it just works that way

<3 happy 1 month LX<3
luv u =)

[fameONE]

WOW!
2 words: thank you Brandon Saunders. The way you put your own thoughts to the challenge in a real life work situation by experimentation was brilliant. Girls will notice that and find that more than just attractive as compared to a loud obnoxious jackass who wins his girls by being the "bad boy".

Though I must add that "bad boys" aren't just all bad. I mean I'm sure they all have this element of charm and suspense that keep the female hooked on to keep them wanting more and more.

I find that the notion of girls towards bad guys is that the type of attention that they supply is intermittent. So the girl never knows when the the "bad boy" will give her the attention she wants. When the attention is given, it's usually short-lived but also "exciting and intense". Flings, 5 minute make out sessions, etc etc.

This is what I've noticed.

You're welcome.

Thats something else I noticed; when I pretend to be uninterested in a girl, she shows a bit more enthusiasm. Its interesting to see a 20 year olf psych major act like a 12 year old schoolgirl.