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Annie5332
post Apr 9 2005, 11:11 PM
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sad.gif See, my best friend was going out with my ex boyfriend who I still liked. Im usually open with him because we could talk about anything...Well me and my bff got into a fight and I was so mad that I kinda talked shyt about her to my ex boyfriend...THEN a few weeks later turns out he started a rumor about me and now he like hates me and I have no clue of what to do...please help??
 
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post Apr 9 2005, 11:13 PM
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well, u got what u deserved. can't say anything else really..

don't want shit? don't start shit.

take it like a man..er..woman..er...person..thing..it.. mellow.gif

apologizing might be a good step. first apologize, SINCERELY, to both ur ex and ur bff. and well, take it from there.
 
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post Apr 9 2005, 11:14 PM
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I already apologized to my friend but idk how to apologize to him without acting and sounding all gay and stupid...
 
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post Apr 9 2005, 11:17 PM
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well, lets see. it'd help a little bit if i knew exactly what u two said about each other or whatever..

i guess u could write a nice letter of apology, and give him a box of candy/chocolates as a peace offering. iono. i say take the first move and have the incentive to do something nice and make nice.
 
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post Apr 9 2005, 11:17 PM
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just get over him, you know you messed up so there no need to apologize to him. if he wants to forgive you then he will but if he doesnt then you will have to get over it
 
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post Apr 9 2005, 11:18 PM
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But he was all "yeah you stalked me and now i regret going out with you" and then he was all yeah your bribing me to dump her to go out with you and its not gunna happen JUST BECAUSE i gave him some incence --sp-- WHICH he asked for. And I dont really know what to say because if i say something wrong he might take it the wrong way and just hate me forever...

If ya wanna know what the rumor was just ask and I'll spill
 
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post Apr 9 2005, 11:20 PM
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i thought i did ask... _unsure.gif

and from what u said, he sounds like an ahole.

apologize first. if he'll forgive u, yay.

if he doesn't, shove the incense up his ass and tell him to fart it out.
 
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post Apr 9 2005, 11:23 PM
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QUOTE(dahding @ Apr 9 2005, 8:20 PM)
i thought i did ask... _unsure.gif

and from what u said, he sounds like an ahole.

apologize first. if he'll forgive u, yay.

if he doesn't, shove the incense up his ass and tell him to fart it out.
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The rumor was like I had a make out party at my house and invited him but not his g/f so I could try and m/o with him BUT NONE OF THIS IS TRUE (hence the name rumor) and Im just so pissed and CONFUSED
 
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post Apr 9 2005, 11:24 PM
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You got what you deserved.....
The only thing you can do is forget about him.....or..just apologize.
 
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post Apr 9 2005, 11:25 PM
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And I know that this would happen....but GOD I need help
 
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post Apr 9 2005, 11:28 PM
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man, he's being such an annoying idiot. screw whatever he says. i say, throw a make-out party, and make out with hot guys, and be like, "sorry i didn't invite u. i have great taste. that's why."

or like, "i only invite good looking people."

and then laugh mirthlessly (sp?).
 
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post Apr 9 2005, 11:43 PM
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QUOTE(dahding @ Apr 9 2005, 8:28 PM)
man, he's being such an annoying idiot. screw whatever he says. i say, throw a make-out party, and make out with hot guys, and be like, "sorry i didn't invite u. i have great taste. that's why."

or like, "i only invite good looking people."

and then laugh mirthlessly (sp?).
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post Apr 10 2005, 12:05 AM
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who cares about how u sound. if ur realy sorry then just get the guts to go up to him n tell him ur sorry. if u really wanna reconcile with him then u gotta do wat u gotta do u know?
 
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post Apr 10 2005, 12:08 AM
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QUOTE(cHuNsAbAbIe012 @ Apr 9 2005, 9:05 PM)
who cares about how u sound. if ur realy sorry then just get the guts to go up to him n tell him ur sorry. if u really wanna reconcile with him then u gotta do wat u gotta do u know?
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Yeah I get what you mean but like if he things I sound really retarded and stupid when I apologize to him he might just turn around and be an ass again and tell people about me sounding really stupid and acting like a fool
 
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post Apr 10 2005, 09:36 AM
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I tried apologizing to him and asking if we could still be friends and he just ignored me and left
 
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post Apr 10 2005, 09:48 AM
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QUOTE(Annie5332 @ Apr 10 2005, 12:08 AM)
Yeah I get what you mean but like if he things I sound really retarded and stupid when I apologize to him he might just turn around and be an ass again and tell people about me sounding really stupid and acting like a fool
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he's an ahole, forget about him. he was in ass to start with ^^
 
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post Apr 10 2005, 11:22 AM
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do wat u think its right. go apologize to him if you want. but he sounds like an a-hole to mee. =)
 
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post Apr 10 2005, 02:44 PM
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well, u got what u deserved

so true.

i don't even know people let their "best" friends go out with their ex-boyfriends. i just think that is so stupid. you knew that things were going to get weird, right? well, i guess y'all's relationship is over. whenever i saw y'all, i mean your "best" friend and your ex-boyfriend. i doubt things will be the same again...mellow.gif
i honestly don't know what you could do to make things better.
 
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post Apr 10 2005, 06:38 PM
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um... talking behind your best friends back when shes the girlfriend of the person your talking to... bad idea.
 
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post Apr 10 2005, 07:12 PM
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I know but I was mad at her and thats what happens when Im mad at someone
 
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post Apr 10 2005, 07:16 PM
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QUOTE(dahding @ Apr 9 2005, 11:13 PM)
well, u got what u deserved. can't say anything else really..

don't want shit? don't start shit.

take it like a man..er..woman..er...person..thing..it.. mellow.gif

apologizing might be a good step. first apologize, SINCERELY, to both ur ex and ur bff. and well, take it from there.
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Definitely agree. You started it. Now it's up to you to fix it. Apologize.
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 11:59 AM
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Don`t start shit if you can`t take it back atcha wink.gif
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 01:49 PM
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Karma is a bitch
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 01:58 PM
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just be a woman (that phrase is much more effective when the person you're talking to is male) and go up to him and aappologise. get it over with.

and yes, its entirely your fault. dont talk shit if you cant deal with it hitting the fan
 
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post Apr 11 2005, 03:46 PM
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You said stuff about your 'bff' to your ex bf.. which he was going out with her? That's just asking for trouble huh.gif
 

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