there's this girl..., keeps flirting with my boyfriend |
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 Apr 9 2005, 07:48 PM
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gRaCiE  Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997  |
i posted bfore about this girl who told me that she's been seeing my boyfriend n then it turns out to be true but it seemed like he wasnt lying so i didnt believe her. well she found out that we're still together n she knows that she's not dating him cuz he even told her so and she knows that see him n stuff to but she keeps calling him "babe" n sending him texts saying "thank you babe. i felt so much better after last night. i love you." n all this other stuff...it's relaly getting to me. i trust my boyfriend cuz i know he never loved her n n he told me that i dont have to worry about her n e more...but wat the f**k?! y is she calling him ten times a day n sending him i love you texts n calling him babe?! he's not her babe. n i dont know y he wont stop talking to her. "we're just friends" he says but even though he know she has feelings for him he still talks to her. i asked him to stop talking to her for at least a month or so so that she can get over him but he wont...wat to do??
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Apr 9 2005, 08:03 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
my dear, must i say it again? DUMP HIM
he obviously does not love you either if he lets this other girl carry on like this, you're basically letting him walk all over you. even though you "believe" that nothing is going on and you trust him...deep down we all kind of know that he probably is doing something with her... just let him go, don't let yourself stay in this position, you're hurting because of some guy |
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Apr 9 2005, 08:04 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
tell her off
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Apr 9 2005, 08:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,793 |
Throw her down a flight of stair`s.
JK 
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Apr 9 2005, 09:42 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
QUOTE(ChEeR A HOliC Xo @ Apr 9 2005, 5:16 PM) Throw her down a flight of stair`s. JK  lol yea you should do that... or take her cell and chuck it at her head  i dont really understand the whole thing about him 'not dating her' and everything, because it sure seems like it. and he's still talking to her too! i'd suggest talking to him about it one last time. if it doesnt stop, dump him, because it seems like he's cheating on you 
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Apr 9 2005, 09:45 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
in the middle of a crowded hallway, yell at her and tell her to stop talking to your boyfriend. im pretty sure everyone there will take your side and she'll stop.
OR tell her nicely to stop in front of your boyfriend OR dump your boyfriend |
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Apr 9 2005, 09:46 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
You could either: dump him, tell her off, or tell him off...In this situation, I think you should dump him because he's obviously with you but he's talking to this girl even though he knows she likes him and you don't like it. Telling her off or him off might not help...but do what you want. You should've left him a while back when the problem started..
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Apr 9 2005, 09:54 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
tell her off, if she doesn't listen slap her.
or just dump your bf |
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Apr 9 2005, 10:16 PM
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 Love_101_213 Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,565 |
Yo first thing dump him and then it's a bout to be a what ? Girl Fight
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Apr 9 2005, 10:45 PM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
He should stop talking to her.. for all you know he could be leading her on. But what are you doing? Just standing there and letting this girl holler atcha boy? (Hahahhaah) Go talk to HER instead. Does she even know you? Do you know her?
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Apr 9 2005, 10:52 PM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(brownsugar08 @ Apr 10 2005, 10:50 AM) first dump his ass ^ HAH!! That made me laugh so hard. xDthen kick hers! you don't have to take that shit! QUOTE(x_angawhomps @ Apr 10 2005, 11:45 AM) .. for all you know he could be leading her on. But what are you doing? Just standing there and letting this girl holler atcha boy? ^ Agree.Go do something. To her or to him, for all we care. But DO SOMETHING. |
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Apr 9 2005, 10:58 PM
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Girl HE IS LYING TO YOU. Any guy the give you the "We are just friend" crap is lying. I am 20, I have dated alot of guys in my lifetime so i know the bullsh*t games they can play. It seems he is seeing her while he is seeing you. If he really didnt care for her he would have ended all contact with her a while ago. Do yourself a favor and leave him because he is up to no good.
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Apr 9 2005, 11:37 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
but here's the thing. we're on a break but he promised to stay faithful to me n he trusts me now cuz i did a lot of stuff to him in the past too. but i think he's telling the truth about not spending time alone with her n not caring about her much n only thinking of her as a friend.
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Apr 10 2005, 12:10 AM
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QUOTE(cHuNsAbAbIe012 @ Apr 9 2005, 11:37 PM) but here's the thing. we're on a break but he promised to stay faithful to me n he trusts me now cuz i did a lot of stuff to him in the past too. but i think he's telling the truth about not spending time alone with her n not caring about her much n only thinking of her as a friend. but can you prove that? look people lie. thats a simple fact. people cheat. i'm not saying dont trust him but dont be taken in too easily. i think you should ask him to stop speaking to her altogther and then he doesnt then something maybe up. the other girl may love him for a REASON and you dont know what that reason is now do you? |
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Apr 10 2005, 12:12 AM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
well i do know the reason why she tells him that she loves him. but there's no proof that he hasnt been faithful to me either.
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Apr 10 2005, 12:15 AM
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QUOTE(cHuNsAbAbIe012 @ Apr 10 2005, 12:12 AM) well i do know the reason why she tells him that she loves him. but there's no proof that he hasnt been faithful to me either. well good luck with your situation. i hope everything works out and that he is not cheating. but if you are so sure he isnt then dont get mad when the other chick calls or texts him. |
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Apr 10 2005, 12:16 AM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
i just dont know wat to do about her tho...
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Apr 10 2005, 12:19 AM
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kick her ass...
then get rid of him. simple as that. |
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Apr 10 2005, 12:37 AM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
why's the guy always the bad guy?
keep the guy. do nothing about the girl. let fate prevail. |
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Apr 10 2005, 04:15 PM
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dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(cHuNsAbAbIe012 @ Apr 9 2005, 11:37 PM) but here's the thing. we're on a break but he promised to stay faithful to me n he trusts me now cuz i did a lot of stuff to him in the past too. but i think he's telling the truth about not spending time alone with her n not caring about her much n only thinking of her as a friend. wow, i just looked at your xanga, you're 3 years older than me and you fell for that?  QUOTE(cHuNsAbAbIe012 @ Apr 10 2005, 12:16 AM) i just dont know wat to do about her tho... don't do anything about her, what comes around goes around, she's going to be the one who's with that lying jerk who can't stick to one woman. just let him go and move on. you're 20 (or you will be 20, i forgot your birthdate but i remember the year), you don't have to tie yourself down now. |
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Apr 10 2005, 04:23 PM
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 if you feel like dying; you might wanna sing Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,836 |
definately dump him. he doesn`t sound reliable.
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Apr 10 2005, 04:29 PM
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 Take advantage of me. Group: Member Posts: 912 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,792 |
Smack a ho.
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Apr 10 2005, 04:49 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 913 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,212 |
Lets say we give you boyfriend the BOTD. And ask yourself this,
"Do you completely, absolutely, positively trust him?" "How long has this girll been hanging on?" "What is the girl's past on boy's?" "What was your boyfriend like before you guys got together? I hope that helps 
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Apr 10 2005, 04:50 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
Tell her to step off or your goin to beat the knowledge outta her. I wouldnt even give her a warning, Id just jump her if I see her even touch my boo
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Apr 10 2005, 07:25 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
In my opinion, he needs to sacrifice his time with her or all contact with her since it's making you angry. If he can't, dump him.
P.S. I'd so bitch-slap her and tell her to get her homewreckin' paws off of my man. He's found a real woman and he don't need some desperate ho. 
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