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 Apr 8 2005, 03:22 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593  |
some people i know have online gfs/bfs. i think its really sad and desperate. but w/e. its their life lol.
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Apr 8 2005, 04:19 PM
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 Im Gavin HI!! Group: Member Posts: 802 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,644 |
online dating is another excuse for people who dont have a life and can get a gf/bf
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Apr 8 2005, 04:22 PM
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 RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
I'm sorry, you should go out and try to meet people first. I mean, people met and fell in love before there was internet, and people can do it today without it. I just htink its for lazy people who never want to leave the damn house.
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Apr 8 2005, 04:25 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,930 |
QUOTE(Lightner @ Apr 8 2005, 5:19 PM) online dating is another excuse for people who dont have a life and can get a gf/bf  In many cases that's completely true. BUT there is some cases where it is not, me for example. I infact have a life, it just so happens that life is basically on a computer (programmer2win), and most of my time is spent on the computer doing things for work/school. You should try not being so ignorant. |
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Apr 8 2005, 04:27 PM
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 Its hard for me to tell you Group: Member Posts: 734 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,326 |
Ick, How can you see it as desperate? It's only desperate if you go on online dating sites looking for a partner.
Sometimes you just have a friend online and you get to know each other and you know they're real (Webcam  ) and after awhile you end up getting feelings for them. It's not that persons fault because they weren't looking for someone to have these feelings for. It just happens sometimes. And whats the point of holding back these feelings just because they're online. You can progress your relationship and end up meeting and actually have a 'normal' relationship with them. It's becoming less and less rare now. So might as well get used to it.
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Apr 8 2005, 05:56 PM
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 SimpLy_MystikaL Group: Member Posts: 21 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,608 |
whatever floats your boat
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Apr 8 2005, 06:29 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
my first reply would be no because of course there are people that pretend to be people that are not but my speech teacher met her current husband through the internet and they are happily married.
 i would probably never do it, though. 
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Apr 8 2005, 06:30 PM
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 tHa siiNgLe LiiFe Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,926 |
nope.. i think itz for desperate ppl who cant date sum1 in real life
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Apr 8 2005, 08:18 PM
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No, definitely not. I don't think there can really be a satisfying relationship if there is no physical contact...and that doesn't have to mean in a sexual way.
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Apr 8 2005, 09:28 PM
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 ItsameMario! Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,540 |
almost everyone lies about themselves on the internet, or try to make themselves better then they r, so i would say no.....how can u start a relationship, which is primarily made up of trust, with a lie?
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Apr 8 2005, 11:05 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
well i am having one right now its kinda like long distant though cause i get to see her just not often yeah haha she lives in california while i live in missouri so yeah but i guess its fine i think they're pointless to but you know what it depends if you really care bout this person i really didnt want an online relationship but i just happen cause i really likked her so yeah
oh and i know a person that had an online relationship and in the end they got married so yeah i guess its cool .:tony:. |
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Apr 9 2005, 03:39 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
no, but i believe in using spellcheck.
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Apr 9 2005, 08:10 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
it depends if you've met the person or not.
if you have then i guess it's fine, but you'll need alot of trust if you haven't than it's really up to you. you could run the risk of having someone bad |
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Apr 9 2005, 09:09 AM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
i used to, but since i finally got less loserish and got boyfriends offline, i haven't. but if you want to, go ahead.
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Apr 9 2005, 09:13 AM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
well obviously i believe it exists, but i sense that thats not what you meant.
why.... go out and get someone you can actually see |
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Apr 9 2005, 07:57 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
u must be crazy. u should know the person personally. that can be really dangerous.
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Apr 9 2005, 10:01 PM
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 Beer, helping ugly people have sex since 1862! Group: Member Posts: 429 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,574 |
O.o as long as ur sure of who the person really is on the other end then i guess its okay...
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Apr 9 2005, 11:47 PM
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 princess ariel Group: Member Posts: 322 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,481 |
thats not safe! you might get some crazy wacko guy or a girl acting like a guy or whatever .. hehe . =]
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Apr 10 2005, 02:48 AM
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 Holla if ya hate me Group: Member Posts: 2,386 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,819 |
Sure why not, if it works for those people then why not. Why put them down? I just hope they make some smart decisions in that relationship.
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Apr 10 2005, 03:27 AM
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OMG this reminded me of a convo my older guy friend, younger friend sent me. haha i introduced them to each other and stuff, right? then this happened...
sPuNkyMiMe5: do you like meeh as an online gf? sPuNkyMiMe5: haha sPuNkyMiMe5: jw sPuNkyMiMe5: im weerd like that NeEd a m3diC: lol sPuNkyMiMe5: do you? sPuNkyMiMe5: your cool sPuNkyMiMe5: haha sPuNkyMiMe5: yeh NeEd a m3diC: um.. NeEd a m3diC: do i what? sPuNkyMiMe5: like meeh as an online gf... hahahahha... jw NeEd a m3diC: lol NeEd a m3diC: sure then NeEd a m3diC: whatever sPuNkyMiMe5: an online girlfrend?? NeEd a m3diC: -.- NeEd a m3diC: whatever NeEd a m3diC: dont caure NeEd a m3diC: care* NeEd a m3diC: you can make me your online bf NeEd a m3diC: lmao sPuNkyMiMe5: really? sPuNkyMiMe5: buh do you like meeh like that? NeEd a m3diC: sheesh, why ask so many questions NeEd a m3diC: then no NeEd a m3diC: :-P NeEd a m3diC: hehe NeEd a m3diC: jk sPuNkyMiMe5: buh do you? srry... i need to kno NeEd a m3diC: what the heck NeEd a m3diC: FINE NeEd a m3diC: its online NeEd a m3diC: so it doesnt matter :-P ahahhahahah i am cracking up now. oh oh even better, a night after their onlineness, they "broke up" hahah. man, this brings back old memories edit: okay, but to answer your question, i guess it would work for some people if you're mature enough. i mean the guy and girl up there in the convo was a ninth grader (guy) and a seventh. |
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Apr 10 2005, 12:53 PM
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 You can call me Jon Group: Duplicate Posts: 878 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,806 |
Well, no. However there are quite a few cases where I might find it as an exception. For example, homosexual couples. I think it'd be pretty darn hard to find someone if you were, and trying to attempt to might have gotten you hit hard. For example, there really isn't any real way to be sure if someone is or is not homosexual, and asking when they're not may be extremely rude. Online dating may is possibility for people like that to make sure what they aren't and are shooting for, so hey, why not? However, I do think that people should find love on their own, without the clutter of wires or plugs.
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Apr 10 2005, 01:24 PM
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i dont know.. not really.
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Apr 10 2005, 06:06 PM
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 T0NYA FR0M THE DEEP BLUE SEA Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,380 |
dating online..hmm no i dont unless you really know that person lyke in real life buh if u dont..then .. ? how do you really know who that person is?
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Jun 5 2005, 10:53 PM
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 life's a ***** and so am i. the world owes me so **** u... Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,448 |
QUOTE(wonders79 @ Apr 10 2005, 3:27 AM) OMG this reminded me of a convo my older guy friend, younger friend sent me. haha i introduced them to each other and stuff, right? then this happened... sPuNkyMiMe5: do you like meeh as an online gf? sPuNkyMiMe5: haha sPuNkyMiMe5: jw sPuNkyMiMe5: im weerd like that NeEd a m3diC: lol sPuNkyMiMe5: do you? sPuNkyMiMe5: your cool sPuNkyMiMe5: haha sPuNkyMiMe5: yeh NeEd a m3diC: um.. NeEd a m3diC: do i what? sPuNkyMiMe5: like meeh as an online gf... hahahahha... jw NeEd a m3diC: lol NeEd a m3diC: sure then NeEd a m3diC: whatever sPuNkyMiMe5: an online girlfrend?? NeEd a m3diC: -.- NeEd a m3diC: whatever NeEd a m3diC: dont caure NeEd a m3diC: care* NeEd a m3diC: you can make me your online bf NeEd a m3diC: lmao sPuNkyMiMe5: really? sPuNkyMiMe5: buh do you like meeh like that? NeEd a m3diC: sheesh, why ask so many questions NeEd a m3diC: then no NeEd a m3diC: :-P NeEd a m3diC: hehe NeEd a m3diC: jk sPuNkyMiMe5: buh do you? srry... i need to kno NeEd a m3diC: what the heck NeEd a m3diC: FINE NeEd a m3diC: its online NeEd a m3diC: so it doesnt matter :-P ahahhahahah i am cracking up now. oh oh even better, a night after their onlineness, they "broke up" hahah. man, this brings back old memories edit: okay, but to answer your question, i guess it would work for some people if you're mature enough. i mean the guy and girl up there in the convo was a ninth grader (guy) and a seventh. haha what's the point if you do't even see them? it might be some forty year old fat guy lying on his ass all day watching star trek with his mom GAHROSSSS |
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Jun 5 2005, 10:58 PM
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