God, life can be a pain, Bad things happen Options

[*paul murphy*]

I just realized, my life has been 1 train wreck after another. First, I was born with CYSTIC fibrosis and told that I wudn't live and if i did i wudn't be able to walk or run. I fairly stroked them, but anyway, after that my ma is told that she has breast cancer, my da had an affair, my grandpa, who i was very close to, died while my ma had the cancer. It went good for a while then my parents were seriously thinkin about a divorce. Thank God they didn't. And the last straw was this Sunday... John Cena def JBL! AHHHH! Best champ ever gets beat by a punk.

Anyway, cheer me up or depress me more with this thread by literally tellin ur life story! ! !

[Nicolatofu]

My life's story is way too long and complicated. Let's just say you have it good compared to a lot of other people.. and while it may seem to hard for you to handle sometimes, just remember you could have way, way worse.
Maybe I'll edit this with a short story later.

[racoons > you]

aww^^^

:/ nicole and paul.

mind you... moving continents wasnt exactly the best possible experience

[*Weird addiction*]

I used to feel terrible about my life, like cry everyday and stuff but i realised that there's more to life than pain, look on the bright side. This year has been intriguing. My parents are getting divorced, i hardly see my dad (he's living with his new girlfriend), my mom might be moving to england, meaning, i'll be leaving alone with my sister. And i just found out that my dad is on drugs and the people i care about the most aren't even talking to me, due to a silly missunderstanding, i mean, i have so much on my mind and i'm only 16. But i also have my studies to think about, and of course i need to be strong for boys, lol. But i'm still alive, i'm happy sorta.

Just don't think of the pain too much, it hurts more. hope you feel better.

[iheartsimba]

I'm very sorry about that

I was born..with very pretty spriely curly dark brown hair. It grew very long and pretty...then came my first haircut when it got all straight and ugly >.< Then I broke my leg, and was put on a cast for almost a year because I was so young and my bones wern't developed. I was a huge loser in elementary school..then wasn't as big of a dork in middle school =p...around 8-10 my grandpa and meme died when I was 10 I found out my grandma got breast cancer..and by 12 my dad got colon cancer..It was very upsetting..he had to get surgury and everything but everything ended up ok. My best friend got skin cancer and thyroid cancer when I was in 6th grade..around 11..

Yeah..well a lot of people I know have died and had cancer and stuff. Sorry that was out of order.

[EmmalieV]

Yeah ive had my bad moments too but everyone has to realize that life isnt candyland, for anyone.

[Chaos13]

Well summer is coming!! Have fun!! O0o0o0o!! lol! hey maybe we can play an online game??



tryin to cheer you up.

[HongKongDong]

Life's story is too long.

I had to go through a C-Operation because my heart rate dropped about four times and they say that there was a high probability(Sp?) of me dying. I was born with some weird heart condition but it was gone after a couple months. Life is a pain, I remember as a young child just hanging with my bro' and sis' in the livingroom while my mom constantly argued with my dad accusing him of having an affair with someone else. All that was back then when I cared about them

Lets see here, I dont want to look back but I might as well... I grew up moving a lot so I didn't have many friends really growing up, always having to move and switch to a different enviorment.

There was this one time, I was pulled out of school for w/e reason, this was during 8th grade. Like 5 min. before lunch and I was mad hungry. It was my mom, I was like sweet im leaving school, turns out we had to go to my grandma's house because she wasn't doing so good. She was on life support. I loved her so I wanted to go because you know damn thats some serious shit. I went she seemed fine so I went upstairs and went to sleep. Suddenly, I woke up and had this weird feeling, I was headed downstairs, as soon as I got to the stairs I heard "Mama!" I was like oh no... so I rushed downstairs only to see her... gone (I'm gonna end this part here )

Man... im getting too emotional, I'll edit this later...

[glit_gal]

sounds like your taking it pretty well...

anyways my life is definetly unpredictable. I have had my low points and i have had my high points, but one thing i've noticed is that over the past 3 years things have been going well. I havn't had extreme downpoints in my life, just the occasionally "you need to take your studies more seriously," stuff from my parents. Is this a sign of better things to come or another break of bad events? maybe, like i said, my life is unpredictable.

[Rachel]

You have it good compared to kids in Africa who don't have parents and are starving.

[*jooleeah*]

A lot of crap has happened in my life, but I try not to think of my life in a negative way. I know there are kids out there who have it worse than me.

[mouse_3k]

My life sucks. First love's lost. I was cheated on by another. I got myself outta some school drama with a fight. Im a cutter, blah blah blah.

Just stay storng, you will make it. Dont let NE one bring you down. if they do, then just kick their booty causeu u better then them.

[simply_mystikal]

life is a big pain... minez too long.. i could write a book... but don worry ur not the only one.. cheer up k.. at this point in my life.. its all going downhill.. but i try to see the brighter thingz in it...

[inthemudhole]

I've had a lot go wrong in my life.
I'm terrible with dealing with things.

A lot of people have died in my life.
All of my grandparents (except for one grandfather) had died before I was born. It may not sound like much, but it ended up being bad. All of my friends would always sit there and brag about how much fun they would have at a grandmother's house and how their grandmothers would bake cookies with them and how they'd go fishing with their grandfathers, and I had never been able to experience any of that. I only had one grandfather and his health was never stable. He had suffered from at least three heart-attacks in my time of knowing him. He also battled cancer during my time, so he was never stable enough in health to even talk to him sometimes. Then one day in second grade, we got a phone call from my uncle telling us that my grandfather was in the hospital and was already brain-dead. We got there to visit him before we had to say goodbye forever. I was the only one in the room when he completely died and that experience will haunt me forever. Even typing this now, I'm getting chills up and down my spine. I was eight years old when my last grandparent died. I was "lucky" enough to witness it as well.
Then a few months later, my dog died.
Once again, that doesn't seem like much, but it really was. At that point, I was an extreme loner. I had one friend and in that grade, we weren't very close. So, naturally, my dog was basically my best friend. Then she died. At least it wasn't a brutal death, but I witnessed two deaths of people I cared very deeply for within a few months at a semi-young age. It hit me like a load of bricks. I understood death, but it just hit me hard.

Then as I got older, I got made fun of a lot at school for, I guess looking back on it, for being different. I liked metal at a young age and I was always just very different than everyone else. I got made fun of daily. I still do to this day, but it was very bad in elementary school.

Then in sixth grade, one of my close friends passed away. She had a lot of heart problems and suffered a long time. She passed away when I was twelve. She was fourteen. It was a bad, bad experience for me. It hurt so much to see her at the wake and at the funeral in the open coffin. I cried for months. It was bad in which the way I figured it out. Someone came and told me in orchestra in sixth grade right after she passed. My parents wouldn't let me come home either.

Then after that, a few cousins and uncles passed away. Those weren't as tragic towards me as the other ones though.

Those are just a few events. There are also a lot of on-going things in my life that bring me down.

I already mentioned it, but the fact of being made fun of everyday or so. I know I shouldn't let their words get to me and such, but I get made fun of everyday by people I absolutely hate. They get away with that shit all of the time and if I step up to the plate and try to defend myself, I get in trouble. I get into trouble all of the time. Even if I don't do something, I have to take the blame, and it seems like even if I try and defend myself, I get into MORE trouble. I can't stand it. I get made fun of for things I can't even control. My mental issues, my height, my family, etc. I'm sorry, but I can't control any of that, so it really gets to me.

My parents really bug me. I know, I know. Every teenage girl says that, but my parents don't really seem to care. They are SO strict. I'm not allowed out after 8:00 P.M. and I have to get offline at 8:30 P.M. Common concerns, right? Well...I guess....But they don't allow me to do ANYTHING. If I'm in a bad mood and I show it, they yell at me for taking it out on them, in which usually I am not. If I'm sad, they basically give me a "suck-it-up" kind of look and tell me to get over it. They rarely want to talk to me about things. When they do and I talk to them about my problems, they barely even listen. My parents are nice and all, but they don't really care. They just want me to bring home good grades and they want me to be well-behaved. We don't talk at all. They just expect me to be perfect.

I've never had many friends, and that's fine, but now even my best friends are causing a lot of issues between us. They both have boyfriends and they absolutely LOVE to rub that little fact in my face, seeing that I don't currently have a boyfriend. I don't care that they have boyfriends. That's great for them, sure, I'm happy for them, but do they have to rub it in my face that they have boyfriends and I don't? I don't care if they're being subtle about it. That's the impression that I get. They always talk about their boyfriends around me, even when I try and change the subject. I've tried to talk to them about this before, but they don't give a shit about my problems and they always bring the subject back to themselves or to their boyfriends. I had a serious talk with one of them on the subject and she just threw it back at me, telling me that this is how she felt when I was dating a guy named Alec. Well, excuse me, but I didn't make out with him in frong out of school. Meh.
nt of you. They show their affection publically, right in my face. I'll be talking with one of them, and they'll just start making out. Right there on the spot. In mid-sentence. Then my other friends never want to do anythi

No, boyfriends aren't all that I care about, but I still can't get over my ex. We had a weird break-up and we have a weird relationship now. He got a new girlfriend promptly after we broke up. He likes to talk about the "old times," but he never wants to re-live them or do anything as friends. It just gets to me. I'm really sensitive.

I have a few mental issues as well. I have chronic depression along with other things. I'm an insomniac, and it hurts me terribly grades-wise. And that, in return, makes my relationship with my parents worse. I cut a lot, and I am suicidal most of the time. I realize that last bit is brought on by myself and myself only, but some of it is caused by the mental disorders I have. The few people that know about my issues judge me by them. They don't get to know me because of my mental issues. They're almost afraid of me or something, I think.

Anyway, I've complained enough and I don't think anyone cares to read anymore about my childhood. I have more to say, but I'm tired of typing.

[*salcha*]

my mom and dad never got along, they fought every day and even wanted a divorce. they never did, and me and my sister suffered even more at home.

my mom and dad would never understand me, they took away a lot of things that i loved. actually, they took away everything i loved and made me live a more restricted life. I went to a lot of different schools, and my friends always changed. However, this year, I just don't seem to fit in. It was relaly weird, because out of all the schools I went to, this is the only one where it felt really secluded. Until this day, I still am. I lost many of my friends cuz I don't go to my old shcools anymore, so it doesn't matter to them who i am. :/
my mom recently took away sports. It was the only thing that made me happy cuz i didn't have to deal with other crap at home. sports were a comfort to me, and i got good grades while i was at it. my mom, however, didn't seem to care or notice that. so, she made me quit because she said that i should concentrate more on my grades. however, my grades are now worse than usual, i have never failed a class, this is my first time. i've been pretty depressed lately because of the things ways are rolling. my friends, my family, my sister, my grades. not one aspect of life is right for me. so it really sucks :/

[*Solipsist*]

I was sypmathetic until the last part.
Totally killed it.

- Solipsist

[iheartjohn]

Bad things that have happened to me?

It all started when I was 13, when I was going out with a man 12 years older than me (25). I was still a virgin, until one night we went out on a date. That's the night I lost my virginity against my will, and got pregnant.

Since I am against abortion, I had to keep the baby, but my family disapproved. I was kicked out of my house and had to live with random friends the whole time I was pregnant.

I worked part-time as a waitress and part-time as a nurse's aid, while I was pregnant. I was on my feet all day, I only got 5 hours (at most) of sleep a day for about 270 days. (9 months)

The man who raped me left me alone with the baby, so I had no one to support me. I was kicked out of high school, my home and I had to move to another state so I could live with one of my cousins, who actually understood.



But...it happens everyday, doesn't it?

[surfhottieoffcoa...]

evryone hates their life.....well, u only live life ONCE so make the best of it. even if it means taking chances. ONCE ONCE ONCE! UNO! 1! ONE TIMe...what if u go to hell for eturnity and u never got to live the life u wanted? i say EVEN IF LIFE THREATENING, U MIGHT NEVER GET THE CHANCE, so if its sky diving or donating money or somthing to make u feel better about urself, DO IT EVERY CHANCE LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST! in bible study i learned that GODBLESSYOU means ~to fill up with gods life enough to get u through~ SO GOD BLESS U! i know u all hate me, but god says that u may feel anger twards ur neighbor u just may not hate him/her because god says, "u cant hate them becaause i love them."

~Vee~

[surfhottieoffcoa...]

dont kill me ILOVESIMBA this will be my last double post have mercy for goodness sake.

my dad got skin cancer...real seryouse...i cryed......and i still do

[c0oki3_m0n$tah]

mind you... moving continents wasnt exactly the best possible experience

^agree..but in my case it was moving countries...it many be easier and not as tragic as your life story, but it was a HUGE experience for meh..it sux to be in a tough situation...but then u just gota live it...something new might happen later on in your life that could be great!

ps. what's cystic fibrosis? is it a sirious disease?

[*paul murphy*]

^agree..but in my case it was moving countries...it many be easier and not as tragic as your life story, but it was a HUGE experience for meh..it sux to be in a tough situation...but then u just gota live it...something new might happen later on in your life that could be great!

ps. what's cystic fibrosis? is it a sirious disease?

Cystic Fibrosis, it's a disease that affects the lungs VERY badly. It always SERIOUSLY affects the digestive system so if I dont take tablets before I eat or drink I will get VERY VERY VERY bad stomach pains. They are sooooooooo painful. And my lungs are so weak (becos of the Cystic Fibrosis) that I shudn't be walking and should be takin deep breaths every couple of seconds just to help myself breathe... but I am brave ! And I will continue 2 fite until I die... which will be at a younger age than the normal life expentincy. I have 2 take inhalers, nebulisers, tablets, and some times oxygen just to stay SORT of healthy.

I know another girl, 18, who has it. She says it REALLY ruins ur social life becos if u're goin out with somebody and u pull out tablets, they freak out and don't understand. That's something that I'm not looking foward 2. EVERYBODY stares at me in school while I take my tablets no matter how many hundreds of times i've did it b4. It is a serious problem... but I am being honest and not tooting my own horn at all, I am remarkable! I know it sounds like i luv myself but i am telling the truth. Our school Principal thinks i am remarkable and teachers think it is outstanding that I can play soccer with the disease that shud make me breathless constantly. I can't wait till one day (if they find a cure, which is virtually impossible) to be freed from this life-worrying disease and say: Hey, FU-K U, I WAS RITE! FU-K U, U WERE WRONG! I LIVED!

Not saying fu-k u, saying fu-k u to the doctors and scientists and other bast-rds that won't find a f**k-ng cure.

[*mzkandi*]

^well you are remarkable and dont ever let anyone tell your not. I dont really have any complicated story of my own but my dad right is currently suffering from kidney and heart failure and it is kinda hard because he cant do alot of the things he use to anymore.

[*Weird addiction*]

Cystic Fibrosis, it's a disease that affects the lungs VERY badly. It always SERIOUSLY affects the digestive system so if I dont take tablets before I eat or drink I will get VERY VERY VERY bad stomach pains. They are sooooooooo painful. And my lungs are so weak (becos of the Cystic Fibrosis) that I shudn't be walking and should be takin deep breaths every couple of seconds just to help myself breathe... but I am brave  ! And I will continue 2 fite until I die... which will be at a younger age than the normal life expentincy. I have 2 take inhalers, nebulisers, tablets, and some times oxygen just to stay SORT of healthy.

I know another girl, 18, who has it. She says it REALLY ruins ur social life becos if u're goin out with somebody and u pull out tablets, they freak out and don't understand. That's something that I'm not looking foward 2. EVERYBODY stares at me in school while I take my tablets no matter how many hundreds of times i've did it b4. It is a serious problem... but I am being honest and not tooting my own horn at all, I am remarkable! I know it sounds like i luv myself but i am telling the truth. Our school Principal thinks i am remarkable and teachers think it is outstanding that I can play soccer with the disease that shud make me breathless constantly.  I can't wait till one day (if they find a cure, which is virtually impossible) to be freed from this life-worrying disease and say: Hey, FU-K U, I WAS RITE! FU-K U, U WERE WRONG! I LIVED!

Not saying fu-k u, saying fu-k u to the doctors and scientists and other bast-rds that won't find a f**k-ng cure.

Oh wow, i totally admire you

[*paul murphy*]

You have it good compared to kids in Africa who don't have parents and are starving.

Well said... but still I bet LOADS of them still dont hav cystic fibrosis

[*Solipsist*]

Well said... but still I bet LOADS of them still dont hav cystic fibrosis

You're right. They only have those mild diseases. You know, like AIDS/HIV, Ebola(sp), Lassa Fever, The Plague, etc. Yep. The best part is that they have way better health care than you'll ever have. So you're pretty much right. You do have it worse than they do.

- Solipsist