most heartbreaking moment of your life Options

[extravaganzahh_]

the day when he told me that he hated me.
which i guess was all my fault.

poor boy.
get over it.
ure still young.
so many chances ahead of you.

or you can always make things clear. =]

[mouse_3k]

Mine was on september 03, 2004. When my first love ended it.

We were in a long distance relationship. he lived 20 minutes away. He hadda break up with me on the phone while we were webcamming.

We are still friends today though. I still love him. Ill never forget.

[lolthissiteisfun...]

Mine was on september 03, 2004. When my first love ended it.

We were in a long distance relationship. he lived 20 minutes away. He hadda break up with me on the phone while we were webcamming.

We are still friends today though. I still love him. Ill never forget.

20 minutes?? 20 minutes is like across my town. and i have a small town! weird!

[EddieV]

aaawww boohoo

get over it jeez...

[sadolakced acid]

yea so this girl i liked said came up to me and was like, i want to tell you something. so i say ok and she says i hate you.

i know i'm only 8, but that was very heartbreaking.

[*Azarel*]

yea so this girl i liked said came up to me and was like, i want to tell you something. so i say ok and she says i hate you. 
i know i'm only 8, but that was very heartbreaking.

Aw, I'm sorry Justin. I like you!

[sadolakced acid]

Aw, I'm sorry Justin. I like you!

haha...

well, you see. i'm not really 8. and it never really happened. but i'll take the flowers!

the most heartbreaking moment of my life has been erased from my mind. either that or it never happened.

[unconfirmed_exis...]

Hmmm heartbreaks, cow meat, b*tchs and a-holes..
LOVELY topics going about the relationship forums eh?
Eh who am I to complain, I help bump it up.

Errr probably the most heartbreaking moments are to come but.
I think the one that ouch'd me the most was when I was that naiive girl
that just barely understood the concept of crushes,
crushes = the world to me back then. I never really thought of anything else.

Oy! And man did I have a severe one on a guy that was a grade older then me.
We had a sweet little non-relationship thing going with him and since it was
sort of my first time getting extermely close to a guy and me being 13 or 12
I really thought I found my happily ever after with him aka big expectation.

We kept in contact with aim/yahoo but eventually the guy
found himself another fish, course I didn't know how close they were
since we kept contact by aim and he dropped not so direct hints.
Only until I went the mall with the two and realized
that they were flirting. Gosh, that sorta broke my 12-13 year
old heart to bits. Kinda like a little kid finding out santa was fake.

Of course I didn't burst out crying when I
found out but it sort of kept me up some nights somewhat shooken up.
I stared at the ceiling, and bitterly nicknamed the girl "chopstick" and the guy "frog"
and made up cruel stories so they'd end up unhappy to soothen my rage.

Course I have him to thank, if it weren't for him I would
have never realize what reality was really like. I got the hang of it
and eventually told myself "okay, so life doen't always go as planned..
But there's more to life then guys guys guys.. I gotta move on and pick up the pieces."

[JenxCrazii]

I'm still young, buh i rejected someone who could have changed my life..

[*a painefull euphoria*]

mine was when i foolishly stayed with a abusive boyfriend beacuse i didnt want to casue tension within the band we were in. but then it got to a certain point where i decided i was going to be in control again and so i got my revenge ....

so lets just say now i can proudly say ive broken both arms of a man at the same time.

[KissMe2408]

Probably when my dad left. That or my stepdad leaving.
Either felt pretty heartbreaking.

When a certain guy I dated broke up with me a few years back,
he was my first love and such, and I remember that was
very heartbreaking. Wasn't quite the same after that
relationship.

[AimeeLynn]

At least she doesn't know that you like her. What's worst is giving you heart twice (say you like him) to two different people and rejecting you right in front of face to face.

Plus you are only 13 like they said there is plenty of time to heal and find someone else.
I hope you feel better.

[me1issaaaa]

When I drew out an "I Love You!" card for a boy in my kindergarten class, and he looked at me and tore it up and stuck his tongue out at me. I may never fully recover

[breakingdawn]

my exboyfriend had a "secret" livejournal account with his best friend (who is the girl he's now currently going out with ) and I guess he forgot to make one of his posts friends only, and I read it, and it was saying how much he loved her and how he was just using me to get over her.

[*Duchess of Dork*]

Ok first off, LOL@Suzzette for rezzing this topic.

Most heartbreaking moment, easily was while I was in labor with my son. Um, no it wasn't just because it was physically draining and painful, but because my mom (who I do not get a long with, to say the very least) was the only person there. I remember looking over at her and feeling defeated, heartbroken, scared and hopeless. It was sort of a preface to my kid and I being alone.

BTW, turned out great though. My son and I are best friends. <3

[*Uronacid*]

After I lost my virginity... Yeah, everything felt like it was grey. I felt like the biggest looser in the world.

[lemonpie]

i was goin' with this guy on and off. we started flirting when he was a junior & i was a freshman in high school. he was an honor student and all the other honors girls thought he was the greatest thing on earth & i a normal average chick (who for some strange reason hung out w/ them) pretty much just flirted like i'd flirt with anyother guy just for the fun of it. well we got pretty close during my freshmeat year & he would ALWAYS get jealous of any guy i'd talk about or like. by the next year we started dating. i was having some really bad emotional problems back then and things were rough. we broke up & later on got back together again. what i didn't know what that he was with another girl who lived in NC but was soon to attend the same college as he was. when i found out he was dating both of us & said he luved us both the same i was heartbroken i cried for weeks & couldn't stop. my friends wouldn't even let him come close to me to talk. i really didn't know what i was goin' to do. i was trying to get my life back together & things fell apart again.

bad thing still we still see eachother from time to time and flirt & i get jealous everytime he's with another girl, cause i know that deep down i still love him and he has a peice of my heart.

[multifaceted]

What was your most <3 breaking moment of your life? Mine was just today. I made a topic on the reason why in relationships..cuz i like this girl and she and her friends were playing truth or dare..and the girl's friend i liked asked her 'Would you rather make out with jason (me) or andrew?" and she said andrew..who was my friend..it really broke my heart..

You are that desperate huh?

At the moment I always think it is a heartbreak but the next day I think, "Whatever."

So I deny that I have ever had a heartbreaking moment.

[kuhriistal]

my most heartbreaking moment of my life so far, was when i found out that my ex-boyfriend only got with me because his friends said they'd give him $2 (each i think? and there was only like, 4 friends who said that which makes $8) if he got with a girl. his friends are such a-holes, but i think he was a bigger one for actually doing it.

[pinay_cherry]

Find someone else dear to you. Maybe they'll be better kisser? :/

Umm my worst was like last month.[kwang] No last year. It was december 23rd, 2006 about 10 or 11am. My boyfriend of 2months dumped me. :P we had morals, his was about sex bringing two people closer. And mine, was the pride I have in my body, and how I want to stay a virgin. Therefore. It ended. Blah. I won't say more. He was screwed.

My bestfriend and also my xboyfriend of sixmonths[back in winter/fall of 05 until spring or 06] had a breakup because of distance. Took me all I could to forget him. But nope. We're still sticking with feelings. Blah. I'm a bad guy in the story.

:P I used someone & ended up getting hurt. Kwang was sweet and I sorta used him to try getting over what had been lost many months before. and then I still get hurt even more. My bestfriend was also hurt, because of the way kwang treated me. [hitting & just being shitful] maybe I deserved it. But we all want someone to love.

Either way, I'm still young. But I definately know I'm not going to let go of my bestfriend anytime soon. :]

good luck.

[xhidethedetails]

Probably when my ex broke up with me.
I got used.

[fameONE]

As far as relationships are concerned...

I got deployed then found out that my fiance, cheated on me, got pregnant then had an abortion.

[LostRenaissance]

dude theres millions of girls out there... and ur like 13... if she doesn't like u then move on

[wishforhelsinki]

oh man. she wanted to make out with ANDREW & not YOU? crazy..well mine was when i found out my boyfriend & close friend were having something going on. no, actually, i was more pissed off then heartbroken..but you know, shit happens.

[ohhmann_samantha]

oh wow
minee was my boyfreind of a year called me and out of now where goess "do you know why im calling" and i say no he says "to dump you, good bye"
it was just a little bit harsh.