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 Apr 6 2005, 08:48 AM
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If I could erase every bad memory.....would I??
[COLOR=purple]Not all of them. They do make you stronger. The one memory I would partly erase, would be of me and my ex boyfriend  Just the bad parts. Other than that I woul dkeep all my memories. Good and bad 
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Apr 6 2005, 10:50 AM
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I really don't like some of my memories. I really want to forget them... But with bad experiences it helps you grow stronger right?
Hmmm, I guess I should keep them because those memories make up what I am. 
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Apr 6 2005, 11:24 AM
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QUOTE(Nicole0402 @ Apr 6 2005, 8:48 AM) If I could erase every bad memory.....would I?? [COLOR=purple]Not all of them. They do make you stronger. The one memory I would partly erase, would be of me and my ex boyfriend Just the bad parts. Other than that I woul dkeep all my memories. Good and bad  i said every bad memory ;x |
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Apr 6 2005, 11:24 AM
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Am, no cos some of my bad memories were bad at the time but seem better as time goes on. When i was 3 i jumped of a couch thinking that i was a wrestler and got my eyelid caught on a corner table. It ripped and I needed three stitches. I was bleeding soooooo badly. But now it makes me happy knowing that i hurt myself 4 the sport i luv!!!
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Apr 6 2005, 11:51 AM
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If only... Group: Member Posts: 409 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,037 |
i kinda would.
But the world would feel pretty gay.... and that would be a good thing??? Lol |
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Apr 6 2005, 12:13 PM
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no. because after you got all the bad ones ereased....
the good ones won't seem so good anymore. 
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Apr 6 2005, 01:17 PM
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Some are just too bad..
So yes .. |
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Apr 6 2005, 01:26 PM
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 Ooh, Miranda. Group: Member Posts: 234 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 105,609 |
QUOTE no. because after you got all the bad ones ereased.... the good ones won't seem so good anymore. ^ agree. i learn from the bad mistakes and things that i make. so i don't think i'll ever erase the bad memories. |
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Apr 6 2005, 02:58 PM
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no because out of every bad memory comes a good memory, so erasing the bad ones will eventually erase the good ones.
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Apr 6 2005, 04:12 PM
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Bad memories? No. If you had to go through all of that "bad stuff," and end up not even remembering it...that would really suck.
Bad memories make you realize that it is over. Bad memories make you stronger. |
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Apr 6 2005, 04:16 PM
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I dont think I would either. but good question.
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Apr 6 2005, 04:22 PM
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you should keep every memory taht you have. everyone makes decisions based on memories. if you didnt have the bad memories...youd just repeat the situation instead of approaching something differently
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Apr 6 2005, 04:28 PM
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no, because then i wouldn't have the experience.
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Apr 6 2005, 05:42 PM
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no ..becuz all of the bad memories i have had only made me stronger and better in some way ..even if i cant see it now .. =)
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Apr 6 2005, 05:44 PM
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i would but what if every moment is a bad moment?
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Apr 6 2005, 05:47 PM
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ya... a couple of memories are...ehh... distubing... regrettable.... i was so dum as a kid... ya i would erase some..
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Apr 6 2005, 08:15 PM
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no i wouldnt. because memories teach you things. if you couldnt remember when you burned your hand on the stove, you would keep burning yourself. if you couldn't remember what happened when a friend jumped off a bridge, you might have done that too.
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Apr 6 2005, 08:18 PM
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No.
Even though it is painful, it really does help you grow as a person. A lot in your life would be different if you didn't remember the shitty times. For me, that moment was when my plane took off from Arizona to move to Mass. I sometimes wished to just forget all the hut I was feeling that day and all my friends that I had to leave. Altho it would spare me a lot of pain and tears, it really helped me grow. |
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Apr 6 2005, 08:24 PM
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mastakes are meant for teaching you a leson, so no. but maybe the moments where you turn diffrent shages of pink, yes.
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Apr 6 2005, 08:54 PM
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No, because I learned from my bad mistakes.
But maybe because I dwell on the past way too much. |
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Apr 6 2005, 08:56 PM
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no. i wouldn't be able to learn from my mistakes .. or you know, get stronger. -.-
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Apr 6 2005, 09:12 PM
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I wouldn't because I have learned a lot from things that have happened to me, good and bad. I think we would be rather naive if we didn't have bad memories, we would have no sense of reality.
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Apr 6 2005, 09:14 PM
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The obvious choice is to erase it.
But then. Without the bad memories, how could we even tell if a memory is good? And bad memories is what made you. |
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Apr 6 2005, 09:16 PM
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i would- espicially the embarrasing ones.
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Apr 6 2005, 09:16 PM
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i wouldnt erase all of them...only the useless ones that did nothing but make me miserable...
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