im not dead, please read this=( |
 Apr 5 2005, 09:25 PM
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 I would even die for you.  Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,747  |
Im not dead. I thought It over and I do have some SERIOUS problems with my life but I just didnt and COULD NOT do it because of the baby. Im in some deep shit here so please tell me what I can do. Or something encouraging.
If your here to say anything mean...DONT SAY IT |
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Apr 5 2005, 09:30 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
get abortion, can you not?
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Apr 5 2005, 09:31 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
if you stated your problem then i could try to help you...
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Apr 5 2005, 09:34 PM
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I would even die for you. Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,747 |
I will NOT get an abortion thats not right. Killing a baby
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Apr 5 2005, 09:34 PM
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 <3<3<3<3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,177 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,779 |
talk to someone.
it helps to have a friend or family member to listen and to comfort or support you. it takes a bit of the load off your back. don't do it alone, it never works. well atleast thats what i always see in the movies. but that first topic you made about you being preganant in the first place was very....member bashing. don't do that. |
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Apr 5 2005, 09:38 PM
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define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
if you're too afraid to talk to your parents you at least have to tell SOMEBODY you know in real life. at least your friends, you know? i remember when i was raped, my friends worried abuot me so they tried to find a clinic, i think it was called, and they said that they wouldn't call my parents if i asked but they helped me. so go to a clinic or something.
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| *nightmare4taki* |
Apr 5 2005, 09:39 PM
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Well Im glad you didn't go through with suicide. A mind is a terrible thing to waste. Stay in school study hard so that you can get a college scholarship in order to go to college. If not for yourself Just stay strong for your child. Listen to a song to sooth your soul. Something like:
2pac - keep your head up You will eventually have to come clean with your family about your situation. Just tell them you made a mistake. Stuff like this happens to people everyday and life still goes on. |
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Apr 5 2005, 09:41 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
^^ I love that song by 2pac!
I just watched an episode of some t.v. show and they said you can go to teenpreganancy.org is you need information on how to handle a situation or someone to talk to. I also agree with Toby, try going to a clinic. In health, they said that the staff at the clinic will not contact your parents, it's confidential. |
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Apr 5 2005, 09:42 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 293 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 105,653 |
well...you didnt diee!!! hoorayyy
now...since you decided to not get abortion what are you gonna do?? raise the baby yourself or maybe adoption...and if you are keeping the baby are your parents approving? and like sharpieaddicted said dont do it alonee... and dont ever think of killing yourselfff!!!!! not worth it...to ever down theres always an up just keep your head up and work through it |
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Apr 5 2005, 09:52 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
well that's great, that you decided the right thing, and didn't kill yourself...
 as everyone else said, go with a close friend to a clinic or w.e. if you're not ready to raise the baby, put it up for adoption. and you have to tell your family sometimes. it's kind of hard to miss when someone's stomach is that big... most likely, they'll probably be really mad at first, but hopefully they'll help you out in spite of it all  good luck 
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Apr 5 2005, 09:59 PM
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You need to talk to someone. A close friend or relative.
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Apr 5 2005, 10:06 PM
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 *.'.'._gillie_.'.'.* Group: Member Posts: 563 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,217 |
since ur only 13.. arent u? well yea..i would suggest telling and family member or adult that u can trust.. and if that person is not ur parents then u should have them tell ur parents and then well.. i guess ur parents will decide from there...good luck..i guess
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Apr 5 2005, 10:09 PM
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 Litt0 Mi55 T@rA! Group: Member Posts: 185 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,734 |
no abortions please. i hate it when people do that. >.< umm...well how did you get pregnant? yeah sounds stupid..i mean did you have sex or get raped? kuz it seems you're hiding it kuz you're scared..so either reason could be it....umm...the best thing to do is talk to someone you can trust....don't talk to school counselors...they call your parents and tell them...trust me i know. just try to talk to your paretns maybe? i dunno...never been in this situationn... =(
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Apr 5 2005, 10:18 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 416 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,342 |
NO ABORTION pls. that's just sad 'cause its like killing a baby >.< newaiz, u should talk to either your parents, family, or your best friend that u can trust. most likely, its your parents that are going to help u. i kno its hard to tell your parents that u're pregnant, but think about it. once u get over it, they'll help u out, give u some hints and tips on how to take care of a baby ^_^ never think of suicidal again. i mean, I'm sure everyone u love will miss u and be upset. talk to someone!
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Apr 5 2005, 10:21 PM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
QUOTE([e]scapedconfusion @ Apr 5 2005, 9:34 PM) I will NOT get an abortion thats not right. Killing a baby  I'm confused. You didn't mind killing yourself AND your baby just a couple of hours ago, and now you're against it? Oh well, at least you've made up your mind. 
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Apr 5 2005, 10:23 PM
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hmm i think theres somethin where the baby can be adopted right after its adopted..i think you have to arrange it.. iunno
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Apr 5 2005, 10:23 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 58 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,477 |
*right after its born
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Apr 5 2005, 10:24 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,190 |
I think u went alot already...y dunt u talk to a friend or go to a counselor..my friend got alot of help in the counseling office...go to church!!! REMEMBER tHAT YOU ARE NOT ALONE
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Apr 5 2005, 11:56 PM
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 hi, my name is brianna! =] Group: Official Member Posts: 5,764 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,114 |
You know what..
I DON'T CARE. You're probably just making all this stuff up, and if you weren't, I would appreciate it if you were nicer to cB. |
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Apr 6 2005, 12:11 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
talk to someone in real life..like ur parents or a friend..u eventually will have to tell ur parents..if u dont want to get a abortion then i guess either u raise it ur self..or get the baby adopted right after its born..i cant really help..sorry..
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Apr 6 2005, 12:15 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 913 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,212 |
Lets see....
QUOTE Goobye. This is my suicide letter. Dear parents, friends, xanga, and createblog, you all are so horrible. You SUCK. You totally ruined my life. After all I did for you I am now forced to leave you forever. I will slit my wrists until I die a horrible death.  I actually DO love some of you. I just...I cant take it anymore.Goodbye. SINCERELY, ME And QUOTE OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OGM OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG MY AUNT IS PREGNANT AND I AM TO AND I AM PREGNANT FROM HER BROTHERS BOYFRIENDS GIRLFRIENDS COUSINS BEST FRIENDS BEST FRIENDS UNCLES SON!!!!!! IM PREGNANT OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG IM ONLY 13!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG IM GONNA DIE BECAUSE IM PREGNANT!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!' f**k f**k f**k f**k f**k f**k f**k f**k!!! (sry im freaking out now) im gonna go slit my wrists Hmmmmm This makes your story very...... unbelievable. 
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Apr 6 2005, 08:07 AM
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 Foreplay Group: Member Posts: 129 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,737 |
Well beleive it or not. Everything turns out to be ok. Keep the baby, and keep yourself happy, and healthy. For you and the baby.
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Apr 6 2005, 08:16 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,032 |
Well you could keep the baby :P and.. well.. tell ur mum.. talk to her privately.......and tell her allyour feeliings.. shes gonna help you i know it..
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Apr 6 2005, 02:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
QUOTE I AM PREGNANT FROM HER BROTHERS BOYFRIENDS GIRLFRIENDS COUSINS BEST FRIENDS BEST FRIENDS UNCLES SON!!!!!! IM PREGNANT OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG IM ONLY 13 WHAT THE HELL? your uncle's/dad's BOYFRIEND'S GIRLFRIEND'S cousin's best friend's best friend's uncle's son? WHAT THE f**k. YOU ATTENTION WHORE. |
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Apr 6 2005, 02:18 PM
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 SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
QUOTE(sweetxsimplicity @ Apr 5 2005, 11:56 PM) You know what.. I DON'T CARE. You're probably just making all this stuff up, and if you weren't, I would appreciate it if you were nicer to cB. thats how i see it get a life u ninken poop |
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