Its been a long time, should I still wait? |
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 Apr 5 2005, 03:05 PM
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 i hate you...but i LOVE you  Group: Member Posts: 42 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,045  |
I have an ex boyfriend...that I was with for 4 years. I was absolutely head over heals in love with him...and visa versa. As time went on we wuld get in more and more fights because we were with each other all of the time! and jealousy was a big issue with him and with me. Well we broke up a year and a half ago...I have tried to get over him and tried sooo hard to move on but I cant. I still love him sooo much and he still knows I like him but hasnt said too much on the topic. neither one of us are in any relationship right now...and it seems like he hasnt even looked at another girl....am i being stupid by waiting for him even though it feels right...or should I keep holding on?
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Apr 5 2005, 03:18 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
You need to move on. Nobody knows how long this guy is willing to hold on to you. You guys need to give each other space so you are able to move on!
Or you can wait. Wait and possibly, watch him move on. Wait and possibly, waste years on waiting. It's your choice. If you truly believe you have something special that can work out, sure go ahead and wait, but I don't suggest it. I speak from experience... |
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Apr 5 2005, 04:09 PM
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i hate you...but i LOVE you Group: Member Posts: 42 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,045 |
you are so right...i dont know that was what I wanted to hear but def. what I needed to hear. thank you.
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Apr 5 2005, 09:15 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
don't live on dreams.
don't live on false hopes. don't live on what if's. take action, move on, and live ur life like ur supposed to. don't wait for him to move on first. no point holding onto nothing. i know it's hard. but if u keep on waiting, ur just going to get more and more attached, and it's going to be that much harder. hope that helps. |
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Apr 5 2005, 09:37 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
move on, forget him and move on
it's been over a year, if something was going to happen it should've happened a long time ago, and plus he KNOWS how you feel. if he was a great guy why would he want you to be all in love with him while he does nothing about it? you have to get over him, don't just wait around for something that most likely won't happen, you're probably still young, i doubt that he's the one for you |
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