Boyfriends....Parents...., ... |
 Mar 31 2005, 08:43 PM
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**I'm O sO fLy**  Group: Member Posts: 304 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,281  |
Well I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend... But i've been goin' out with ppl since 4th grade.... And i guess my parents don't want me to have a boyfriend is b/c they think i will have a baby and end up doin' bad things... this is not true... that's not me. i know what's right from wrong and i know when goin' to far is and i need to stop. I currently have a boyfriend and he treats me great but my dad now doens't allow any boys callin' my house anymore defitnally him b/c my dad heard him say " I love you " and i got caught... I am still with this guy and i just dunno what to tell my parents it's just sad and confusing for me to keep hiding these things from him... I need a boy their to comfort me and be loved and i love him back alot but i ono how to tell my parents...
how can i get this through to my parents? so they will allow me to have boyfriends? 
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Apr 4 2005, 06:27 PM
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 DInosawr...Rawr. =3 Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,134 |
why do azn parents act this way??!!?!? My dad says that I cant' date until i'm 60! SIXTY for gosh sakes!!!! And my mom, she probably agrees...but i would be so scared to date some guy like hanging around going places...cuz i swear, that woman has eyes EVERYWHERE! haha...they think that it would make me do bad things...like influence me into the wrong directions...come on now, these are the same ppl who think FRIENDS have a bad influence on you! *sigh* Geesh...I don't want to disobey them...but like you...I want a guy to make me feel safe too. And well, either date in secret, or wait until college...or where they can't have their friends watch you....
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Apr 4 2005, 06:31 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 243 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,570 |
Honestly, I haven't had a REAL relationship with anyone that I'd actually cry about, they were more of best male friends. I mean .. I'm scared it'll interfere with my lifestyle. I mean half of my friends are obsessed with their boyfriends and it's sad and pitiful. For example my best friend [14], her boyfriend moved, and she hasn't gone out the house since, started cutting, and all this other sh*t...
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Apr 4 2005, 07:28 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 57 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,407 |
asian parents right? yeah, i can never do anything fun. cant even like a boy... cant go outside with my girl friends unless they meet them in person which is really embarrassing and they've flipped through my phonebook in the cell and saw all these boys names and they flipped out.
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Apr 4 2005, 09:14 PM
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 sunshiine Group: Member Posts: 1,080 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,360 |
QUOTE(x uHoH iTs Lo x @ Mar 31 2005, 6:24 PM) Most parents will not change their mind about this. No matter what you tell them. they will keep that rule  yupp/.. i guess you have to be much more careful.. me and my best friends like plan out everything so that nothing would collide when we go out with our bfs.. 
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