school problems, this is my story Options

[*Statistik*]

okay..this is my story..people say nobody likes me in our grade..except for this loser in our grade..(everyone hates him much as they hate me) but im his friend..i think its starting to be true..but not sure still..Do you think all the ppl in my grade are saying that i have no friends, no life to offend me and hurt my feelings or that no one really dosent like me or thinks i dont have a life?? Cuz these are some probs.

Everytime I change for gym in the locker room this fat kid bullies me. He starts picking me up, steals my shoes, harasses me in many ways. I feel uncomfortable around him cuz everytime he sees me or I see him, he goes near me. I want to tell on him but im afraid im gonna get in trouble because people can stand up for him and help him and he can make up another story.. He acts gay to me. all the time. And he actually has friends.

Why dont people like me? why? (im talking about ppl in my grade, not here in cb -_-) Is it cuz im ignorant? stupid? annoying? weird? mean? I dont know..some1 please help me here..

And when people say "hi" to me..i feel like they dont mean it..i think theyre just faking..u know what i mean..


WELL another reason why i think ppl hate me cuz early in the year..i called this kid a jewbag..and everybody started to spread it around the school..and i think its cuz of what idk..idk what the main reason is..and omfg this italian kid is like "I love seeing chinese men naked" WOW WTF..? THAT really hurt me even though im not chinese. Remember, Im new to this school this year. They think im chinese. IM KOREAN.

[toodlepops.]

Do you even try to talk to the other kids?

[Teesa]

once i punched this fat kid in the boob and my hand poped out.

aw, that's sad, but made me laugh
but I definitely think you should make an effort to talk to them and find out what the problem is.

[racoons > you]

use the power of the twinkie. lure them to fall out the window. it's the only way.

ROFL!

lol

well did you rap at them? b/c that wont have helped.

seriously tho, starting a new school is a bitch, i've been there. firstly, tell them you're korean. as they probably dont know. i cant tell what country an asian person is from on sight, other people probably cant either.

if you're being actively bullied, rather than just left out, then you really ought to tell someone. it wont be fun, but it is most likely to make it stop. otherwise.. i dunno.

[angel-roh]

Well there can be a starting trend. If a popular person doesn't like you, then they start of a trend. I bet there's many who hates you when they never even know who you really are. Maybe they are gona listen to the popular kids cause you said JewBags... or hurt someone's feeling when you never realized it. I guess you need to show a little innocence in you? Well I know that there are lot of bullies who are half popular to people in school. Well you know, if he threats you too much, go talk with your counselor and if the counselor is on the bully's side... then go call 911 haha.

[demolished]

i'm not sure but i kind of have a FRIEND who is almost the same as you. from my similar experience, i think its because you're defenseless or doesnt have the guts to stand up for youself. you're existence is worth to be picked on. you got to be smart and have plans what are you going to do next if something happens .. that is how i am today, i made friends and i fight for myself. never let youself down and act like nothing has happen. well, you can report a very deep situation to the princible about yourself and rumors.

[ i dont mean to offend you or something, i'm just helping]

^are u crazy?

well..i told them im korean and theyre like "oh" and they say it again like few days later

AND IF I BEAT them up, ill get in more trouble. I dont wanna fight.

Maybe its cuz i never talk..people think im so shy..and they also say i act so tough on the internet and at school u barely talk blah blah....

is it because you're expressing your emotion and feeling on the internet and not in real life ? its because of face to face ?

[innovation]

action plan for an improved jason

1) be nice. clearly, if you call someone a "jewbag," they will be offended. keeping your mouth shut is the first step to gaining friends.

2) be composed. spazzy = risky. people don't like being around volatile people, but everyone likes a calm, rational, easygoing person.

3) join something. be it sports, student council, music, whatever-- join something at your school and devote your time to it. if you succeed or contribute significantly to a certain activity, people will respect you. you'll gain a good reputation, and you'll gain more friends.

4) improve your appearance. i know, it sounds really superficial, but what i mean is-- don't wear anything too outrageous. maybe this would apply more to slutty girls.

5) do well in school. although most think that "nerds" are disrespected, you can actually gain a lasting reputation if you get good grades, participate in class, etc. be open to helping others out, and eventually, people will start liking you more.

6) first convince the girls. it's the truth: girls are generally more accepting, and thus, it'll be much easier to sway their friendship, first.

[Shattered_Hope]

People can hate you because....
1.) What you may have did to them...
2.) Because of who you are in general..
3.) Because of who you know...
4.) Or...because they feel like it....other words being: they hate you for no reason at all...
5.) their friends hate you..
In most situations people hate you because they don't know you....try to find someone who might have common traits with you.

[demolished]

action plan for an improved jason

1) be nice. clearly, if you call someone a "jewbag," they will be offended. keeping your mouth shut is the first step to gaining friends.

2) be composed. spazzy = risky. people don't like being around volatile people, but everyone likes a calm, rational, easygoing person.

3) join something. be it sports, student council, music, whatever-- join something at your school and devote your time to it. if you succeed or contribute significantly to a certain activity, people will respect you. you'll gain a good reputation, and you'll gain more friends.

4) improve your appearance. i know, it sounds really superficial, but what i mean is-- don't wear anything too outrageous. maybe this would apply more to slutty girls.

5) do well in school. although most think that "nerds" are disrespected, you can actually gain a lasting reputation if you get good grades, participate in class, etc. be open to helping others out, and eventually, people will start liking you more.

6) first convince the girls. it's the truth: girls are generally more accepting, and thus, it'll be much easier to sway their friendship, first.

wow, thats actually true. thats something i have done before. HAHAHA. girls are more accepting too.. thats a good thing. YEP, DOING WELL IN SCHOOL DOES A BIG DIFFERENT AND GET MORE COMPLIMENTS from others. yes yes yes, always keep the mouth close to gain more friends... this is soo true. great job purple !

[OriskybusinessO]

action plan for an improved jason

1) be nice. clearly, if you call someone a "jewbag," they will be offended. keeping your mouth shut is the first step to gaining friends.

2) be composed. spazzy = risky. people don't like being around volatile people, but everyone likes a calm, rational, easygoing person.

3) join something. be it sports, student council, music, whatever-- join something at your school and devote your time to it. if you succeed or contribute significantly to a certain activity, people will respect you. you'll gain a good reputation, and you'll gain more friends.

4) improve your appearance. i know, it sounds really superficial, but what i mean is-- don't wear anything too outrageous. maybe this would apply more to slutty girls.

5) do well in school. although most think that "nerds" are disrespected, you can actually gain a lasting reputation if you get good grades, participate in class, etc. be open to helping others out, and eventually, people will start liking you more.

6) first convince the girls. it's the truth: girls are generally more accepting, and thus, it'll be much easier to sway their friendship, first.

reminds me of my father... tell the principal, dean or someone if your being harrassed. and when i first came to my new school, i thought no one liked me either, but what i did is just tried to talk to people in our class, and eventually, even though they arent my best of friends, they are someone to talk to, get help from, etc. Good Luck!

[i_am_a_chameleon]

awwww
*hug*

[racoons > you]

action plan for an improved jason

1) be nice. clearly, if you call someone a "jewbag," they will be offended. keeping your mouth shut is the first step to gaining friends. 

2) be composed. spazzy = risky. people don't like being around volatile people, but everyone likes a calm, rational, easygoing person.

3) join something. be it sports, student council, music, whatever-- join something at your school and devote your time to it. if you succeed or contribute significantly to a certain activity, people will respect you. you'll gain a good reputation, and you'll gain more friends.

4) improve your appearance. i know, it sounds really superficial, but what i mean is-- don't wear anything too outrageous. maybe this would apply more to slutty girls.

5) do well in school. although most think that "nerds" are disrespected, you can actually gain a lasting reputation if you get good grades, participate in class, etc. be open to helping others out, and eventually, people will start liking you more.

6) first convince the girls. it's the truth: girls are generally more accepting, and thus, it'll be much easier to sway their friendship, first.

do wha tmindy said. mindy should be a school counsellor. wel actually, she should be president, but baby-steps, no?

[Ington]

action plan for an improved jason

1) be nice. clearly, if you call someone a "jewbag," they will be offended. keeping your mouth shut is the first step to gaining friends.

2) be composed. spazzy = risky. people don't like being around volatile people, but everyone likes a calm, rational, easygoing person.

3) join something. be it sports, student council, music, whatever-- join something at your school and devote your time to it. if you succeed or contribute significantly to a certain activity, people will respect you. you'll gain a good reputation, and you'll gain more friends.

4) improve your appearance. i know, it sounds really superficial, but what i mean is-- don't wear anything too outrageous. maybe this would apply more to slutty girls.

5) do well in school. although most think that "nerds" are disrespected, you can actually gain a lasting reputation if you get good grades, participate in class, etc. be open to helping others out, and eventually, people will start liking you more.

6) first convince the girls. it's the truth: girls are generally more accepting, and thus, it'll be much easier to sway their friendship, first.

Mindy is so awesome. Thats why I love her.

And yeah, James, I told her she should be President but she doesn't want to. :\

[racoons > you]

^

i dont care. she's going to be whether she likes it or not. i've now decided.

grr arrgh

[*Statistik*]

awwww
*hug*

^shut the fuk up bitch

[*nightmare4taki*]

^shut the fuk up bitch

Maybe this is why people at your school dont like you. Someone was trying to show you sympathy and you say f*ck you. Maybe you need to change your whole Demeanor before you get people to like you.

1. If your going to act like another culture make sure its authenic and not fake.
Like Basik said the your claming to be gangster on the internet and yet your lifestyle is totally different.
2. If you such a Kangsta beat the sh*t out of that kid otherwise don't claim something you dont represent.
3. If no one likes you so what. Be happy with the friends that like you.
4. Practice Basketball or Football and play it then the girls will be attracted to you even if you sit on the bench.

Now I truly feel sorry for you man. Hope everything works out.

[funbobby]

Personally I think you serve to be bullied kangsta boy, and if I was at your school, I'd probably hit you as well. If they're not hitting you by the way, insult their mothers, I dare you.

[O x LiseE x O]

Jewbag? And you wonder why people hate you? Racism last forever, had you been at my school and said something racial, I'd make sure you're life was hell. o.O And you calling this other kid a "loser" doesn't help you what-so-ever. You're just like them. Heh.

[funbobby]

2. If you such a Kangsta beat the sh*t out of that kid otherwise don't claim something you dont represent.

lol. I like you.

[*basick*]

^shut the fuk up bitch

lmfao wow.... no wonder people hate you

[dahding]

^shut the fuk up bitch

haha. no wonder no one likes u. i hope the fat kid sits on u and breaks ur ribs. and then farts on ur face.

so gluck with that.

[miszSERENiTY]

ahhhhahaha...i wouldn`t like your ass either.

[juliar]

YOU, my friend, have to learn social skills.

even if it spreads around the school, who cares. pretend it was a joke.
about the naked chinese man thingy, no one cares if your chinese or korean, because theyre trying to hurt you.

learn to laugh at yourself, and dont try to paint some bs image of yourself, because that may be a reason.

when that fatass gets on your nerves again, dont just stand there. but dont hit him either. tell him to get off your ass. get some damn respect and stop friggin whining.


and being racist never helps. neither does cursing or trying to be gangsta or whatever you wanna call it...kangsta. whatever.

also, if there are any new kids or whatever next year, try to make friends with them. don't let any other people tell them "oh you wont be popular if youre friends with him" you have to make some good friends, close friends that you respect and that respect you. you can't just sit around waiting for some damn miracle. try to be nice to someone who doesnt seem to pick on you as much, someone who doesnt laugh at you all the time.

a journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step.

[Skyline Drive]

haha. no wonder no one likes u. i hope the fat kid sits on u and breaks ur ribs. and then farts on ur face.

so gluck with that.

HAHA. Indeed.

[lolthissiteisfun...]

except for this loser in our grade..(everyone hates him much as they hate me) but im his friend

what a great way to make friends, call them losers

Everytime I change for gym in the locker room this fat kid bullies me. He starts picking me up, steals my shoes, harasses me in many ways. I feel uncomfortable around him cuz everytime he sees me or I see him, he goes near me. I want to tell on him but im afraid im gonna get in trouble because people can stand up for him and help him and he can make up another story.. He acts gay to me. all the time. And he actually has friends.

ignore him and he'll stop


And when people say "hi" to me..i feel like they dont mean it..i think theyre just faking..u know what i mean..
if you didn't worry about it so much, you would be a lot happier. who cares why they are saying hi? at least they're sayin it.

i  called this kid a jewbag..and everybody started to spread it around the school

yet another great way to make friends...

They think im chinese. IM KOREAN.

annoying, I'm sure, but not that big of a deal.

^shut the fuk up bitch

quit being mean like that or you'll never have friends

my advice, don't call people jewbags, and don't call your only friend a loser, and don't be all desperate for friends, just be nice and be happy you have one friend, and ignore the guy in gym. and quit being mean. also try to get involved, but don't come on all strong and demand to know why people don't like you. join something, but start quietly, and NICELY. maybe after a while people will change their mind about you, and then you can actually trying to make polite conversation. Cheese is a good topic starter good luck

ps- calling your self a kangsta, which is bad enough in itself, is probably not very attracting. Coming on all strong, and i hate you all, i don't care what u think ur are so mean and I'm a tough "kangsta" is generally not a good way to make friends. So just be friendly! I'm sure people will like you

also, i know very few people who can easily tell what country in asia someone is from by looking a them.

[*jooleeah*]

hmm...maybe becuz your an a-hole?

1. It's you're, not your.
2. Your posts are annoying.

action plan for an improved jason

1) be nice. clearly, if you call someone a "jewbag," they will be offended. keeping your mouth shut is the first step to gaining friends. 

2) be composed. spazzy = risky. people don't like being around volatile people, but everyone likes a calm, rational, easygoing person.

3) join something. be it sports, student council, music, whatever-- join something at your school and devote your time to it. if you succeed or contribute significantly to a certain activity, people will respect you. you'll gain a good reputation, and you'll gain more friends.

4) improve your appearance. i know, it sounds really superficial, but what i mean is-- don't wear anything too outrageous. maybe this would apply more to slutty girls.

5) do well in school. although most think that "nerds" are disrespected, you can actually gain a lasting reputation if you get good grades, participate in class, etc. be open to helping others out, and eventually, people will start liking you more.

6) first convince the girls. it's the truth: girls are generally more accepting, and thus, it'll be much easier to sway their friendship, first.

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