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 Apr 3 2005, 02:17 PM
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QUOTE(cocoalightning27 @ Apr 2 2005, 5:41 PM) Now is not the time to panic, now is the time to investigate  ^what he said. don't jump to conclusions yet because that could turn out badly. just do some detective work and get your friends to help you 
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Apr 3 2005, 03:39 PM
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comunication is the best thing i think never jump to conclusions untill facts are found so just talk to him ummmm tell him you trust him and ask him
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Apr 3 2005, 03:44 PM
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hmm. tough question.
he mightve meant "dont worry im not going out with another girl" and it came out sorta wrong. and then when u said "i never said you were" he mightve felt stupid and said oops. but i dunno, best to just talk to him. |
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Apr 3 2005, 03:48 PM
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Ask him about it. Then ask his friends. And go visit him by surprise.
If he still loves you than he will be happy. If not you could walk in on him.. |
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Apr 3 2005, 04:16 PM
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QUOTE(im_s0_sp0ngey @ Apr 2 2005, 9:44 PM) You should worry, but don't freak out. me: where are you going? him: i'm not going out with another gurl me: i never said you were me: O_o him: oops He said "oops". That's a big giveaway. I agree. Talk to him about it. |
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Apr 3 2005, 04:20 PM
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Not really but I would watch out.
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Apr 3 2005, 04:27 PM
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i guess u should.... maybe ask him but i guess he wont tell you the truth
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Apr 3 2005, 07:01 PM
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QUOTE(ficklenesswhatever @ Apr 3 2005, 3:48 PM) Ask him about it. Then ask his friends. And go visit him by surprise. If he still loves you than he will be happy. If not you could walk in on him.. i can't visit him, i would like to and see what's up but we're pretty far away from each other. he's been telling me he's really busy, and doesn't have time to talk online 
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Apr 3 2005, 07:08 PM
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Sorry guys i didnt realize it doubled... or trippled.. .
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Apr 3 2005, 07:08 PM
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First off, Look back on your old conversations. Was there some part there that you either got jealous or something. Maybe he just got defencive because he remembered how you acted before? If not them.. uh oh.
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Apr 3 2005, 07:09 PM
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First off, Look back on your old conversations. Was there some part there that you either got jealous or something. Maybe he just got defencive because he remembered how you acted before? If not them.. uh oh.
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Apr 3 2005, 07:52 PM
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^ he loves to make me jealous sometimes, i can tell. but i don't do that. it p!sses me off sometimes
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Apr 3 2005, 08:58 PM
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if he loves to make you jealous then maybe its a game hes playing. But also the "oops" was kinda wierd, wouldnt he (if he meant to keep it quiet) revert to another subject? <3
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Apr 3 2005, 10:01 PM
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well.. i don't really know. but maybe. depends on the type of guy your bf is.
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Apr 3 2005, 10:07 PM
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hmm. if that were me, i would've asked him about it on the spot, not wait around for it .. and just stress my self out about it. i say you should talk to him..and tell him how you feel..
#1 rule of relationships: COMMUNICATION.. tell him your feelings.. |
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Apr 3 2005, 11:51 PM
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he probably thought he was tryin to read your mind...aka being a smartass...I wouldnt worry too much.
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Apr 3 2005, 11:53 PM
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yes
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Apr 4 2005, 02:26 AM
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hmm. iff it was me, the next time he says "i gotta go" just say "aiites, bye". dont ask him where he's going. and if u can, next time u talk say "i gotta go owt with my homegirls". its that easy.
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Apr 4 2005, 02:30 AM
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i think he is cheating..isnt it kinda OBVIOUS?
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Apr 4 2005, 01:50 PM
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you should do something! don't snoop, but ask him. and if he's still acting/being guilty, drop him. you don't need that drama.
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Apr 4 2005, 01:55 PM
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QUOTE(ItzOnlySydney @ Apr 3 2005, 9:53 PM) yes Stop spamming. And, get your facts straight before jumping to conclusions |
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Apr 4 2005, 02:21 PM
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i guess you guys are right
but i don't know how to ask him |
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Apr 4 2005, 04:52 PM
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I'd be worried, especially if he said Oops. If he didn't then he *might* have been kidding.
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Apr 4 2005, 05:12 PM
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why would he blurt that out?? hmm maybe his concience is bothering him so much he had to confess? and didnt mean to..
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Apr 4 2005, 06:19 PM
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It could be what is called a Freudian slip. He meant to say something, but it just slipped out.
You shouldn't panic, but I think you should talk to him about it. He may have even been joking. It is hard to tell over the internet. Best of luck, I know long-distance relationships are hard. |
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