-Really- Long Distance Relationship?, what to do? >_< |
 Apr 15 2004, 10:32 PM
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 - kuupi! ♥-  Group: Member Posts: 937 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,148  |
Ah, this probably sounds super cheesy, but I just don't know what to do. Might as well just explain the situation...
I'm still really close with one of my ex boyfriends. We had gone out for a little under two years before we broke up, and I can honestly say that I was in love with him. He's basically one of my best friends, and he's really the only guy I can tell anything and everything to and not be judged. After our highschool graduation, he went into the Army ( despite my avid protesting ). I haven't gotten that much of a chance to talk him after he left basic training, and got assigned near Panmunjon in South Korea. But, a couple weeks ago, he called me everyday for a week straight because he said he missed me, and wanted to hear my voice again. ( aww ) The thing is, I realized while talking to him that I still have feelings for him. Is it just because he's on the other side of the world from me and I'd rather he was here where I would know he was safe, or am I really still 'in love' with him? If love's the case, what can I do other than wait until his tour of duty is up in 2006? 
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Apr 16 2004, 12:33 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 60 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,884 |
awww i feel ur saddnes...not to sound selfish but me and my blah" broke up...because of long distance...ek ek sooo do it this way...keep wahtever it is thats goin on as long as it keeps u happy...it the risk of every realationship...and when that day comes na maybe it wont work out,...at least u still have memories...to look back to...right,,!!! take care...
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Apr 16 2004, 03:32 AM
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 that girl is poison. Group: Member Posts: 283 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,511 |
i wouldn't react to the situation too soon, figure out what your feeling for him before you take any prevelance to the issue between you guys. it'll be much simpler, and his reason for calling you is probably because he still has feelings for you but still sorting it out, or giving YOU time to sort it out. it nice to be able to say that ur were honestly in love with someone, but when you said it, it was past tense ... so you might wanna take a look at ur subconscience writings. go with your intuition ... ask yourself if it would matter if he did the same thing, but lived in the same city? its all about askin urself the right questions. hope i didnt make things even more complicated ... =x
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Apr 16 2004, 09:36 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
well i would continue talking to him if he calls and just be friends for now, dont think too much if u still like him or anything, put that aside, time will tell u if u still like him and wut if u like him now but by 2006 u dont like him anymore? it'll hurt him if u told him about it rite? until ur sure that u love him and by 2006 u'll still love him, then confront
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Apr 17 2004, 08:30 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
it seems like u want him to be around u can be happy agen, so i guess u miss him a lot...and miss the memories u have shared... so that means u want him to be around.... u jus miss him a lot...i dont think u like him... cus thats the same feeling i am...right now like u...lols... i break up with my ex......and i reallie miss him a lot...and i found out that i dont like him... i jus miss him and that i wish he was talkin' to me...and hanging out... heh
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