he won't stop, ..calling me that is Options

[dancingkait]

hi has this ever happened to you? there's this friend of mine who confessed to liking me. im fine with it as long as he knows i don't like him back. so i told him i only liked him as a friend and he understood. then he asked me for my phone number. i don't like talking on the phone much and so i told him no for that very reason. and again..he understood. but then one day he phones me on my cell. i dont like getting phone calls on my cell because it costs $$. so i made up some excuse to get off the phone. everyday after that for about a week he called me at least once a day! i answered a few times but when im home i dont keep my cell with me (which is the only # he phones). one day he tried to reach me 4 times in 4 hours, and phoned me 10 times in 2 days..just to talk..even though i told him no.

yesterday i told him to stop calling me. and then he denies phoning me! im thinking...hellooo? i can prove it i have caller id...so i tell him i can prove it. he still denied it but he said he wouldn't call my cell and changed the subject. then 2 minutes ago he phones my cell again. im at work so i cant talk anyways but i can't believe after i told him to stop he still called me.
can anyone relate? or have any tips for a way to make him stop?

[shanny]

you could tell him you got a new phone number, and give him the rejection hotline one instead. no,jk thats mean. uhhh. i hate talking on the phone so that never happens to me. just tell him its cool that your friends...but if he keeps calling you're not going to want to be friends either..because. he's slightly annoying, no?

[--x who0ps]

well, my "bestfriend" used to phone me like 247. i mean right after school, ring ring ring on my cell. im like GO AWAYYY cause i had caller id too. So then i jst told her to stop calling me cause its wasting alot of money [even though i`ve never used even half my minutes] & so she starts calling my phone. So then i told her i wasnt allowed to call anymore cause my parents "said i couldnt". & i said that my cell was only for EMERGENCYS. so whenever she calls, i jst pick up & hang up. ;X

[*salcha*]

tell him to back off, be stern.

[inthemudhole]

Just tell him you don't appreciate him calling all the time.
If he doesn't get it, then get firm.

[swe3ttemptasian]

Be really blunt about it, that you don't want him to call you. Wow, I would be in a bitch fit if that had happened to me

[HoodieObsessed]

well, kinda....not really...I donno, my freinds jessica and vanessa (vannessa's the older sister of my freind jessica...but ya, theyr'e both my freind) started callign me after IW ent off msn to practice piano cause she wanted me to stay on msn.

so anyway, she calle dme once and I'm like "no, I have to do piano practice, I've been on the comp all day" and I hang up on her casue she wont' stop talking (this is mostly vannessa callign me by the way, it really isn't jessica's fault) and hten she called again 2 seconds latter and I'm like "stop calling me this is so annoying" an dhan gup on her and hten she calls again..and again..and again..and my mom's liek "what the heck are you doing?" and I'm liek "errr, nothing *the phones rings* " I pick it up and imidietly slam it down. oaky, than there was no mreo for another couple minteus than it rang again and I made sure I picked it up incase vanessa said soemtihng rude ot my mom, lol, nto that she would but still..anyway, I pick it up and it's like "hello it's canada trust, can I talk to bruce sharpe please" an dI swear it sounded EXACTLY like vannessa impersonaiting someone else so I'm like "hi vannessa" in my most dyr voice...long pause on the phone..."umm,this is candian trust, is there someone else I can talk to?" and I'm like..oh god, it's acutally canadian trust, IW as really imbarrised haha, jsut a little tour thourhg thre lame life of leslie

[mz sneaky]

i'm just wondering...what's the rejection hotline...? what does it do?... and for this topic. I think you should tell him how you feel and that it's getting annoying and bothering you. better than making excuses and it might hurt someone at the end.

[lolthissiteisfun...]

i would just not answer and on most cell phones u can enter a number you dont want to accept calls from and it wont even let him cal you. but I dunno. just be firm and evil if he doesn't get teh point, change your number or dont answer

[ANG33ZY]

I'm kind of in that situation. I don't know what happened to his phone but he don't got it anymore so he stopped .. lol. I don't know just tell him to stop it .. if he likes you that much then he'll listen. if not block him.

[Chii]

poor boy, he can't control himself...tell him politley that you don't appreciate him calling you all the time and show him you're calling record thing if he denies it...he seems to really like you and being too harsh is going to break his heart...

you wouldn't want to lose a friend over somthing that you two can put in the past

[KissMe2408]

Yah that has happened to me before, but lucky for me i moved and my phone number changed. Just keep telling him to stop calling, but be nice. Remember you can always block his number or somethan if it gets outta hand.

[shshortie89]

woaaaah i definatley relate to you there....some people can be so clingy. you can send him all the signals about how you don't want him. but it seems like that's not working. i wish i could help more. maybe just don't answer you phone when he calls at all. <333

[Litt0_TeeZy]

i'm just wondering...what's the rejection hotline...? what does it do?... and for this topic. I think you should tell him how you feel and that it's getting annoying and bothering you. better than making excuses and it might hurt someone at the end.

rejection hotline..my life saver..hahahaha. it basically is a machine that tells them they've been rejected and lists all these reasons why they might have been...where i live the number is 713-866-6249....it's funny... =)


okay but yeah i know how you feel...a guy does that to me too...until i think he finially understood i didn't wanna go with him or anything...now he doesn't talk to me as much.....but occasionally tells me he likes me and i'm the only girl that's never let him down...blah blah...give him time to get over you.

[*inkeepingsecret...]

try blocking his number or put his number in your phone as "Dont Answer" i do that

[Saeglopur]

Talk about obessesion.. sheesh. Get a new phone number.

[alsex]

listen if you got any brothers or cousins tell them and they'll take care of that sh!t... if my sister told me that was happening i would correct the problem immediately. or even my little cousins

[yellowgurl]

you can hit the ignore button and don't let him call. well i guess you can always turn off the phone since if you didnt want to waste money and you are home ..... hmm.. im not really sure what you can do my bff had the same problem and i just talked to her so it blocked up the line and eventually they stopped calling her.

[_sarcastic_]

that is kinda scary. just switch off your phone or change the number

[topsyturvy]

Hmm.. isn't it fine to let your phone ring as long as you don't pick it up? Let him ring himself out. It's free anyway.

[dancingkait]

thanks for all the advice i especially liked the rejection hotline one! lol but i talked to him again and i think he's finally stopped (thank goodness) so yea..problem averted thanks!

[sexii_baobeii]

ok. how'd this loser get ur cell number anyways? why dont u just put ur phone on silent/vibrate. this annoying guy hu sed he liked me asked for my number and i didnt give it to him, so i dont have that problem. but i know exactly how it feels. just tell him to quit calling me, i know it's u, and dont tell me b.s. or else i wont even be ur friend, cuz i dont appreciate liars. ; ) good luck hunn.

[someflipguy]

ive been stalked three times already in my lifetime, and thats three to many. Just tell them to eff off!

[Dark Saga]

Two words. Restraining order.. or, Pepper spray.. =)

[aera]

rejection hotline? haha nice...

just block him.