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 Apr 2 2005, 07:33 PM
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 <3  Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493  |
i was talking to my bf this morning, and he said he had to go in a few mins, i asked him where he was going and he suddenly told me "i'm not going out with another girl" (yeah it's an overseas relationship)
heres the convo me: where are you going? him: i'm not going out with another gurl me: i never said you were me: O_o him: oops should i start worrying? what should i do? 
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Apr 2 2005, 07:38 PM
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 Take advantage of me. Group: Member Posts: 912 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,792 |
Yes. You should.
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Apr 2 2005, 07:41 PM
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 I have no life Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,675 |
Now is not the time to panic, now is the time to investigate
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Apr 2 2005, 07:43 PM
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 that heaven is overrated Group: Member Posts: 5,096 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,124 |
Well don't start freaking out, but yeah...It's kind of suspicious...
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Apr 2 2005, 08:06 PM
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 Seien Sie bitte mein Geliebter! Group: Member Posts: 660 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,436 |
Now is not the time to worry... the time to worry was when started you dating a person you can't see at least twice a week. Generally these realtionships fail because of a lack of trust. Maybe you should take a break and pick back up when you can see eachother more?
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Apr 2 2005, 08:09 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
yea that is really suspicious... i think he was starting to feel guilty, and when you called he worried so much that it just slipped out...
 you should ask him and/or his friends about it.
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Apr 2 2005, 08:16 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
ya u should start worrying..sounds like hes going out with someone else too..u should ask him if he is..or try to find out more...
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Apr 2 2005, 08:26 PM
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yeah ..i would epecially sinc ehe said oops after
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Apr 2 2005, 08:30 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
you can be suspicious, but you shouldnt worry.
but the fact he said "oops" is jst .. bad. you need trust to develope a relationship. & if he is cheating on you, there was no relationship to begin with. basically though, longdistant relationships are hard to manage. good luck 
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Apr 2 2005, 08:44 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
You should worry, but don't freak out.
me: where are you going? him: i'm not going out with another gurl me: i never said you were me: O_o him: oops He said "oops". That's a big giveaway. |
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Apr 2 2005, 08:53 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
dont like spaz out and rip his eyes out.
u can be suspicious though.. |
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Apr 2 2005, 08:59 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
and he was the one that kept going on and on about how he won't cheat.
i don't know what i should do, should i talk to him about it? |
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Apr 2 2005, 09:48 PM
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can we see more of the convo cos thats so little.. what did he say after that?
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Apr 2 2005, 09:55 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
oh my...i'd definately worry because:
1.) he probably is going out with another girl or 2.) he's cheating on you with another girl who doesn't like it when he hangs out with other girls so he said "i'm not going out with another girl" or 3.) he made a simple mistake i doubt it's 3...but be careful and take note of these types of things |
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Apr 2 2005, 10:19 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Yepps.
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Apr 2 2005, 10:23 PM
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 SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
what a retard
*slaps him* just... talk to him.. |
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Apr 2 2005, 10:50 PM
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 i heart u Group: Member Posts: 151 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,430 |
um..yes
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Apr 2 2005, 10:52 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
whoa, whoa..why is everyone assuming this guy is cheatin on you? When you asked him, "where are you going?" he probably thought to himself that you were asking that because you were ALREADY suspicious if he was with another girl, so that's why he responded, "i'm not going out with another girl." and you were like, "i never said you were" and you made him feel all bad, and that's why he was like, "oops" meaning he mis-understood you. Basically you both misunderstood each other. no need to worry about that at all, i think you looked into it too much, you should trust him.
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Apr 2 2005, 11:43 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, you should be worried. Since you've never brought it up, and the fact that he said oops later makes it suspicious. Or maybe, it was all a misunderstanding. But you should definitely talk to him about it.
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Apr 2 2005, 11:46 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 93 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,850 |
I personally would be worried
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Apr 3 2005, 12:13 AM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
I would! Why would he say "oops"!?!? hmm I wonder why...
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Apr 3 2005, 12:13 AM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
Wow. He's bad at lying.
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Apr 3 2005, 08:07 AM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
QUOTE(KissMe2408 @ Apr 2 2005, 10:52 PM) whoa, whoa..why is everyone assuming this guy is cheatin on you? When you asked him, "where are you going?" he probably thought to himself that you were asking that because you were ALREADY suspicious if he was with another girl, so that's why he responded, "i'm not going out with another girl." and you were like, "i never said you were" and you made him feel all bad, and that's why he was like, "oops" meaning he mis-understood you. Basically you both misunderstood each other. no need to worry about that at all, i think you looked into it too much, you should trust him.  you're prolly right, i'll try talking to him about it. thanks guys |
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Apr 3 2005, 12:37 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
Worry!!! I'd be freaking out if I were you. But that's just me.
Worry, confront him, dump him. |
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Apr 3 2005, 12:40 PM
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 RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
it sounds to me like hes like...intentionally trying to incriminate himself...like to get a reaction out of you, or maybe he wants you to break up with him. But I knew a guy who would do stuff like that to see if his girlfriend was the crazy overreactive jealous type, or she was chill...so I dont know. Just talk to him. It could of just been a joke. Him trying to get a rise out of you. I did that to my bf once. I told him I was a lesbian. I said I was reaking up for him for my best friend (who is a girl) Luckily he didnt beleive it and we had a good laugh out of it, but yeah..who knows.
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