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| *paul murphy* |
 Mar 30 2005, 12:13 PM
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I am eleven and just got dumped by the BEST girl ever. Here is the story:
It was one day towards the end of P6 (4th Grade for u americans!) and I realized that I liked her. During our school play everybody was asking her 2 got with me. But it REALLY hurt was she asked my friend Patrick to go out with her. He was freaking out and asked me do I still like him. Of course I did. But anyway, she chose him over me but it was only later that I learnt that she only picked him over me by a coin flip. It was on the last nite of our show that she went out with me. It only lasted for 12 days. The best 12 days of my life! She keeps doind stuff to hurt me, like last week she kissed another boy in front of me. BI**H! So now I'm tryin to get a new girlfriend but I am nervous in case she says no and tells everybody. What should I do? |
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Mar 30 2005, 12:25 PM
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 I have no life  Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,675 |
It's not the end of the world.....remember the saying, no matter how good something is theres always something better....it's not like you wanted to marry her....U'll find a better girl..
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Mar 30 2005, 12:42 PM
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^ agreed. If she's acted like such a bitch, then you weren't missing much. I suggest just hanging out with friends and doing things you enjoy.. it takes time, believe me. When you say you're interested in another girl but you're afraid she'll tell everyone, are you talking about that girl you're going on a date with? Relax. If she finds it special, she'll only say good things. Just show her a good time and if she seems interested, ask her if she'd like to go out again sometime!
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Mar 30 2005, 02:23 PM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
to be totally fair, you're 11
did you expect it to last til marriage? but seriously... make a list of bad stuff about her..., and try writing her name ona piece of paper and burining it. call me superstitious but it works |
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Mar 30 2005, 02:29 PM
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I have no life Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,675 |
^lol that seems a bit morbid
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Mar 30 2005, 02:33 PM
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 hi, my name is brianna! =] Group: Official Member Posts: 5,764 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,114 |
I'm quoting what I said from your other topic..
You're eleven and you have a date?  ..I don't really think it's good to date at a young age, because you date someone because you're love them and you're probably going to get married to them, but if you date at a young age, all you're probably going to get out of a relationship is a broken heart. |
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Mar 30 2005, 02:36 PM
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 Je vous aime Group: Member Posts: 361 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,078 |
Your 11..
Shouldn't you still be thinking that girls have cooties? *sigh* Guess not.. Anyways, that other chick is a totally bitch, *rolls eyes* Choseing a boyfriend over a coin toss? <sarcasem>Thats great for a solid relationship</sarcasem> Anyhoodels.. Dont worry about it, you dont need a girlfriend now, if you want to ask someone out go for it but honestly you shouldnt base your life (not now anyways) on finding a girlfriend.. |
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Mar 30 2005, 02:41 PM
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Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
QUOTE ..I don't really think it's good to date at a young age, because you date someone because you're love them and you're probably going to get married to them, but if you date at a young age, all you're probably going to get out of a relationship is a broken heart. thats insane!! of course people should date when they' eyoung, it means the yhave the emotional grounding not to flip out the first time something goes wrong in a REAL relationship if he was freaking out about this and he was 20? it would be b/c he had no experence with it, not b/c of his age the first break up you ever go through is hard and cocoa... it may be morbid, but it works |
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Mar 30 2005, 02:59 PM
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hi, my name is brianna! =] Group: Official Member Posts: 5,764 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,114 |
^ Yeah, but not at ELEVEN.
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Mar 30 2005, 03:55 PM
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it's not the end of the world, you are only 11, you've still got time. i don't think she'll even make a good gf, i mean, she chooses guys over a coin toss
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| *paul murphy* |
Mar 30 2005, 04:49 PM
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thanks everybody
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Mar 30 2005, 05:11 PM
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how can she be your "dream girl" if she picks who to date with by a coin flip?!
anyways...don't you have another date, with another girl, coming up wed.? |
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Mar 30 2005, 08:45 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
First of all....she picks you because of a second flip...She kisses a guy in front of you...she does numerous things to hurt you....the best thing for you is to just find another g/f and move on.
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Mar 30 2005, 08:50 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
how is she the "best girl ever?" she only thought about going out with you because other people told her to and she chose someone in a coin toss. come on, you can't be so stupid not to realize she's not going to be a good girlfriend
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Mar 31 2005, 02:02 AM
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QUOTE(BitterSweetness @ Mar 30 2005, 4:11 PM) how can she be your "dream girl" if she picks who to date with by a coin flip?! anyways...don't you have another date, with another girl, coming up wed.?  ^ lol I thought so to. Ok well, being 11 you need to make some desicions... only joking. If you lost her to another guy with a coin then so be it. theres plenty of fish in the sea. or your P6 building. |
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Mar 31 2005, 02:49 AM
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 Donna-chan Group: Member Posts: 1,183 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,389 |
thats weird coin flip? what are the odds of that?...i dont really think she was the best for you then..dont worri you got tons of girls out there who are maybe dying to be with you
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Mar 31 2005, 04:07 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
uhh no offense but you're only 11. i find that a little young to be having a girlfriend. but no worries, you're young and have lots of time to find a new girlfriend
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Mar 31 2005, 04:16 AM
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Donna-chan Group: Member Posts: 1,183 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,389 |
^ i agree just wait till the future..you got all your teenage years to go for your love life
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Mar 31 2005, 04:23 AM
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dang...eleven?? and broken hearted?? im sorry....that sucks!!
 how rude of her, she should have just said no!! 
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Mar 31 2005, 07:18 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
jesus christ you are eleven
get over it and play with some toys. |
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Mar 31 2005, 07:30 PM
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You don't need to get a girlfriend just yet.. Or wait until you find the REAL perfect girl. And this time, no coin flip. Or wait until a girl asks you out.. just ask herself if you really want. Those what ifs are ifs. You'll never know if they will happen or not and taking risks can lead to big things. Good or bad big things.
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Mar 31 2005, 08:27 PM
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Eleven? daammn you have lots of time. dont worry about romance.
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Mar 31 2005, 08:56 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(sweetxsimplicity @ Mar 30 2005, 12:33 PM) ..I don't really think it's good to date at a young age, because you date someone because you're love them and you're probably going to get married to them, but if you date at a young age, all you're probably going to get out of a relationship is a broken heart. you are ridiculus.  just because you date at young age does not mean you are going to marry that person. shit, i would have had a hell of a lot of husbands then! and i dont even think my current boyfriend will end up being the one i marry. dating at a young age is supposed to be friend. not all relationships=broken hearts and the ones that do make you a stronger person. |
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Mar 31 2005, 09:03 PM
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QUOTE(xxcrazyjewxx @ Mar 31 2005, 8:56 PM) and the ones that do make you a stronger person. good point 
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Apr 1 2005, 12:35 AM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
11 is still young. Wait for the right girl, you're still young..
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