i dunno Options

[angelbabystar]

my ex bf who moved away I was talking to him last night and he told me that someone asked him to have sex and he said no to them because he said he loves me so much and he want's me to be his first, and when he comes back down here he want's to be with me. I know he's told me that he's done oral, i dunno if i really believe him. I do love him more then anything in this world im inlove with him and he say's he is with me but I dunno. I would think if he was he wouldnt do anythign with anyone else

[mouse_3k]

whats the question? if your not sure if you wanna do stuff with him, then dont cause it obviously proves u aint ready for it if your questioning yourself.

And he moved away, it would kinda be like throwing your virginity away or w/e. thats just my thought though

[alsex]

i think he was practicing for you... you should give him a shot ... might be the best thing you ever felt

[angelbabystar]

my question. would you believe that he didnt have sex..i would think if someone does oral sex then they will actually have sex. I dunno I still wanna be with him cuz I luv him but i dunno

[angelbabystar]

he promised me he wouldnt have sex with anyone that's what I dont want him to do. Pratcing for me lol. He told me the gurl that he did this stuff with is the one he's been friends with for 5 years and that he didnt expect to do anything besides kiss her.. I dunno

[alsex]

one time i almost lost my virginity at 17, but the girl wasnt ready cause we were both virgins. we gave each other oral and didnt go all the way...the issue is trust... why dont you trust him?

[alsex]

oh the truth comes out

[angelbabystar]

i dunno..him n i are both virigns and we want to be eachothers first we are inlove but I just keep thinking if he was inlove with me then he wouldnt wanna do anything with anyone else mabye im wrong I dunno. He moved away and he's not here we talk everyday on the phone, IM and all that and he tells me if he does anything but I dunno I just keep thinkin that cuz he's done oral he will end up going all the way but he said he wont let it cuz he dont want anyone else. I dunno I guess cuz he's in another state I trust him im just worried that something will happen n he wont wanna be with me...I dunno

[angelbabystar]

oh the truth comes out



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[_sarcastic_]

my ex bf who moved away I was talking to him last night and he told me that someone asked him to have sex and he said no to them because he said he loves me so much and he want's me to be his first, and when he comes back down here he want's to be with me. I know he's told me that he's done oral, i dunno if i really believe him. I do love him more then anything in this world im inlove with him and he say's he is with me but I dunno. I would think if he was he wouldnt do anythign with anyone else

but he's you're ex. why worry

[angelbabystar]

cuz im inlove with him and the only reason we arnt together is b.c he moved and he's moving back here in sep. for college n he's coming down here for spring break. he's made me alot of promises

[Shattered_Hope]

Why would you want to be with him if the only reason why the relationship ended was because he was moving away? There's something called long-distance relationship. Move on. Just because someone makes promises to you...doesn't always mean that they'll keep it.

[angelbabystar]

why would I want to be with him b/c I still love him and he is coming back. I know there is long- distance relationship but he didnt think he could do it. I dunno

[aera]

he said he couldnt do a long distance relationship. isnt that telling you something? i agree with shattered_hope. you should move on.

[shshortie89]

if you really love eachother, you both should be able to stay together (((virginally))) until your wedding night. if the thought of that scares the poop out of you, sadly, you both need to go your seperate ways...hope everything works out <3
Sarah

[illuminessence]

Wait...what is it you're asking??? If it's whether or not you should have sex with him, the answer should be up to you. It should be based on whether or not you believe him. Blah I dunno what to say.

[y0urelectrikk]

if you really love eachother, you both should be able to stay together (((virginally))) until your wedding night. if the thought of that scares the poop out of you, sadly, you both need to go your seperate ways...hope everything works out <3
Sarah

I agree with her.

[CrimsonSkyGraphi...]

o_o' Okay..Well..

You're asking if you should believe him that he hasn't had sex with someone else. But he has told you he's kissed..and had oral with another girl, even though he wants to be a virgin for you. o_O" Well..I give him credit for telling you that he's done it, at least it's honest.

I'm in a long distance relationship..And have been for almost 3 years, still another year to go till I'm 18 and can move out there to him. And both of us have agreed to wait to do 'anything' untill we're together. That, includes kissing and oral. Now, he's onot a virgin..But I think 4 years is a long time for a guy to agree to that for..>_>...Yet, I know he is. I dont question if he's lying about it. That's what worries me..that you cant trust him.

Now, in my mind..if you really love the other person..and want them to be your first..not to meantion that you're only apart for a 'short' time. (I know it feels like a long time to you..but compare it to 4 years..lol)..I dont see why he would even want to go and do anything with another girl during that time. Unless of course you told him he could..o.O"..Which, I'm not saying is wrong..just..if you did that, then that makes this all different.

Yes..people can have oral and not sex..o.o'..Happens a lot. So I wouldnt base 'that' as the only reason you wonder if he's had sex. But yeah..Unless you've actually told him he could go and kiss and do stuff with other girls while he's gone..then I'd question how much he really loves you.

I'm not too sure if I sort of drifted off my point a bit there, but I hope it helped. ^_^

[sexii_baobeii]

u hafta think it over, sweetie. will u be HAPPY if u get with him once again? do u want him to be ur first? do u think he's lying to u abt som1 asking him to have sex just so u will be jealous? did he dump u or did u dump him - and why - and how will this affect ur relationship? hmm. u gotta think it over. dont make a bad choice. good luck, girlie. : )

[someflipguy]

have sex with him.

[baibee_boo]

have the sex

[DanielleMaria05]

I think if there is the smallest doubt in your mind that you shouldn't do this..... DON'T...

Listen to yourself...