stuff with girls, tell me what you think? Options

[lexaa621]

ok i just feel like writing about some things that happened to me with girls.
if you think this is stupid dont waste your time writing a comment telling how stupid it is.

anyways, in 7th grade i liked this girl. we talked and laughed together sometimes. she started being really nice to me and showed a bunch of signs she liked me back.. she acted a little shy around me, smiled at me, looked at me, all that.. when i realized this it sorta freaked me out cuz i never thought shed actually like me back. anyways, i got a little scared and avoided her. it was really weird. i cant believe how i screwed that up. this ever happen to anyone else?

then from 8th til now (10th) i like this other girl. but im too shy to tell her. until a few months ago we got along great.. shed smile with me, laugh at the stupid things i say/do, we'd have the "eye contact" thing all the time. but then she got a bf (at her school. we went to same jr high, but now different highschool, but we still see each other in some outside of school stuff.) he broke up with her after a week. for a while she hated all guys and acted coldly towards me. i tried to talk to her but she always seemed in a bad mood. then a couple weeks ago she started talking to me again... but she seems so different. i wish i could stop liking her, but i cant. should i just tell her i like her a lot and see how she responds?

last thing.. now theres this girl in one of my classes thats sorta cute. i barely know her but we look at each other all the time. sorta weird. i knew one of her friends and she was really nice to me, until over the summer shse started to not talk to me anymore. i dont get what happened. i think im gonna talk to her about it soon. im just not sure what these girls think of me...

sorry for making this so long...

[Nicolatofu]

it's not really stupid.. almost all teenagers feel the same way.
Don't get scared around her. She won't bite, I promise. You can always try talking to her again. It can be weird at first, but you can't get over your nervous feelings unless you try.

Since she's just gone through a breakup, you may want to wait a while, depending on whether she's fully gotten over him (which it seems like she has from what you've said) Since you're on her good side now, maybe you should just go for it, although just because she seems to have fun around you doesn't mean that she likes you in that way; she just might enjoy your company.

This girl may like you from a distance, but I agree, try talking to her. She may really like you once she gets to know you. Girls aren't always going to be straight-foward with their feelings. But sometimes our actions are pretty clear on what we're thinking.

[HelloSunshine]

Well..I think you should wait a while and become close again for a bit longer. Girls need their space after a break-up. Then maybe you should tell her how you feel.

The girl may like you somewhat, but yeah, I agree, you should talk to her friend that stopped talking to you..yeah.

Goodluck with both of them Really, though, you should choose one before it gets messy.

[--x who0ps]

then from 8th til now (10th) i like this other girl. but im too shy to tell her. until a few months ago we got along great.. shed smile with me, laugh at the stupid things i say/do, we'd have the "eye contact" thing all the time. but then she got a bf (at her school. we went to same jr high, but now different highschool, but we still see each other in some outside of school stuff.) he broke up with her after a week. for a while she hated all guys and acted coldly towards me. i tried to talk to her but she always seemed in a bad mood. then a couple weeks ago she started talking to me again... but she seems so different. i wish i could stop liking her, but i cant. should i just tell her i like her a lot and see how she responds?

wait for awhile. first be a great, fantastic, always-there-for-you friend. then after she`s back to normal [give her like 2 months] then ask her out (;
make sure she doesnt think you`re a disgusting freak first though, cause then you`ll be rejected too easily. =X

last thing.. now theres this girl in one of my classes thats sorta cute. i barely know her but we look at each other all the time. sorta weird. i knew one of her friends and she was really nice to me, until over the summer shse started to not talk to me anymore. i dont get what happened. i think im gonna talk to her about it soon. im just not sure what these girls think of me...

ooh jst go talk to her. dont care bout the other girls. not like they control her feelings. (;


but first make up your mind on which girl you want before you go out hunting -________-x

[_sarcastic_]

anyways, in 7th grade i liked this girl. we talked and laughed together sometimes. she started being really nice to me and showed a bunch of signs she liked me back.. she acted a little shy around me, smiled at me, looked at me, all that.. when i realized this it sorta freaked me out cuz i never thought shed actually like me back. anyways, i got a little scared and avoided her. it was really weird. i cant believe how i screwed that up. this ever happen to anyone else?

yeah it happened to me once, but i didn't really advoid him.

then from 8th til now (10th) i like this other girl. but im too shy to tell her. until a few months ago we got along great.. shed smile with me, laugh at the stupid things i say/do, we'd have the "eye contact" thing all the time.  but then she got a bf (at her school. we went to same jr high, but now different highschool, but we still see each other in some outside of school stuff.) he broke up with her after a week.  for a while she hated all guys and acted coldly towards me.  i tried to talk to her but she always seemed in a bad mood.  then a couple weeks ago she started talking to me again... but she seems so different. i wish i could stop liking her, but i cant. should i just tell her i like her a lot and see how she responds?

like what everyone said, wait awhile, let her 'heal' first. THEN ask her out, so it doesn't seem like you're despreate.

last thing.. now theres this girl in one of my classes thats sorta cute. i barely know her but we look at each other all the time. sorta weird. i knew one of her friends and she was really nice to me, until over the summer shse started to not talk to me anymore.  i dont get what happened. i think im gonna talk to her about it soon. im just not sure what these girls think of me...

you've gotta decide which one you're going after, i mean if you go after two of them and they both say yes, that'll be alot of trouble.