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creamysmile11
post Mar 26 2005, 01:13 PM
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guess what... chicken butt.
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i have this best friend. shes been my best friend since 2nd grade. from 2nd grade thought 6th grade, we went to this elemenrty school from K-6 and for every grade there were only two classes. my school was pretty small so everyone was friends with eachother. (of course there were popular people and dorky//loserish people)... we've always been sidebyside not in the popular group and not in the loser group.

so this year in 7th grade, we got mixed in the jr high with another school in our district which was way bigger than ours. now there is strictly a boundary for popular, lesspopular, dorks, freaks, losers, etc. but all my friend wants to do is be popular! i mean, all these years, we have been fine being unpopular and all of a sudden when theres about 200 more kids she just ditches me and tries to be popular? whenever some popular girls around she hangs by them, when theyre not, she hangs by me. its just like shes using me to catch her back when shes alone!!

should i just leave her to be friends with the popular people even though they arent her best friends or should i just keep doing the same thing im doing now??

and you dont know her like i do, shes a liar. she lies to be popular, you know what im saying? if she does something wrong she either denies it or blames it on someone else *ahem* which would be me.

please help me!!
 
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post Mar 26 2005, 01:34 PM
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what a bitch. forget about her, she's not worth your time. trust me, she will get it coming when you stop being friends with her, and all those popular kids single her out. then she will want you back as a friend, and she will know how you feel when she ditched you. just watch and see, popular kids dont care about you, they just care about themselves, and once your best "friend" realizes it, she will get a taste of what you're going through biggrin.gif
 
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post Mar 26 2005, 01:44 PM
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What a bitch. Find new friends. What kind of friend would do that!?
 
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post Mar 26 2005, 02:05 PM
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God, what a bitch, dump her off, who cares? If she`s only using you as backup then she`s not a true friend.
 
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post Mar 26 2005, 02:24 PM
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wow-that just effing sucks. Forget about her-make new friends. Maybe one day she'll realize she was wrong. If you don't hang around her-she wont be able to blame anything on you. Good luck flowers.gif
 
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post Mar 26 2005, 02:43 PM
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What? gosh that stinks. If u feel used, tell her that. Tell her, mayb she'll hav an explaination and it better b a good one! If she treats u this way, shes not a true friend. A true friend should not trade u off to the popular kids. If thats the way she wants it, then shes missing out on u being a gr8 friend to her. biggrin.gif
 
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post Mar 26 2005, 03:00 PM
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i know this might be alittle harsh.. butt
DUMP THAT BIOTCH mad.gif
she`s not worth your time or the "popular people`s" time.
she deserves to be a loser cause the way you say it, she`s a two-face lier _dry.gif
fo`sho wink.gif
 
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post Mar 26 2005, 03:01 PM
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trust me girl you dont need friends like her....she isnt your true friend. friends dont lie to you (the some do but you know i am saying) and leave you and hang out with you when it is convientent (sp?). you can do better so go out and hang with new friends
 
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post Mar 26 2005, 03:09 PM
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screw her. you obviously have your priorities straight and all she wants is popularity. find some friends who aren't obsessed with stupid shit
 
5ayuri
post Mar 26 2005, 03:26 PM
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Too slow.
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i would have ditched her a long time ago.
 
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post Mar 26 2005, 03:47 PM
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yeah i use to have a friend like that. I just told her one day our friendship was over and now its been 2 years she comes crawling back cause all the "Popular People" ditched her and i dont except it. But anyways, what im trying to say it DUMB THAT 2-FACED, LIEING BITCH! lol. It'll be worth it cause you can find way better friends than her, and plus, theres no such thing as popular, i mean come on, popular means widley liked or appreciated and i dont think 1 or like 5 people could do that in a school with soo MANY people who HATE them, Remember that! biggrin.gif
 
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post Mar 26 2005, 04:10 PM
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HAHAHAHHAHAH what a loser laugh.gif trying to be popular? wow.. &lying to be it is even worse. i mean what good is it to be popular? mad people start talking shit about you because they all know you&they focus on you even more.. that grl doesnt know how grateful she should be to be your friend, or at least HAVE friends. but give her a little chance, see if she straightens up.
 
creamysmile11
post Mar 26 2005, 04:19 PM
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thanks guys. yeah she just started it this year and its been like almost half a year. yup just wanted to know what everyone thought was best for me to do. she doesnt know it but all of her old friends hate her. lol.
 
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post Mar 26 2005, 04:23 PM
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I say you ditch her bitch ass. You dont deserve to be treated like that. Let her run along trying to be "popular" and when she need you just shoo her away and tell her to go to her "popular friends"
 
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post Mar 26 2005, 05:07 PM
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forget her..make new friends..shes not worth it..
 
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post Mar 27 2005, 03:42 AM
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i think if she treasured ur friendship she would stick with you maybe you should talk it out? maybe she wants you to be popular too? mellow.gif but if not.. i guess u can make NEW friends
 
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post Mar 27 2005, 08:06 AM
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ditch her. now.
 
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post Mar 27 2005, 09:25 AM
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i use to have a similar friend.....popular people are too concieted and realllllllly shallow.....just straight up tell your friend how you feel and if she doesn't care..then bye
 
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post Mar 27 2005, 05:14 PM
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next time she tries to fall back on you, tell her that you're sick of her being blah blah and blah.

and try your best to not sound cliche happy.gif
 
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post Mar 27 2005, 05:56 PM
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this'll sound harsh, but she's sounds like she's just using you. get a new friend and see if she realizes what a great friend she's losing biggrin.gif
 
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post Mar 27 2005, 06:00 PM
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oh. i know. i read a book about this!
maybe she is goivng undercover to see what it is like. like a spy. kind of.
then after she is done being "popular" she will get a book and movie deal and talk about her adventures as a quick way to get into harvard law.
i'd ditch her now.
 
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post Mar 27 2005, 06:36 PM
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talk to her about it. remind her of the good times! lol if not, let her go be her wannabe self (no offense) because no one deserves to be a back up friend ermm.gif
 
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post Mar 27 2005, 08:16 PM
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she's one kind of friend that is not worth holding on to. forget about her, find new friends that wouldn't actually 'ditch' you for the popular ppl.
 
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post Mar 27 2005, 09:21 PM
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I say leave her pronto. When the "popular" kids finally find out she was lying and all, let her to fall on her back. Don't be friends with her until she gives you a genuine, sincere apology.

Then again, you can confront her about it. _smile.gif
 
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