Should I do it or not?, I'm 18 and my boyfriend wants to do.. xx |
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 Mar 24 2005, 10:21 PM
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 My boyfriend and I have been going out for long time and he is askin me if I want to have sex with him.. sure I had a lot of sex but with my boyfriend? I'm kinda scared.. What should I do..?
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Mar 24 2005, 10:23 PM
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 your sweetest sin. Group: Member Posts: 416 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,960 |
you've had lots of sex before with guys other than your bf?
tsk tsk. abstinence! [sp?] 
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Mar 24 2005, 10:24 PM
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 Umm its that thing you should call me...... Group: Member Posts: 111 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,898 |
well even though I've never had sex I would have to say decide wether or not you realy want to if not tell him yes if so go ahead.
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Mar 24 2005, 10:25 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
If you're ready to, then I guess go for it...
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Mar 24 2005, 10:32 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Girls give sex for love.
Guys give love for sex. That's my opinion. If you arn't a virgin then I don't see why it matters if you have sex with him or not.. you already gave your virginity away anyhow. |
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Mar 24 2005, 10:33 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
what the hell? you've had lots of sex but you won't have sex with your own boyfriend?
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Mar 24 2005, 10:33 PM
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 ¢¾ Wanting it. ¢¾ Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
well whats the difference from having sex with other men.....................
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Mar 24 2005, 10:40 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
if you're ready to make babies
 well, actually if you think you can handle all the risks and you KNOW you are ready then i guess yeah
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Mar 24 2005, 10:40 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
i agree...u had sex with other ppl but not ur bf..thats kinda strange to me..if u r ready, go for it..if u arent dont..
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Mar 24 2005, 11:25 PM
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you have had sex s lot but not with your bf?
i dont get you. anyways, do it when you're ready |
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Mar 24 2005, 11:53 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
Imao0o ^true.
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Mar 25 2005, 12:07 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 196 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,922 |
that is just weird. your logic really does NOT make sense.
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Mar 25 2005, 12:14 AM
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 This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
If you are ready to have sex then go for it but dont let him force you into doing it...
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Mar 25 2005, 12:18 AM
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 iuvenesco Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,221 |
don't let him force you. wait it out a while until you're totally comfortable with him. don't rush into anything if you're not ready.. just tell him to give you some time
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Mar 25 2005, 06:49 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
QUOTE(robb0 @ Mar 24 2005, 11:28 PM) wtf, so uve had sex with other boys beside ur bf? and u dont wanna do it with HIM?! wtf. ur twisted.  if you really want to then go for it, you already lost your virginity anyways. if you're not ready then don't 
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Mar 25 2005, 06:50 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
if ur ready for pregnancy or STDs and all that crap, then go for it!!!! *Thumbs up to you!*
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Mar 25 2005, 08:19 AM
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if you're ready, and you really trust him, then go ahead i guess
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Mar 25 2005, 09:06 AM
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 Im as fake as a widow's smile ;) Group: Member Posts: 1,045 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,851 |
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Mar 25 2005, 10:20 AM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
Have sex with other guys? YES!!!
Have sex with your boyfriend? EEP!! NEVER!!!  Seriously, though. Why are you having seconds thoughts about it? Chances are if you have to think twice, you shouldn't do it. EDIT // Holy shiznnit, Rikkiismyname. Your signature is fcuking huge. It took up my whole computer screen, practically. This post has been edited by [f]eleeza: Mar 25 2005, 10:22 AM |
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Mar 25 2005, 04:17 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
If you're asking other people whether you should have sex or not, chances are you're not ready to do it with your BF [ though you've done it with other guys...] or the fact that you don't want to do it and you're just waiting for an excuse to help you decide that you don't want to have sex with your BF. The decision to do it or not isn't a really big deal since it's not like it's your first time....what I don't get....is how you have had sex with other guys but you're not sure if you want to have sex with your BF or not....
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Mar 25 2005, 04:23 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Err, you've had sex with other guys but not your boyfriend? Well, if you think you're ready it's up to you. But he shouldn't have to force it on you, you both should want to.
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Mar 25 2005, 04:25 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
goin thru tha same thing..
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Mar 25 2005, 04:30 PM
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 xxtaintedlips Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,998 |
eeek!! if you have had lots of sex why should it matter...(coming from a virgin) what the hell if you love him go ahead...hate him...dump him.
just make sure you use a condom and dont do it in the shower! |
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Mar 25 2005, 04:31 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
that doesnt make sense..you`ve had sex with other guys but you are worried about doing it with your bf?? theres some irony there..i think you should do whatever you feel is right..and only you can decide how you feel and what you want to do..no one can tell you whats right or wrong or how you should feel or anything..
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Mar 25 2005, 07:47 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
if you are not comfterble then dont do it... 12 days after your period you CANT get pregnat so you can do it on one of those 12 days and you wouldnt have to worry about gettting pregnant..or the other choice is that you can have oral but im sure he doesnt want to do that
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