How do you get over a crush??? |
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 Mar 25 2005, 02:29 PM
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 Residential Crazy Child  Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897  |
The guy I like is kind of a flirt. And he's my friend and only likes me as a friend. I figure it wouldn't do any good to just get jealous everytime he flirts with a girl. I want to get over him, but how do you get over a crush? Is it possible? Has anyone ever felt like this before?
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Mar 25 2005, 02:31 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Get a new crush!
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Mar 25 2005, 02:39 PM
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Residential Crazy Child Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 |
lmao-im trying. It's a work in progress.
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Mar 25 2005, 02:40 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 148 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,934 |
Reminds me of just how I'm in.
He's my crush, but we're more like friends. He's the biggest flirt I've ever met, and I do get jealous. Lol. But, well. You can't really get over crushes easily. Just think of him more as a friend. I'm sorry I'm not much help. Hope you can find real advice! Good luck. |
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Mar 25 2005, 02:41 PM
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 ¢¾ Wanting it. ¢¾ Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
hmm. whenever you try to think of him. just think about something else you like
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Mar 25 2005, 03:24 PM
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That's happened to me before. I got over it after a while; just convince yourself that you don't have a crush on him.
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Mar 25 2005, 03:25 PM
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maybe i am stupid but i honestly believe u never fully get over a serious crush. a part of it always stays with u. but to make it lessen i would find a new crush lol.
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Mar 25 2005, 03:32 PM
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QUOTE(ItzOnlySydney @ Mar 25 2005, 4:25 PM) maybe i am stupid but i honestly believe u never fully get over a serious crush. a part of it always stays with u. but to make it lessen i would find a new crush lol.  ^ yeah... your love never truly dies |
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Mar 25 2005, 04:09 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(ItzOnlySydney @ Mar 25 2005, 10:25 AM) maybe i am stupid but i honestly believe u never fully get over a serious crush. a part of it always stays with u. but to make it lessen i would find a new crush lol. yup i agree too...just find someone else to like... |
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Mar 25 2005, 04:18 PM
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I want a lover I don't have to love. Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 61,900 |
Why would you want to get over a crush? I love them. It's fun and exciting. Sure there's drama from time to time but overall it's the best. At times, to me, it's better than the actual relationship. Where as the foundation isn't as serious - you're just having fun. He has the freedom to do whatever he wants and vice versa.
I've decided that whenever I feel an ounce of flirtatiousness towards a friend I'm going to just go along with it. It's better that way. My life revolves around having fun. When I think too much into things it makes my motto really hard to follow. |
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Mar 25 2005, 04:24 PM
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 xxtaintedlips Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,998 |
to get over a guy i just tell my friend to say that i like some one else and then soon enough i do..or i fond some one that likes me and then go gaga for them..
I KNOW WHAT CHA R feeling! my crush did some bad stuff with this girl in a shower but there is nothing i can do about it so i must move on. If this guy wont just like you then why should you like him? |
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Mar 25 2005, 04:25 PM
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xxtaintedlips Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,998 |
"Why would you want to get over a crush? I love them. It's fun and exciting. Sure there's drama from time to time but overall it's the best. At times, to me, it's better than the actual relationship. Where as the foundation isn't as serious - you're just having fun. He has the freedom to do whatever he wants and vice versa.
I've decided that whenever I feel an ounce of flirtatiousness towards a friend I'm going to just go along with it. It's better that way. My life revolves around having fun. When I think too much into things it makes my motto really hard to follow. " <b>I agree!</b> just have fun while you still have time! |
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Mar 25 2005, 04:27 PM
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xxtaintedlips Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,998 |
as for getting over a crush ... it is posible...i have done it!
sometimes the "stirings" just leave and thats it, its over. Some times i just convince my self that the guy is retarded for not liking me back and that helps too |
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Mar 25 2005, 04:28 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
you find a new one.
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Mar 25 2005, 04:29 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
haha just like shattered_hope said..find a new one
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Mar 25 2005, 04:33 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, that's happened to me before- my previous crush was a huge flirt and I would get jealous everytime he did flirt with another girl. But then, it turned out that he liked me, so we went out. But then, he couldn't stop flirting and we broke up...
Anyways, find someone new to crush on, like everyone's said. |
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Mar 25 2005, 05:12 PM
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 TOISU!! Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 |
Honey..you are soo not alone! This has happened too many times to me and the only way I got over it was letting time pass by..and..liking someone else..it's hard..but you'll eventually get over him...
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Mar 25 2005, 05:42 PM
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 my pet rock doesn't like you Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,866 |
Man - I know how you feel. I've had way too many experiences where I couldn't get a guy out of my head for months. I've foud it helpful to get busy with friends, tv or anything else that will keep you from thinking about your guy too long. Also, the more you talk about him to other people, the more you'll tire out your feelings for him. Writing down your feelings also helps. Whatever you do, stay busy and DONT listen to sappy love songs!
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Mar 25 2005, 05:44 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,781 |
well just get a new crush
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Mar 25 2005, 05:44 PM
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 in love. unfortunately Group: Member Posts: 459 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,979 |
I don't think u ever really get over it either. like i had a crush on this guy a couple years ago, and I've liked other guys since then, but whenever I see him flirting with other girls i kinda have that twinge of jealousy, ya know?
 
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Mar 25 2005, 05:44 PM
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 Basketball is my Anti-Drug Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,461 |
yea I've felt the same way you're feeling right now and the best thing to do is just keeping telling yourself you don't like him or just go up to him and tell him you don't like him. I did just that and felt a lot better
(I've moved on and I'm with my bf Jose) Hope I helped 
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Mar 25 2005, 05:56 PM
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Residential Crazy Child Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 |
QUOTE Man - I know how you feel. I've had way too many experiences where I couldn't get a guy out of my head for months. I've foud it helpful to get busy with friends, tv or anything else that will keep you from thinking about your guy too long. Also, the more you talk about him to other people, the more you'll tire out your feelings for him. Writing down your feelings also helps. Whatever you do, stay busy and DONT listen to sappy love songs! haha-I write the sappy love songs...just look at my siggy good advice...it all seems so obvious now  lol
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Mar 25 2005, 06:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,109 |
you should get a new crush or try not to think of him or think of the bad things about him
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Mar 25 2005, 07:08 PM
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 sorry. i drowned your fish. Group: Member Posts: 1,485 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,683 |
just think about all the bad things/traits/whatever he has .. and like erase him out of ur mind! lol.
xxtaintedlips -- triple posting?! *tsk tsk* 
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Mar 25 2005, 07:16 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
yeah iv felt like that before...2 times actually...you will get over him ina few days...thats how long it took me..i think like 3 or 4 days or something like that..each day i got over him little by little...lol thats why i made this poem...its in my siggy because the guy who i LIKED i now HATE...
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