my boyfriends over protective mom..., how to deal |
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 Mar 25 2005, 06:01 PM
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Okay so my boyfriends mom is crazy! We're both 15 and she hardley ever lets him go out and see movies, he cant call me, or anything. We havent hung out (like gone to movies or something) in like 3 weeks!! Its spring break now and i havent talked to him since school ended (1 week). I know he loves me, and he does things like he'll go behind her back and call me and stuff like that, and i love him so much so i really dont want to dump him, but its getting so hard to put up with her. Any ideas on what i can do to help live with his mom?
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Mar 25 2005, 06:05 PM
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moms are like that sometimes...she may be this way until he old enough to move out of the house sometimes you just have to deal with it and try to make it work
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Mar 25 2005, 06:06 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
I'm in the same situation, but reversed where my mom is the difficult one. Well, if you truly love him, then you wouldn't break up with him just because you can't stand his mom. If anything, you would stick with him anyways and wait it out. Give it time, eventually, she might see that you're a good influence or something and let him out more.
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Mar 25 2005, 06:11 PM
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u should try talking to his mom with him and convince that he should be able to do those things
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Mar 25 2005, 07:05 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
my mom is like that..shes really over protective..she wont even let me go to the mall with my friends..or c a movie..or let me call my friends..u should talk to her and convince her things will be ok..and theres nothing to worry about..
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Apr 10 2005, 09:59 AM
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Well, it's his mom, what do you expect?
Maybe try and have him talk to his mom about it and then ask his mom if you can go over at his house and then show that you are ok to be with. |
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Apr 10 2005, 01:38 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
^not all moms are like that.
You should tell him to talk to her , hes not a little kid , hes a teen. |
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Apr 10 2005, 01:57 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Talk with his mom or tell him to talk with his mom.
Or just sneak around, I guess, if you want to risk anything. |
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Apr 10 2005, 03:22 PM
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Well, you need to let his mom know how nice you are. Bring some cookies over to her, visit her, and don't forget to be polite.
Moms like polite girls. |
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Apr 16 2005, 04:08 AM
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OH man do I know what you are talking about
Me and my bf are both 17 gonna be 18 at the end of the year she gives him a weekday cerfew of 5o'clock and she always makes him do all these stupid chores b4 he can go out. She likes me so she's calmed down a lot, but still pretty overprotective, he is an only son, he has a sis but still he's the only boy. Moms are over protective of sons and dads are over protective of their daughters, its just normal, it sucks but you'll adapt to it, cuz if you really wanna be with him you're gonna have to, its the moms prob not yours, she has to deal with it. |
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Apr 16 2005, 12:40 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
if it`s a true love, it can wait.
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