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 Mar 24 2005, 12:21 PM
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QUOTE(SimplicityGirl @ Mar 22 2005, 10:08 PM) Give him time; guys are afraid of commitment and by saying "I love you", it signifies commitment. If you just want him to say it just because you want to hear it, then I'm sorry hon, but you've got the wrong idea in mind. Wait til he says it when he really means it.  *Note the bolded text. Such a stereotype. Give it time, it's only been one month. If he says it to you sometime, he'll mean it. And in another couple of months or so if he hasn't said it, he is either going out with you just to have a girlfriend, or he's using you. |
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Mar 24 2005, 01:08 PM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
or he actually doens't love you.
depending on how old he is, he may not believe he can 'love' yet. i never told my girlfriend i loved her. she never told me that either. it was understood that we both didn't believe that at 14, we knew what love was. never say 'i love you' to someone unless 1. they know your joking. 2. you really do mean it. |
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Mar 24 2005, 03:39 PM
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cant rush him lol
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Mar 24 2005, 04:53 PM
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 HI IM aLLi =] Group: Member Posts: 216 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,012 |
ttrhnx fer hlepoing u guys and for those who were being rude i was just confused
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Mar 25 2005, 03:00 PM
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Maybe I love you to him actually means something...at least their are some guys who put value in those three words...
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Mar 25 2005, 03:21 PM
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Guys often think their too masqulin (spelled that wrong) to say wat they feel. He may not hav said it yet cuz hes too "masqulin"
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Mar 25 2005, 03:54 PM
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he's probably shy, and just like everyone else says, give it time and don't rush things
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Mar 25 2005, 04:52 PM
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same thing w/ me..well b4
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Mar 25 2005, 05:07 PM
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It could be just like a physical relationship...
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Mar 26 2005, 07:44 AM
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confused about one month???
i guess you believe in love at first sight? thats cute how old are you? |
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Mar 26 2005, 09:42 PM
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life is so ironic... Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,671 |
yea like everyone says give hime time does he atleat proves his actions that he love you like he dun wan tu to get in trouble by ur parents or maybe wen u guy sare out he asks if ur cold or jus gives u his jacket w.o even asking?
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Mar 26 2005, 09:46 PM
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it is only one month...saying i love you is a BIG thing
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Mar 26 2005, 10:45 PM
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a month right? thats not THAT long...mabye you should give him more time...
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Mar 27 2005, 03:10 AM
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QUOTE(tainted_faerie @ Mar 23 2005, 6:30 AM) do you just want to hear it? if so, thats just wrong. are you sure he loves you, y'all have only been going out a month. Love is a powerful word. agreed.. jus cuz ur dating someone doesnt automatically mean u guys are in love -.- takes time n alot of other complicated things to even use the word 'love'.. sigh. |
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Mar 27 2005, 03:13 AM
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There are people like me who doesnt express feeling, i think you just need the patient and you dont need to rush. Calm down and everything will be good UNLESSS YOU HAVE DA PATIENT TO WAIT. enjoy !
QUOTE agreed.. jus cuz ur dating someone doesnt automatically mean u guys are in love -.- takes time n alot of other complicated things to even use the word 'love'.. sigh. no its not, it depends how you use it. Love has different meaning and it is used differently. |
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Mar 28 2005, 12:36 AM
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just like EVERYONE ELSE SAID... give it some more time
okok if *I* were like u....then i'd be suiciding right now..seriously. i've been with my bf for almost a month. and we haven't hugged..or held hands... seriously. hey. im not worryin =). |
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Mar 28 2005, 09:44 AM
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I think your better off to wait till he means it. Maybe he is confused at what love is..and your teaching him. Its a scarey feeling. I didnt know how to say i love you with me meaning it till i ment my last bf.
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Mar 28 2005, 04:46 PM
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tell him you love him and see what he says back.
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Mar 28 2005, 05:01 PM
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god you're stupid.
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Mar 28 2005, 05:07 PM
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how can you possibly confused after just ONE month? wow..you must really love commitment...but maybe you should umm wait it out? sheesh...you cant possibly "love" him after a month? are you even sure of your feelings? love plys funnie tricks you know...cant just go about like that...
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Mar 28 2005, 10:04 PM
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wow calm down. its only been a month. give it time
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Mar 28 2005, 11:09 PM
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HI IM aLLi =] Group: Member Posts: 216 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,012 |
hey can the mods close this plz?
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Mar 29 2005, 02:41 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
its only been a month so give it time. he might not love you yet so he might be waiting till he does.
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