my life sucks Options

[lilpimpette]

Well, my boyfriend (Anthony) broke up with me to go out with my best friend. I am changing her name to Lee. Well, when I found out Anthony asked Lee out, I immediatly felt heart broken. I gushed to Lee how horrible it was of him to break up with me when I still loved him very much....this was before I knew she liked Anthony. I didn't think that she would go out with Anthony, since Lee was acting like she didn't want him.

Then she told me she liked him. I freaked out on her, but she calmed me down (by telling a lie) when she said she wouldn't ruin our friendship over a guy. I was relieved and felt I could trust her.

I called her the next day and she said "I can't talk, I am waiting for people at the movies!". I was shocked after I hung up. Why didn't she invite me? Her BFF?
Then I called Anthony to say that I was sorry it ended like that, when his dad picked up saying "He is at the movies.".

The next day at school I totally ignored her. I knew she was going out with him, and she broke the promise. Many people came up to me saying he gave her a nice gift, and that they were holding hands...and blah blah blah.

She wrote me a note saying that "Nothing happened at the movies. Please be my friend!"

I forgived her eventually and moved on..but something in my heart still lingered for Anthony. I thought we were BFF's again untill.....

My friend Brittany (Anthony's sister) told me they made out. After she said nothing happened. Yeah right.

[*krnxswat*]

When you think everyone else is better than you just keep one thing in mind, you were once the fastest sperm in the bunch.

[swe3ttemptasian]

aww, she's obviously not your best friend. and dont give in and forgive her, after what she did

[Ington]

Don't worry, they're both worthless. You don't need them. Sure, you are attracted to him, but that'll fade away soon enough.

Seon Ho is right, by the way.

[Shattered_Hope]

When you think everyone else is better than you just keep one thing in mind, you were once the fastest sperm in the bunch.

what does this have to do with anything?
Wow, what a liar...I don't know why you forgave her..or believed her when she said nothing happened....but I think you should ignore both of them since one, he broke your heart while you still loved him and two, she went out with the guy even after you told her you still have feelings for him....

[mouse_3k]

forget them. they useless to you if they gon do tht to you. Once they break up, you can laugh in their faces

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

At my school people go out w/ best friend ex's I say forgive her...cause someones trash is another persons treasure...and if you weren't meant to be w/ him then maybe she is...you kno everybody is tryin to find that special somebody but having labels on them as peoples ex'es juss doesn't make nething easier...juss talk about it w/ her...and try to get it from her point of veiw...I'm sure she didn't mean to hurt you if she is your best friend...

[someflipguy]

Just make them both ex bfs boyfriend and bestfriend

[crazeegirl411]

If he did it to you, he'll do it to your friend too. That will teach you and your friend a lesson.

[May]

I'm sorry, hon. that sucks the big one.

It's not a nice thing to be going through. I've been through that too. From my experience forgiving is an option but one that took me along time to realize. I was too hurt to even talk to her. [A good 2 years before we ever spoke.]

It's not right that she's lying to you but the fact is you don't know for sure that anything happened. You have to talk to her; not other people or your ex's sister. That won't help. People always get their stories messed up and that just leads to drama.

She's your best friend I'm sure she wouldn't hurt you unless she really felt something for this guy. I'm not saying that her feelings justify her actions but you should take that into consideration.

As generic as this may sound you'll get through this and you will learn who your true friends are when all is said and done but don't take the words of others.

[xxtaintedlips]

just keep trucking everything willl be ok in the end!

[pinayprincess]

mann i alwayz suspected sumthin lyk that wud happen to me...mann i hope u feel better, if my friend did that to mee, i wuda punched ha, b*tch slapped...sumthing do juz get revenge

[lagretz20]

wow. she aint ur friend dont forgive her.friends dont do that to friends. thats messed up and EF him. anyone tho would do that to someone is a D-bag. you'll find sumone 20 times betta

[lilshelil]

I'm sorry, hon. that sucks the big one.

It's not a nice thing to be going through. I've been through that too. From my experience forgiving is an option but one that took me along time to realize. I was too hurt to even talk to her. [A good 2 years before we ever spoke.]

It's not right that she's lying to you but the fact is you don't know for sure that anything happened. You have to talk to her; not other people or your ex's sister. That won't help. People always get their stories messed up and that just leads to drama.

She's your best friend I'm sure she wouldn't hurt you unless she really felt something for this guy. I'm not saying that her feelings justify her actions but you should take that into consideration.

As generic as this may sound you'll get through this and you will learn who your true friends are when all is said and done but don't take the words of others.

That was a messed up friend?!?! and im not even saying best friend. If she had ever even considered u as her friend she would have considered ur feelings. She never was ur best friend in the first place so dont even give a damn about it. Besides, if she didnt take ur feeling into consideration why take hers? (that she likes this guy so much to go out w. him and not care bout u)

What u gotta do now is walk out of this with ur head held high. And show that u can out it down show that u are stong and nothing can stand it your way. Then everyone will say "hey, look at that player she used her to get to her best friend" or other ppl wont even b that grls friends they'll jus say "what a slut shes going out w. her best friends ex" or "shes a back stabber lets walk the long way class" lol

i noe its hard No matter how sweet they are to each other u gotta let it go even if they get married u still gotta let it go so why are u going to think about b*tches and as*es like that? ur stong so move on! its not like they will rele get married i mean they might have a .005% in that. It hurts u gotta get over it. Jus think how many parents get divorced everyday w. years of affection and tons of kids and ur even better! no strings attatched!

Walk out w. ur head held high. u dont need them.

[*chaneun*]

wow... your ex/bff is such a dike..

[tinababy143]

i know this seems like i dont care or whatever..but get over it..i know the feeling so i know its hard..but you cant live however long worrying about what they are doing and why she lied and how heartbroken you are..you need to move on and show him and her that there are people in this world that are better than them and you`re one of them by not holding on to the past for so long

[May]

That was a messed up friend?!?! and im not even saying best friend. If she had ever even considered u as her friend she would have considered ur feelings. She never was ur best friend in the first place so dont even give a damn about it. Besides, if she didnt take ur feeling into consideration why take hers? (that she likes this guy so much to go out w. him and not care bout u)

What u gotta do now is walk out of this with ur head held high. And show that u can out it down show that u are stong and nothing can stand it your way. Then everyone will say "hey, look at that player she used her to get to her best friend" or other ppl wont even b that grls friends they'll jus say "what a slut shes going out w. her best friends ex" or "shes a back stabber lets walk the long way class" lol

i noe its hard No matter how sweet they are to each other u gotta let it go even if they get married u still gotta let it go so why are u going to think about b*tches and as*es like that? ur stong so move on! its not like they will rele get married i mean they might have a .005% in that. It hurts u gotta get over it. Jus think how many parents get divorced everyday w. years of affection and tons of kids and ur even better! no strings attatched!

Walk out w. ur head held high. u dont need them.

I prefer to think of it as being the bigger person. Everyone makes mistakes. If you hold onto every wrong choice a person makes you'll be left with no one.

Of course I was hurt and forgiving took me time and growth to even consider.

She doesn't even know if the rumors are true. If they are then that's a totally different story.

[xXirockhardXx]

Shes obviously not your friend if she dated your ex without asking you. The =n to top it off she lied to you about her doing something with him. I say you stop being friends with her.

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

my god...i would HATE my friend if they ever did that to me. n my other friends would hate her too. they probly wouldnt talk to them n e more. watever. just dont talk to them n e more. keep it simple. its not worth saving ur friendship with her.

[clarissa]

that's high school for you.

[to-devastate]

She sounds like a b*tch.
I think you should confront her and let her know that you know she's lying to you. She'll eventually run out of lies. And then she'll feel like a stupida*s for lying to you. :D

[cewinee]

I'm sorry, hon. that sucks the big one.

It's not a nice thing to be going through. I've been through that too. From my experience forgiving is an option but one that took me along time to realize. I was too hurt to even talk to her. [A good 2 years before we ever spoke.]

It's not right that she's lying to you but the fact is you don't know for sure that anything happened. You have to talk to her; not other people or your ex's sister. That won't help. People always get their stories messed up and that just leads to drama.

She's your best friend I'm sure she wouldn't hurt you unless she really felt something for this guy. I'm not saying that her feelings justify her actions but you should take that into consideration.

As generic as this may sound you'll get through this and you will learn who your true friends are when all is said and done but don't take the words of others.

just wat i was gonna say. listen, if she didnt care about u watsoever she wouldnt bother tellin u wat she did to not upset you (or may be the truth) or written u that note beggin u to be her friend, etc.. she would jus go off with the guy n ditch you. take in to consideration how she may be in a confusing position herself.. she knows how hes hurt u, ur her best friend, she was even honest enough to tell u she liked him which makes it clear that she has feelings for him so u know that for sure right? then she has feelings for the guy that hurt you.. im sure he invited her to the movies n she was too embarrassed or too tempted to say no n went.. n maybe "nothing happened" maybe something did.. ull only know if you ask her urself n not listen to rumours u hear for now.. n when u do know if sth happpned then thats when u can make u choice whether u should still talk or not..

but again i'm not saying that her feelings justify her actions either but you should take most of wat i said into consideration n think bout it okie? =) n to get the truth out of her, tell her "pls.. jus tell me the truth, ull make our friendship worse if u lie to me, jus pls tell me the truth", make her feel guilty enough to tell u the truth. n if sth DID happen, they made out or watever.. dont get mad at her for lying, u can get mad at her for going with it after her knowing wat hes put u through so fast.. but wat really matters is now, how she feels bout him, if she enjoyed wat happened, does she feel guilty.. jus ask her after afterwards, how do you feel bout wat happened?

im so sorry he left u whilst u still loved him n immediately went for another girl =/ i really am.. but hey i promise u he's not gona be the last guy ull ever love =) theres always others! u got the rest of ur life to find that other guy ^_^ anthony isnt the one for ya, hes a loser -_- gluck ok!! sorry if my advice sucked D;

[Chii]

just wat i was gonna say. listen, if she didnt care about u watsoever she wouldnt bother tellin u wat she did to not upset you (or may be the truth) or written u that note beggin u to be her friend, etc.. she would jus go off with the guy n ditch you.

friends aren't supposed to lie to each other, you're supposed to stay truthful on these types of things...and she did kind of ditch her by going to the movies with him and saying she's going with people...and didn't invite her

this girl lied to you for a man more than once. she told you she didn't like him and nothing happened when she did like him and something did happen. if she was a real friend, she could've waited until you got over him or talked to you about it instead of jumping in for the kiss so quckly. come on, what the hell is this? girl friends are supposed to stick together

at least you know what kind of person she is now

[yukichan]

forget them..ur so called friend isnt a friend...theres a quote or something called friends dont go out with their friends ex's..gosh...make new friends, find another bf..u dont deserve them..

[ichiban]

Try and find another friend because Lee isn't worth it at all. And Anthony is a bit of a jerk for going out with somenoe else immediately after you two break up ..