Getting Dumped, without no reason |
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 Mar 24 2005, 04:31 PM
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 Lemme c ya 1, 2, Step! ;]  Group: Member Posts: 84 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,865  |
Have u ever been dumped by someone-someone u spent A LOT of time with that u loved and cared about- n when u asked them why, they just say "I dono"? o_O
Yeahh...that just happened to me yesterday, which was like the most effin BS ever that happened to me this year. I feel like my emotions had been played on. Soo yeah. I've been fooled, i guess. |
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Mar 24 2005, 04:41 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
we've all been played my dear...or at least the ones who haven't most likely will be played...
my ex gave me the excuse of "we have nothing in common" which really translated into "you don't play handball" ...i know because i asked him, that's all he came up with. it's so stupid, our backgrounds are the same we liked the same things but no, i just didn't play handball which means we have nothing in common  there are plenty of stupid boys out there that just want a girlfriend and not love...be careful, don't give someone your heart too fast...and don't make them your everything because it can be easily taken away |
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Mar 24 2005, 06:17 PM
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 I have no life Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,675 |
^I want a girl with aabout nothing in common with me....puts more excitement into the relationship....
I havenm't even had a girlfriend....but when I do...I hope she never dumps me...thats my job;) |
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Mar 24 2005, 06:23 PM
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Tu es laid. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,913 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,675 |
hmm im still single but got my eye on somebody but its really stupid how people brake up for stupid reason mostly people in my school.. its just messed up when one day everything is perfectly fine and the next day your life is ruioned
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Mar 24 2005, 08:07 PM
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dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(cocoalightning27 @ Mar 24 2005, 6:17 PM) ^I want a girl with aabout nothing in common with me....puts more excitement into the relationship.... I havenm't even had a girlfriend....but when I do...I hope she never dumps me...thats my job;)  it wasn't that we had nothing in common because we did, it was just that i didn't play handball 
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Mar 24 2005, 08:11 PM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
No I never have
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Mar 24 2005, 08:13 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
no, i never will do something as stupid as that. people like that...they just don't know how much they hurt other people. it's wrong and idiotic. if ur gonna dump someone, have a serious and good reason for it. ugh, i hate that childish crap.
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Mar 24 2005, 08:41 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
In a way yes, in a way no.
When my ex broke up with me, I asked him and he said "I only asked you out because I knew how much you liked me, not because I liked you, and I thought that was the "right" thing to do," That's bs to me. But the no part...we really didn't have the right chemistry to be a proper couple. Hell, he didn't even cared about the relationship like I did. |
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Mar 24 2005, 08:49 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 90 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,867 |
He probably just didnt want to hurt ur feelings by telling what was wrong with you..?
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Mar 24 2005, 09:53 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
My friend did that to her boyfriend. It's such a horrible thing to do... if my boyfriend did that to me I would shoot him.
Ok maybe not... but I would be hurt  .
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Mar 24 2005, 10:03 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
of course! I cried for like..ever and a week
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Mar 24 2005, 10:18 PM
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 rawr. Group: Member Posts: 304 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,529 |
somewhat, but i guess he dumped me for a reason, a stupid reason though, but that's just how some guys are.
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Mar 24 2005, 11:27 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
yes...that happened to me before...that person just said i think its better if we were friends...and then later i find out it was because i didnt get his jokes...
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Mar 24 2005, 11:51 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Well, my ex didn't exactly have a real reason as to why he dumped me either- and his reason was stupid anyways. He just said that he liked flirting with other girls and didn't want a girlfriend at the time... what a jerk. He didn't care as much as I did and we had nothing in common.
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Mar 25 2005, 12:08 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
lol nope, neva been dumped..well once but it waz juz a lesson, a few min later we got bak lol...but relating to this, i waz tha 'dumpee' kuz i dumped my man fo no reason juz by maken up a whole bunch of stuff...totally regretted it [[wantin to break up w/ him]] but we still together nd i luv him, now i think bout wut i do b4 i do it lol
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Mar 25 2005, 12:49 AM
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 This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
That is a stupid reason. Its never happened to me but i mean there is a lot of stupid people that are like that.
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Mar 25 2005, 01:12 AM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
eh. most of the time, people say "i dont know" when they just lose interest.
my friend broke up with her many boyfriends, because she says it got boring and she didn't like how she wouldn't be able to kiss other guys. so i guess.. to each his/her own. |
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Mar 25 2005, 09:58 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
heck NO i do all the dumping!
"ITS NOT WORKING OUT!" |
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Mar 25 2005, 11:08 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,537 |
yea i have this guy told me we didn't see each other a lot even though we saw each other everyday
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Mar 28 2005, 09:16 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,148 |
yeah. i have. just recently, too. i think its the little things u do that make him wanna leave u...unless he likes another girl. like MY x-bf dumped me cuz i was annoying. he didnt tell me that wen he dumped me buht one of his friends told me like 2 months after. maybe u annoyed ur bf too much? hmm. whatever the case, being dumped hurts. a lot. ull get over it, hunny...just like i am doing. keepitup. we love ya. <3
btw. just pretend u dont give an effin shit bout him no more. ; ) dont even look at him. |
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Mar 28 2005, 07:58 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
uhhh i havent been dumped... i dumped my ex XD wooh..cuz..he seriously got on my nervs. he's nice and all.. but somehow i couldn't STAND HIM!. i have no idea.. it was pretty messed up. and now my ex is dating my best friend! o.0...i felt soo pissed at first.... but now that i have another boyfriend...its all better =). pshhh at least this guy doesnt smell like vietnamese noodles HAHAHAHAHAHA
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Mar 28 2005, 08:59 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 49 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,002 |
Well ppl that use the line "i dont know" They do know. Its either they like someone else or.. They just lost interest. Plain n simple. And they usually dont wanna say it because to some people it might not make sense but in their head it does.
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Mar 29 2005, 02:42 PM
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 It's mytime2fly~* Group: Member Posts: 141 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,350 |
last year, my crush told me that he liked me on instant messenger. One of my best friends had set us up and my crush knew that i also liked him too.
But we only got together when we r on messenger. We nv talked in public... So one day, i guess he saw another girl [one of my friends] and started talking about her non-stop to me... and then i guess that was his way of dumping...he nv said the exact words... altho i cried a lot...i knew i soon had to give up on him... i am still very good friends with him, and he now has another gf..but i dont think they will last very long..i think they have been together for about 4 months..=P |
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Mar 29 2005, 03:02 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,746 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,125 |
You know, when he said "I don't know", he meant that he just isn't attracted to you anymore. Unfortunately, it happens. But don't worry, you weren't really in love. Its not love if someone could just stop being attracted for no reason. Just childish bonds. There'll be others.
This is the reason I don't give my heart to anyone. I'm too young for anything serious to happen, so whats the point of making a commitment? I would much rather flirt with everyone I can. Yep. |
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Mar 29 2005, 04:13 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 96 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,370 |
Yea i've been dumped like that before, but i hate it more when they dump you and then they make up some reason as to why they did it.
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