I need help..., I cut myself and i regret it |
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 Mar 24 2005, 09:29 AM
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I'm sorry. I would have never thought of cutting myself. But just then...I was really really depressed and I...cut myself. Now I totally regret doing it. It didn't bleed but I have these red marks on my arm and...it's really obviuos. I know if my parents see it I would get in deep trouble. What can I do to get the scars off...
I would wear a long sleeved shirt..but..what else can I get the scars off quick...I really don't want anyone to see it... 
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Mar 24 2005, 09:36 AM
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 sorry. i drowned your fish. Group: Member Posts: 1,485 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,683 |
ever heard of neosporin? ... and it WAS your decision
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Mar 24 2005, 10:30 AM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
put cocoa butter on it.
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Mar 24 2005, 12:00 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
damn u should have saw it coming in the first place. if it didnt bleed, there shouldnt be a big scar. oh well, it was ur choice
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Mar 24 2005, 12:06 PM
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It's not me whos the problem... Group: Member Posts: 50 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,422 |
instead of retelling her it was HER fault why not give actual advice, I would except I've never had any personal experience with this or with my friends.
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Mar 24 2005, 12:17 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
well....I guess you could put medicine on it...and help it heal faster.... I've never cut myself to know this..
 sry I can't help much.
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Mar 24 2005, 12:53 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Vaseline???
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Mar 24 2005, 12:56 PM
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 a_walk_thru_hell* Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,999 |
I've been through the same thing but this works the best, go to Genovese or any other pharmacy and buy a bottle of Vitamin E capsules, the gel kind and then take a safety pin or something nad pop the pill and rub the gelly substance inside over hte scars. it should start to fade in a week or so. but if you ever wanna talk I'm here, i've been fighting a depression/cutting phase for a little bit so yea I'm here.
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Mar 24 2005, 01:04 PM
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 Tum diddle-oo whee blah xD. Group: Member Posts: 81 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,163 |
Talk with your parents. They care about you; want to help you.
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Mar 24 2005, 03:27 PM
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 Rock out X3 Group: Member Posts: 319 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,317 |
I agree with the first perosn, neosporin does the trick with me when I get hurt. Not cutting myself, but just like normal stuff.
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Mar 24 2005, 03:34 PM
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COCO BUTTER!
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Mar 24 2005, 03:35 PM
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 i just want BANG BANG BANG Group: Member Posts: 252 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,855 |
i agree with the person that said about the vitamin pills. but if you cant wait that long, makeup can possibly cover the scars up if you cant wait for it to heal
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Mar 24 2005, 03:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
How many cuts?
If there are only like, 1-2, just say someone's cat scratched you or something.... |
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Mar 24 2005, 04:05 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
put medicine on it...and take vitamins...
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Mar 24 2005, 06:27 PM
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I want a lover I don't have to love. Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 61,900 |
When you get to the point where you're so depressed that you find yourself cutting; you need to talk to someone. My suggestion is your parents. They are after all the people that love you and the ones that will always be there for you (no matter how many mistakes you make).
If you seriously believe that you can't confide in your parents there are always teachers. There's always some authority figures you can speak to. Hiding it isn't going to fix whatever it is that's bothering you. |
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Mar 24 2005, 06:31 PM
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 Im as fake as a widow's smile ;) Group: Member Posts: 1,045 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,851 |
Ahh, that sucks im sorry..idk how, maybe those patches that erase scars or w.e, but theyre kinda expensive I think
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Mar 24 2005, 06:38 PM
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i dont know, coco butter i guess and dont cut yourself again there are much better ways of releasing you emotions
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Mar 24 2005, 06:46 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
If it didn't bleed, then it most likely won't leave much of a scar.
It'll go away within a few days. If you wish to make something up, say you were playing with a cat or that you fell. My parents bought it. That's not the best way out of the situation, but whatever. As for medicine...I guess cocoa butter? I'm not sure, though. I've never tried any medicine in the past. Another suggestion is if they're on your wrist, then wear some bracelets or sweatbands. Also, you could opt for a sweatshirt or a long-sleeved shirt. That's what I've been doing and no one has asked questions. As for the vitamin pills, the person that suggested them sounds like they know what they're talking about, so I suggest you go that route as well if you choose to try and clear up any scars that might come. But with my experience and from your description, I doubt it'll scar, and if it does scar, then there won't be much to it at all. |
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Mar 24 2005, 06:49 PM
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how long has it been there for? ti should disapear soon...just keep wearing slot sleve shirts till it goes away...well now you know not to cut yourself..
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Mar 24 2005, 09:15 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
neosporin is supposed to help cuts and things heal faster... and i guess you can wear those sweatbands for your wrists
 i hope you won't think about doing it again 
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Mar 24 2005, 09:21 PM
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 ¢¾ Wanting it. ¢¾ Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
uh cocoa butter......... we cant really help you but glad you regret it cutting is no good, now you see.
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| *salcha* |
Mar 24 2005, 10:59 PM
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your scars will disappear as time comes. my friend's scars were pretty deep and now you can barely see them.
for now, wear accessories that take the eyes away from the arm. wear bracelets, wristbands (yeah, i wear them a lot :P). don't concentrate too much on it, it'll be gone before you know it! and if you have really learned, make sure you don't do it again. there are better ways at dealing with depression than cutting yourself. i've been through a lot of stages, but i dealt with it other ways. |
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