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 Mar 23 2005, 07:50 PM
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gRaCiE  Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997  |
i have a friend n she likes this guy a lot and he likes her BUT he doesnt wanna start n e thing with her cuz he wants to see wats out there first bfore he gets into a relationship. i know that she should lay back until he's ready for a relationship but she wants to win his heart. the only question is how? im so bad at these things so i didnt wanna tell her wat to do. but for now i told her to not bother him n act only like a friend n not like a girlfriend cuz they act like a couple but they're not. so...any suggestions?
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Mar 23 2005, 08:15 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
hmm..well to win his heart, she has to be herself...idk about the second part...sorry...
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Mar 23 2005, 08:20 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
tell her to look for another fish in the sea.
why would you want to be with a guy who used a girl, only for sex? |
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Mar 23 2005, 08:24 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
she acts herself..but she wants to do something special for him to or...something to just make him start thinking of going out with her.
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Mar 23 2005, 10:41 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Maybe give him small gifts or hang out with him more.
But if I were your friend, I would just keep my distance; guys who don't want to start relationships aren't worth the wait. |
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Mar 23 2005, 10:47 PM
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 NO. I'm not 13. or 14. or 15. or 16. Group: Member Posts: 4,616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,577 |
I agree with SimplicityGirl. If he doesn't want to start a relationship, respect the decision. Sometimes when a girl goes after the guy it doesn't end up that well, but of course, it depends on the people involved. Guys like initiating, most of the time, so let him do the asking out/pursuing.
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Mar 24 2005, 09:56 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
she has to be herself....why doesn't she try being his friend instead of acting like she's his g/f? But I think she should find someone else because he kinda said that he wanted to wait to see what's out there first...and besides that he used your friend just to have sex..umm..I think the obvious right thing to do is to tell her to stay away from him and find someone else.
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Mar 24 2005, 10:53 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Cook the guy some food! Heck it works for me!
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Mar 24 2005, 08:55 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 90 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,867 |
ask her to bring him home and do some action... mhm...
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Mar 25 2005, 02:35 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,961 |
To win a guys heart she has to have te key to the guys heart...
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Mar 25 2005, 04:51 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
dude tyme is tickin, ther iz no tyme fo waitin nd stuf
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Mar 25 2005, 08:49 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
i dont think she wants him n e more. there's this girl that keeps calling her to stay away from him. since then she hasnt talked to this guy or seen him around n e where. lol! think she's done with him.
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Mar 26 2005, 04:18 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,954 |
she should've cooked him some food...
that would definitely work on me  QUOTE Cook the guy some food! Heck it works for me! true |
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Mar 26 2005, 03:06 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
Slap her. "STOP IT AND LEAVE HIM ALONE!"
Okay, that did not come out right. Anyways, he has to be herself, period. |
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Mar 26 2005, 08:47 PM
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life is so ironic... Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,671 |
wth? hes obviously LITERALLY using her for booty call. i mean does he think that she will be his back up plan? u should tell her that hes jus using her for back up. i mean he "wants to c whats good out there" mean "i wanna c if theres ne one batter then her" aka using ur friend as back up.
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