Crush....::sigh::, i kno its gettin old Options

[sweetest-emotion]

alright, yea this is really repetative and watever blah blah blah....ne ways...

so i got this guy friend of mine who i have developed this huge crush on him, like i dream about kissin him and such but ne ways, i dunno if he likes me. my friend says he deff. does, but i don't see it....heres the lil "signs" i've been gettin...u tell me:
1. He IMs me outta the blue all the time (especially at work)
2. He calls my cell just to go out for the lil stuff like coffee
3. He texts my cell almost everyday
4. This past weekend i spent fri, sat, and sun with him (along with my buds, but only 1)
5. he wants to go to my softball games (he said just tell me where and when and i'll be there)
6. when he's in my car he makes cute lil remarks about how i'm a good driver
7. he slow danced with me at the winter formal (when he was with his ex-gf)
8. he hugged me after that ^^
9. he took a scoop of my ice-cream (using the same spoon)
10. he let me win at darts
11. and it seems like i'm the only girl he really hangs with on a weekly basis...

AHH! soo much, but thanx ne ways, and thanx for dealing with my crap. u guys rock!

[WrathOfOnigo]

He liiiiiiiiiiiiikes you! But 7 makes it seem like he's just trying to make his ex jealous. But with 9, guys steal stuff from you as their affection .

[Levy2k6]

he can like you but there's always the small chance ur getting played too.

[CreateBlob]

Yep. Theft is our best way to show affection. So next time we steal your heart... xD

Yeah, he may be just playing on you. TAlk to him about it, doi.

[sweetest-emotion]

hmm thanx. and i have basically already talk to him about him being a moocher (hate moochers!) and he's a really good guy. he told me he would never do ne thing like that (he hates moochers too). he really is the kind of guy who doesn't do that (i hope!) so i dunno...

[yukichan]

sounds like he likes u..ask him...so u can be sure..good luck...

[bad_girl]

1-10 is normal friend stuff, i guess. but 11.. god, he SO likes u!

[dahding]

aww, thats adorable. i say gopher it. u have a good chance of getting into a good relationship. gluck with it.

[teeners4]

aww that's adorable! but some of them i think you're over looking. but overall he LIKES YOOH!

[Shattered_Hope]

I think he likes you.

[nech_neb]

You can't base your decision on stuff like this.
Everyone has a different opinion of what goes beyond friend level, and what doesn't

People make this mistake all the time.
What you interpret as MORE than friends might not actually mean the same thing
to him.

Especially since if you already have feeling for him.
Then you're point of view on these subjects are certainly bias.

One simple and easy way to tell...
Just hint at him that you're interested.
Girls usually don't want to make the first move.
But if you hint at a guy that he has a chance,
and he's interested in you...

That's a green light to make a move....
Then you'll find out

Good luck.

[SimplicityGirl]

nech_neb is right. I had this huge crush on a guy in my grade for about half a year last year. He would do those things that you described--he IM me out of the blue asking for nothing in particular, he said cute things to me, bought me drinks at a carnival, asks me for homework help even though there are other people to ask, didn't mind when I walk with him after every Physics class etc--and for a while, I really thought that he liked me. And then I hinted to him that I like him and he told me that he only liked me as a normal friend...

So...what I'm saying is...when your crush do anything for you...it may seem more "special" to you because you like him. Because those things you listed...normal friends would do them too...I'm not telling you to stop going after him, I'm just saying that he might not like you in that way...

However...it never hurts to hint at him...ask him who he likes and see if he seems embarrassed to tell you...the worst that can happen is him not liking you, but then you guys can always remain good friends right?

[*lolita kitty*]

he might like you. see for a few more days... does he flirt with other girls? ... ask his friends also... try and get it out of them [without letting them know you like him]

but theres always a chance he likes you ^_^

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

OMG?!?!?!...girl lemme give you my list I made up last year!!...

Knowing when someone likes you...

1.]They call you[not randomly]
2.]They're shy to show they're feelings
3.]They smile at you all the time
4.]Never make fun of you for the stupid things you do
5.]Will get defensive if someone says something mean
6.]Repeatly ask who you like
7.]Doesn't care what you look like they always think your beautiful
8.]They ever had a history of liking you in the past
9.]They follow you everywhere
10.]Calling you hot and nobody else
11.]You make them feel special
12.]They get you something when they travel somewhere
13.]Ask you out to the movies w/ some friends
14.]Wears colone for you
15.]Begging for attention like a puppy but you won't look cause your playing hard to get
16.]He talks about you to your friends all the time
17.]Doesn't flirt w/ your friends
18.]Stares at you from across the room
19.]He blushes when someone says your name
20.]The golden one of all...uh kind of easy..if he says he likes you...hehe