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 Mar 22 2005, 10:07 PM
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[FONT=Arial] um... could anyone help me? i have this BIG problem .... here: i REALLY LIKE this guy but i dont think he likes me back because i KEEP hearing RUMORS that HE likes someone else... hes like the NICEST GUY that IVE EVER MET ... and hes LIKE SO ATHLETIC, POPULAR, SWEET, AND HIS INTELLIGENCE IS KINDA GOOD .... its just that my PROBLEM IS is that im smart and everyone calls me a NERD .... i just hate it when they call me that ... i dont know why ... its just that its insulting to call a SMART person that... and so... " NERD " PPLZ are ALWAYS CONSIDERED " UNPOPULAR " .... AND I HATE BEING UNPOPULAR .... NOT A LOT OF PPLZ TALK TO ME OR MY OTHER FRIENDS WHOM PPL CONSIDER " NERDS " ALSO ... well all they ask of us is ABOUT HW OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT ... and whenever someone tells a joke ... i ALWAYS LAUGH ... LOL ... I <3 JOKES! ... its just that I DONT HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR .... *sighs* i wished i would ... and im not ATHLETIC EITHER ... I GUESS HAVING A SENSE OF HUMOR OR BEING ATHLETIC would make you COOL ... i dont know ... but i want to be considered COOL .... uh ... yeah.... and so... i dont really know how to talk to this GUY I LIKE [ well... i talked to him several times cause of work or something ] ... like what if I EMBARRASS MYSELF IN FRONT OF HIM? ... i dont know ... I NEVER HAVE THE COURAGE TO SAY THAT I LIKE HIM ... and I THINK THAT I SAW HIM STARE OR LOOK AT ME FOR A FEW SECONDS ... but maybe he was STARING AT SOMETHING ElSE ... ok... i have nothing else to say ... PLZ HELP ME THOUGH!
 I ALWAYS THINK OF HIM AND ALSO I CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM... *SIGHS* if ur reading this ... this might be A LAME TOPIC but PLZ AT LEAST GIVE ME SOME ADVICE OR SOMETHING...
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Mar 22 2005, 10:11 PM
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First, you must ask.. if we wasn't so popular or athletic, would I like him just as much? And you may be nervous around him, but if he likes you for you then if you act silly in front of him, he won't dislike you b/c of it, or even because of the fact that you're a so called "nerd". That just shows you're intellegent. Don't be afraid! Just strike up a conversation with him. He can't honestly like you until he hangs around with you and gets to know you.
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Mar 22 2005, 10:13 PM
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 sunshiine Group: Member Posts: 1,080 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,360 |
if you like him just tell him. maybe if he does liek someone he'll tell you he doesnt feel the same way then move on.. or maybe if you want u can find someone new better than him or maybe it wud show him theres more options that way he might like you back or at least give u a clear answer to not waste your own time. i hope this helps. write him a note or even just ask ur frd to tell him or ask him someone you trust or casually ask him who he likes maybe if you are lucky it might be you ^^
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Mar 22 2005, 10:22 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
start to TALK TO HIM and MAKE CONVERSATION...
if you know what he is INTERESTED IN, then take that to your ADVANTAGE, and attract him to YOU in some WAY... good LUCK |
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Mar 24 2005, 12:09 AM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
QUOTE(strwbrrykiwi23 @ Mar 22 2005, 10:22 PM) start to TALK TO HIM and MAKE CONVERSATION... if you know what he is INTERESTED IN, then take that to your ADVANTAGE, and attract him to YOU in some WAY... good LUCK  LOL!!!! that's so mean...  i have the same problem. there's this guy that's popular that i like and (i think) he likes me back. i'm like a 'cool nerd' lolz jk. but you never really know if he likes you or not unless it comes directly from him. as hard as it may seem, the only thing you can really do to find out or make him notice you is to talk to him (i'm really shy around my crushes so i'd understand if that sounds scary...  ) and i also understand the 'never knowing if he's looking at you or someone else' thing. its so confusing!! *sigh*and you shouldn't just tell him you like him outright. get to know him first, then you'll know if you really like him, or if it's just a school girl crush. good luck  
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Mar 24 2005, 01:05 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
talk to him...get to better know him..become his friend..and then ask him out...or just move on, if he says he doesnt like u...
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Mar 25 2005, 12:00 AM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
u can still be smart and popular...
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Mar 25 2005, 12:11 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
wow ..u need alot of help...... u needa rele stand out more nd change ya image if you want diz boy to lyk u i guess... i neva did nuttin lyk that kuz eerbody ppl appriciated me fo me...ppl in ya skool iz f*ked up fo judgin ppl lyk that
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