in a relationship, does age matter? Options

[LQ_Darksoul]

I just personally don't think the age difference should be more than 2 years until both parties turn 18...After that, they are more than welcome to date whomever they please...But that's just my thought..Of course I've gone out with girls much younger than me too >.<

[lilrocka143]

i dont think thats a problem at all... my situation might be a little weird cause he's 18 and im only 14 turning 15 in 2 weeks.. but idk if your in love and u kno it then it shouldn't matter.. thats whut i thynk [FONT=Arial][SIZE=1][COLOR=blue]

[faithin_felix]

ohhh, so i guess a few months won't matter, silly me.

[ThePrincessofTKD]

i remember watching the news on a filipino channel...

the segment was about old women marrying young men and having kids..

i mean...they were OLD women...and some YOUNG men...

i was like "are they crazy!??!"

and they had KIDS...

goodness..

and the old woman was like "he tells me i`m beautiful and we`re having a wonderful marriage.."



that`s just wrong...but a few years is okay..40 YEARS IS NOT REALLY..hahaha..

well...as long as they love each other..

[faithin_felix]

i remember watching the news on a filipino channel...

the segment was about old women marrying young men and having kids..

i mean...they were OLD women...and some YOUNG men...

i was like "are they crazy!??!"

and they had KIDS...

goodness..

and the old woman was like "he tells me i`m beautiful and we`re having a wonderful marriage.."



that`s just wrong...but a few years is okay..40 YEARS IS NOT REALLY..hahaha..

well...as long as they love each other..

ewwwwww....my i guess its PURE and TRUE love

[angel-roh]

well u knoe... it's ok~~~ haha i mean theres a lot of celebrites...like for example...ashton kutcher and... demi moore~~ lols haha.... hes toooo young for her haha... but yeah...it's ok!!^__^ even tho ur friends or someone will say...eww...or something like that... dont listen to them cus soon they will end up like that someday.... i mean they have celebrities crushes that are like... 10 year older...or or or or 5 year older^^

[*NatiMarie*]

I don't think that age matters in a relationship. As long as a couple loves each other, it shouldn't matter how old they are. I mean, I would mind going out with a younger or older guy, as long as they respect me and love me for who I am, I'll be happy

[xjjajeengx]

everyone may say "age is only a number," but i say age matters. it matters especially if you're like 15 and a guy is 17, or something like that when one or the other or both are under eighteen. if a freshman gurl dates a senoir guy, obviously, there will be differences in both maturity and thought AND what they expect from the relationship. for instance, the gurl could want a mature, good, solid, long-term relationship where as the guy could want a sex-life based relationship that would end quickly or possibly in a night. If a senior girl is dating a freshman guy, it could mean that the girl wants a sexual life, or the gurl is dating the guy because she feels that he is "cute" and like a younger sibling where as the guy really loves the gurl or what not. It may not always be the case, but most relationships with much age difference before 18 have many faults that cause the relationship to be an impossible relationship.
I know a girl who is dating a senior, and she is my age. as wierd as it may sound, it does work out for them tho, which proves my case that this does not apply to all relationships. But, of most relationships of a highschool age difference (mainly two or more years) that i know of, it just doesnt work out, or their relationship is just whack. (meaning too based on s3x rather than a 'relationship') so yea.. i say age matters when you are maturing. but after highschool, i think it is fine to date people who have age differences cause by then, you know what kind of relationship you want and what you dont want and so forth. You know if you're being played or if you're playing someone. You noe? just my thought.

[*grrfield*]

dun matter unless you're like 5+ years apart....then thats just gross....

[faithin_felix]

everyone may say "age is only a number," but i say age matters. it matters especially if you're like 15 and a guy is 17, or something like that when one or the other or both are under eighteen. if a freshman gurl dates a senoir guy, obviously, there will be differences in both maturity and thought AND what they expect from the relationship. for instance, the gurl could want a mature, good, solid, long-term relationship where as the guy could want a sex-life based relationship that would end quickly or possibly in a night. If a senior girl is dating a freshman guy, it could mean that the girl wants a sexual life, or the gurl is dating the guy because she feels that he is "cute" and like a younger sibling where as the guy really loves the gurl or what not. It may not always be the case, but most relationships with much age difference before 18 have many faults that cause the relationship to be an impossible relationship.
I know a girl who is dating a senior, and she is my age. as wierd as it may sound, it does work out for them tho, which proves my case that this does not apply to all relationships. But, of most relationships of a highschool age difference (mainly two or more years) that i know of, it just doesnt work out, or their relationship is just whack. (meaning too based on s3x rather than a 'relationship') so yea.. i say age matters when you are maturing. but after highschool, i think it is fine to date people who have age differences cause by then, you know what kind of relationship you want and what you dont want and so forth. You know if you're being played or if you're playing someone. You noe? just my thought.

ohhh, wow such a long post, but i read all of it! well i am not a senior, i am 15, does it matter? she is like few months older. what about that?

[angel-roh]

i posted up already.......but...didnt u think about ashton kutcher and demi moore... i think thats disgusting, but for u...it's ok!! i mean 2, 3, or 4 years is ok!!

[phatty]

i dont think age matters. if 2 ppl like each other then age shouldn't come between them

[LatinaLady]

i dont hink age matters at all. its just about thepeople and if they like eachother then good if not dont be together.

[NawtyLilAznChic]

ehh age shouldnt matta but mostly tha older guys uses tha younger grl fa sex, so if u do go out wit sumone older u havta b careful, im 16 n i dated a 21yr old, i always held out on him but he didnt mind so its not in all cases but now im datin sumone who's 18 [19 in may] n hes soo swt, i wuv him so much

i've always dated sumone who was lyk at least 2 yrs older than me, i think grls date older guys cuz it makes us feel safe or sumthin lyk that

[ana8]

I've to agree..I always prefered guys 2,3 years older than me coz I felt safe with them...Besides the whole sex part that is...

[Caitlin]

to me its about maturity but then it really all depends.

[f00LisH_h3aRt63]

like the cliche says..."age ain't nothing but a number". i dont think that it matters what age a person is. but it can matter when one is not of age...illegal. but other than that age isnt a matter.

jackie

[NawtyLilAznChic]

Theres a law somewhere that allows 3 years difference if your 18 and dating a minor, but you can't engage in sexual activity.

i dont think there r n e datin law at all cuz its stupid, me n my ex were talkin bout it lyk a few weeks ago, he told me that there were no datin laws n that it wouldnt make n e sense if there was, cuz for example, ur 14 n ur datin a 17 yr old, n uve been datin fa a long time etc etc, wat if his 18th birthday rolls by n ur still 14? u havta break up jus cuz one day passed?

[anna_banana08]

... it shouldn't be the case i guess. but a girl dating a younger guy? i dunno... well that's my opinion.

[faithin_felix]

... it shouldn't be the case i guess. but a girl dating a younger guy? i dunno... well that's my opinion.

that is every girls opinion for some reason, mostly because i think for safety, and like ana8 said, the sex part. but its all up to you to trust whoever you want, this arguement is like 50/50, undecided. some still say its just a number, and that is what i'm with.