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Sometimes I feel like, I'm invisible
parallel
post Mar 17 2005, 09:42 PM
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it's a phase, dun worry you'll get over it 

I've been through this so many times though! pinch.gif

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I take too many things to heart. My friends know this yet they still feel the need to make fun of me, even just for the little things. I act so nice around everyone. I think that's why my "close" friends see me as the go-to person when they feel horrible and need help ficing their problems. So I'm kind of invisible in a visible way. I'm invisible because I'm a push-over, yet visible only when someone needs my help.

Wow..me too..and I remember once I was talking to my friend about something and then these girls come up and then they all start talking and she acts like I'm not even there! But you know..I'm not the kind of person who you can push around so I just said 'Ok forget it! I guess you really don't care!' and then I walk away..with attitude shifty.gif Also..when I walk around with my one friend we usually walk by a lot of people in this one area and this girl goes..'Hey Carrie!' (My friend)..and then she's all..'Oh hi Kayla..' (that's me..) I was like..'OH Hi!' gosh..people these days..and it's funny cuz my close friends who actually care how I feel start giving me more attention when they notice that I'm all down in the dumps..so then it makes me feel like crap.. stubborn.gif But I guess it happens to everyone..
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 09:45 PM
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Hm, yeah it happens to me sometimes in awhile. Like my friend, Doolie _dry.gif when i was on the phone with him. we were 3 way phone calling...and toddie and doolie was taking to each other on the phone while i was silence and they both said that they needed to go... they said bye to each other with using their names, but not mine... it was very sad and depressing, felt like i was invisible to them. it was just so sad that i was mad at them actually haha.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 09:45 PM
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Yes, I feel like that a lot of the time.

In fact, that is how I feel at the moment.
My friends = ignoring me for their boyfriends and I can't even say anything to them. They just ignore me completely.
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 02:22 AM
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i know and understand what you are going through. i have a lot of friends but there are times when i feel very alone and invisible when i'm with them. i think its just a phase that we all go through. don't worry, you'll be fine (:
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 04:47 AM
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Not really.
But if it happens to me, I'll go, " Ooyy, dudes! talk to me too!!! "
I'm very weird. XD
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 01:27 PM
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Not really.
But if it happens to me, I'll go, " Ooyy, dudes! talk to me too!!! "
I'm very weird. XD

I kinda do that too.. mellow.gif
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 01:42 PM
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I feel like that too and I have people around me 24/7...Don't feel bad. :D it'll get better...I hope :D
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 01:54 PM
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Yes I tend to always feel left out and invisible between my friends. And it makes me often question are they even my friends or if they even care about me. I also feel invisble with certain types of friends, like my Asian friends. Because I'm half Asian at times I get left out because of that. But yeah, I've felt similar to the way you feel.
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 03:09 PM
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It sucks to feel all..'left out' and all..but it only happens once in a while..it's weird though..I also hate it when me and my friends are walking in a group and like all of a sudden..I'm behind everyone! No one is walking with me..I'm all alone in the back of the group..and it pisses me off! Lol..but then again there's this situation..:'OH! So and so go out? Omg tell everyone!'..yeah..everyone except me..I'm always the last person to know those kinda things because no one tells me anything! That's what I say to my friends..they go..'Gosh Kayla..your so slow! Like everyone knew that about 3 days ago!' Or something like that..gah..I wish friends could read each others minds.. mellow.gif
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 08:54 PM
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heh, we gone the s a m e situation like 1000000000000 XX times alrdy ... i'm kind of use to being igore by someone else like .. i'm invisble .. anyways, i felt like a loner ..
 
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post Mar 19 2005, 01:29 PM
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sometimes that happens to me....but it doesn't happen alot.
 
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post Mar 19 2005, 03:36 PM
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ya i know what u mean...i used to be like that...but then i realized that i was the one hu was acted like i didnt want to be included b/c i was feeling sad...lol..so ya..give urself some time...and if u feel as if u feel like ur invisible talk to them and try to say something when they r talking...and there r some ppl in the world hu dont really think about how others r feeling...
 
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post Mar 19 2005, 10:08 PM
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like most of the time.....and i hate my friends for not caring...but i don't care about those bitches...
i never feel invisble by my family though
 
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post Mar 20 2005, 03:55 AM
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Hahahaha...

almost every day...

but in my head I'm thinking "Screw you. I'm going to college anyway. Probably won't ever see you again."

And magically, I'm not so hurt anymore.
 
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post Mar 20 2005, 05:12 AM
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I totally agree with you!!!
I sometimes feel ignored by my friends.
It's really depressing.
 
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post Mar 21 2005, 06:42 PM
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ya i know what u mean...i used to be like that...but then i realized that i was the one hu was acted like i didnt want to be included b/c i was feeling sad...lol..so ya..give urself some time...and if u feel as if u feel like ur invisible talk to them and try to say something when they r talking...and there r some ppl in the world hu dont really think about how others r feeling...

Sometimes when I try to talk to them..they ignore me.. _dry.gif
 
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post Mar 21 2005, 06:49 PM
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ya.. sometimes i feel like that... and sometimes, i feel like having no friends at all ><"
 
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post Mar 21 2005, 06:57 PM
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QUOTE(aznxdreamer @ Mar 17 2005, 7:08 PM)
maybe you are invisible. *twilight zone music*
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That happens to me, but it's usually just one person. They don't mean it intentionally. Just talk to them more?
 
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post Mar 21 2005, 08:00 PM
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Hmm, I used to feel "invisible" when I was around my friends, but I haven't felt that way lately. I know what you mean, though.
 
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post Mar 21 2005, 08:48 PM
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That happens to me everytime I'm around most of my 'friends.' -_-
 
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post Mar 21 2005, 08:59 PM
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That happens to me, but it's usually just one person. They don't mean it intentionally. Just talk to them more?

Oh no I talk to them a lot..I mean..they're my friends..I'm not a loner or anything and it's not a phase I'm going through or anything..it's just..something that happens out of the blue you know? Just like mostly everyone said..'It happens sometimes'..that's the thing..it's not intentionally done to me or anything it just happens..and sometimes it happens when you or they don't realize it..so I don't think they mean it in a rude way..it's probably a misunderstanding or something..but for me and my situation..it's not like I'm saying 'Omg I'm gonna die from depression, my friends ignore me..they hate me' that's not what I mean..I just mean..well, why do they do this? Does this happen to everyone? Sometimes it hurts, sometimes no because I realize that they're doing it without realizing it..but oh well, their mistake right? I guess it's just a habit for some people to either ignore, or misunderstand something..it's ok though..(am I repeating myself? lol..) so yah..sorry if none of you get this (like I said before)..it's just..hard to express your feelings, etc. on the computer lol..(gah so much typing!) Is this what you guys mean too when you responded?
 
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post Mar 21 2005, 09:00 PM
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i guess ive felt like that but it wasnt for a really long time just for a week..is that a long time?...
 
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post Mar 21 2005, 09:49 PM
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^Er..I'm not sure. No? I guess it can be a phase if you put it that way...but it happens now and then.
 
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post Apr 20 2005, 09:12 PM
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ur not the only one
i feel that way too...
not only around friends, but also around family.

i cant do anything right either. im useless and hopeless
(my parents say)
 
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post Apr 20 2005, 09:12 PM
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We all have those days, some more than others. console.gif
 

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