How should i get him?, how should i get a guy i like........... Options

[sksoccer08]

I went out with this guy..nd we broke up..i still like him but he doesnt like me anymore..we talk about but everytime i am around him he like flirts with me... do you guys have any advice on how i can get guys to like me..nd then get them to ask me out some how instead of them just flirting with me all the time?..i have to bring up that i am shy when it comes to guys.. advice! plz!

[Chii]

okay first of all...get over your ex boyfriend, you have to do that before you get into any other relationships, make sure you're not on the rebound

second, i read that men like to have to chase women because it's a challenge...so stop the excessive flirting, it makes you seem easy. if you wait awhile, a new prince will come

[LittleLulu]

...u cant reli "make" a guy like u. there r no like spells or w.e

jus be urself n i he doesn't like u than u shudn't CHANGE who u r so he will.... if he doesn't like u than its HIS loss.... u'lll find the guy 4 u=) dun wurry bout it

[topsyturvy]

second, i read that men like to have to chase women because it's a challenge...so stop the excessive flirting, it makes you seem easy.

^ It's true. That's why I can't stand people who "suddenly have crushes on" anybody that flirts with them. I mean, are they that desperate?!

Anyway, your guy is either still missing you or just a complete a-hole. Why did you guys break up if you still like him and he still flirts with you?

[dahding]

maybe his "flirting" isn't really flirting. who knows. maybe he's just an idiot.

and u can't make a guy like u. there ain't no voodoo spells or what not that u can use. at least, none that i know of. get to be his friend. talk about things. build ur relationship. drop some hints. etc etc.

or, u can always knock them out and keep them in a cage in ur basement.

but that's just weird.

[_sarcastic_]

i agree with chii

there is nothing you can do to make a guy like you. just act normal, leave obvious hints, etc...
forget about your ex, he seems like he's leading you on...

[to-devastate]

i agree with above ^. You can't make someone like you. You could try to lessen on the flirting... and play hard to get. If you flirt too much, it'll seem like you're desperate.

[Shattered_Hope]

you could flirt less and play hard to get...guys go for girls who don't seem interested in them...

[yeseulx3]

get another guy.

[CreateBlob]

^Ahhh chocolate covered pretzels are gooodddd.

Anyway, you shouldn't believe in persuading him. If he doesn't like you, then he doesn't. Never ever try to get someone, because it ruins who you really are.

[Levy2k6]

or accidentaly drop something in front of him and see if he picks it up.. and see if anything goes from there.

[yukichan]

u cant make a guy like u..just be ur self...dont go chasing after a guy..it isnt a good thing..just wait for the right guy to come to u...

[pinayprincess]

i think u shud get ova him kuz it sound lyk hez movin on...

[SimplicityGirl]

You can learn to like someone, but you can't make someone like you.

Sounds like he's moving on...and maybe it's time you should too.

And as for getting guys to like you...being funny, out-going, and self-confident defintely helps, but there is no "set formula" for getting a bf. And a lot of it has to do with timing too...love finds you when you least expect it...so dont' stress over it! Be yourself, and the guy for you will come along. Don't worry!

[jambaJUICE]

Ugh, get over him. Stop trying to get him. You had him once, you shouldn't want him again. If he wants you, then he'll come and get you. Don't chase boys. ANNDD, you cant make a boy like you. The more you do that, the more they'll like your friend .